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Post by mnmhughes on Fri Jun 03, 2011 3:22 pm

I actually, shockingly, find myself agreeing with RS when he says this:

"He’s a jackass for saying the stuff he did, but for the show to act like they couldn’t have stepped in and stopped this, and kicked him off the show themselves, or gone to Ashley and showed her his ITM’s and what he saying behind her back, shows you how hypocritical they are. “It’s not our job. We need to let Ashley figure this out on her own. Everything is in Ashley’s hands.” Such BS. Then don’t promote him like you are. Doesn’t this basically show that they don’t give a sh** about Ashley either? So she’s your lead character in the show, the one who’s here to find a husband, you can clearly see that Bentley is acting one way towards her when he’s with her, yet trashing her behind her back in his ITM’s, and you don’t think it’s your job to inform her? You don’t think you should step in and say something? You think by saying, “It’s her journey, she needs to find this out on her own” is an honorable answer? Ha ha. That’s laughable. It’s just proof the show absolutely loves what Bentley is doing. Think people. If they truly cared about Ashley’s feelings, they never would’ve let it get to this point. They knew what footage they had on film of Bentley saying things behind her back, yet purposely kept it from Ashley because they wanted it to play out for TV sake."
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Post by Bronwyn on Fri Jun 03, 2011 3:31 pm

How long has this guy been covering this show? How can he be surprised or shocked or disgusted or whatever he is pretending to be? Of course they were behind the Bentley stuff, of course they knew from the very beginning, of course they're not going to step in and try to protect Ashley. This is what they live for and love. The total humiliation of these people. Didn't Fleiss brag on twitter that he had found the biggest douchebag this show had ever seen? He was and is ecstatic with the Bentley fiasco. He's in heaven right now.

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Post by Alanna on Fri Jun 03, 2011 3:58 pm

@mnmhughes wrote:I guess I'm just mean enough that I can't muster up any pity for him! :giggle:

No really, Steve is barking up the wrong tree here. Bentley is a despicable human being. I don't care what TPTB told him, did to him, promised to him, etc. He made this decision and there's no excuse for his behavior, even if she is happy and in love with someone else.
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Post by nd4reality on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:02 pm

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@mnmhughes wrote:I guess I'm just mean enough that I can't muster up any pity for him! :giggle:

No pity here. He dug his own grave with the derrogatory words he spewed.

Gets no pitty here either, I mean after 20 seasons of this show..Yes the producers can ask questions, but you as the contestant has the right to answer said question and in his case if he didnt want his words twisted , spliced etc...he should have said nothing or said very little and chose his words a little more wisely. :yes:




I just wanted to say ............. I love your Avi!!!
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Post by Guest on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:07 pm

RS answered an email on his blog today with this. (this makes me sad), and I don't see how her F1 can deal with it, frankly.
I totally expected RS to say it was all an act and she never fell for Bentley and it was a scripted drama.(sigh)
"Ashley wasn’t in on anything. For whatever reason, she absolutely fell head over heels for Bentley. Of course now she’s seeing all the stuff he was saying about her for the first time and I’m sure she wants to puke. But in the moment, while this was going on, the guy was being charming to her face and saying all the right things. So I don’t fault her for liking the guy, other than she probably just should’ve put more stock into what Michelle Money warned her about before the season"

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Post by Alanna on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:15 pm

@Gina wrote:RS answered an email on his blog today with this. (this makes me sad), and I don't see how her F1 can deal with it, frankly.
I totally expected RS to say it was all an act and she never fell for Bentley and it was a scripted drama.(sigh)
"Ashley wasn’t in on anything. For whatever reason, she absolutely fell head over heels for Bentley. Of course now she’s seeing all the stuff he was saying about her for the first time and I’m sure she wants to puke. But in the moment, while this was going on, the guy was being charming to her face and saying all the right things. So I don’t fault her for liking the guy, other than she probably just should’ve put more stock into what Michelle Money warned her about before the season"

It was two weeks into filming and she was overwhelmed and he was there, taking control and letting her be wooed. I agree it looks really damning though, but I hope her F1 can forgive her and move on. heartbeat
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Post by mnmhughes on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:17 pm

@Alanna wrote:
@Gina wrote:RS answered an email on his blog today with this. (this makes me sad), and I don't see how her F1 can deal with it, frankly.
I totally expected RS to say it was all an act and she never fell for Bentley and it was a scripted drama.(sigh)
"Ashley wasn’t in on anything. For whatever reason, she absolutely fell head over heels for Bentley. Of course now she’s seeing all the stuff he was saying about her for the first time and I’m sure she wants to puke. But in the moment, while this was going on, the guy was being charming to her face and saying all the right things. So I don’t fault her for liking the guy, other than she probably just should’ve put more stock into what Michelle Money warned her about before the season"

It was two weeks into filming and she was overwhelmed and he was there, taking control and letting her be wooed. I agree it looks really damning, but I hope he F1 can forgive her and move on. heartbeat

I sure hope so! I'm sure her F1 has also gone through bad relationships, where you thought you were in love and that the person was THE ONE, only to get burned in the end.

IMO, if her F1 is upset with Ashley after she has been publicly humiliated, he is not much of a man. no His anger and frustration should be placed solely upon TPTB and Bentley's shoulders.
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Post by Guest on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:18 pm

@Alanna wrote:
@Gina wrote:RS answered an email on his blog today with this. (this makes me sad), and I don't see how her F1 can deal with it, frankly.
I totally expected RS to say it was all an act and she never fell for Bentley and it was a scripted drama.(sigh)
"Ashley wasn’t in on anything. For whatever reason, she absolutely fell head over heels for Bentley. Of course now she’s seeing all the stuff he was saying about her for the first time and I’m sure she wants to puke. But in the moment, while this was going on, the guy was being charming to her face and saying all the right things. So I don’t fault her for liking the guy, other than she probably just should’ve put more stock into what Michelle Money warned her about before the season"

It was two weeks into filming and she was overwhelmed and he was there, taking control and letting her be wooed. I agree it looks really damning though, but I hope her F1 can forgive her and move on. heartbeat
I agree and I'm sure she is reassuring him while it all unfolds on the screen. I believe JP has the confidence, maturity and wisdom to see through the mindf**k they did to Ashely on the show with Bentley.

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Post by Admin on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:21 pm

@Alanna wrote:
@Gina wrote:RS answered an email on his blog today with this. (this makes me sad), and I don't see how her F1 can deal with it, frankly.
I totally expected RS to say it was all an act and she never fell for Bentley and it was a scripted drama.(sigh)
"Ashley wasn’t in on anything. For whatever reason, she absolutely fell head over heels for Bentley. Of course now she’s seeing all the stuff he was saying about her for the first time and I’m sure she wants to puke. But in the moment, while this was going on, the guy was being charming to her face and saying all the right things. So I don’t fault her for liking the guy, other than she probably just should’ve put more stock into what Michelle Money warned her about before the season"

It was two weeks into filming and she was overwhelmed and he was there, taking control and letting her be wooed. I agree it looks really damning though, but I hope her F1 can forgive her and move on. heartbeat

I guess what makes me feel better is thinking back on the Ali/Frank leaving so close to the FRC situation. Now Ali is happy and in love with the man she chose because the one she thought she wanted(Frank) left her. I'm hoping this is Ali's season #2. laugh out loud
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Post by Starshine_16 on Fri Jun 03, 2011 5:24 pm

San wrote:
I guess what makes me feel better is thinking back on the Ali/Frank leaving so close to the FRC situation. Now Ali is happy and in love with the man she chose because the one she thought she wanted(Frank) left her. I'm hoping this is Ali's season #2. lol

Exactly!

Bentley pulls his stunts earlier and then leaves allowing Ashley to develop real feelings for another guy. When he returns Ashley has already moved on and she has a new F1 in her mind. Something Jill for some reason couldn't do.
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Post by realityfan26 on Fri Jun 03, 2011 6:15 pm

@mnmhughes wrote:

I sure hope so! I'm sure her F1 has also gone through bad relationships, where you thought you were in love and that the person was THE ONE, only to get burned in the end.

IMO, if her F1 is upset with Ashley after she has been publicly humiliated, he is not much of a man. no His anger and frustration should be placed solely upon TPTB and Bentley's shoulders.

I completely agree. As long as Ashely and her F1 communicate, it should all be good. CH referred to this bunch of guys as more mature and that's what will help with the Bentley fallout!
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Post by Di_ATL on Fri Jun 03, 2011 6:53 pm

@realityfan26 wrote:
@mnmhughes wrote:

I sure hope so! I'm sure her F1 has also gone through bad relationships, where you thought you were in love and that the person was THE ONE, only to get burned in the end.

IMO, if her F1 is upset with Ashley after she has been publicly humiliated, he is not much of a man. no His anger and frustration should be placed solely upon TPTB and Bentley's shoulders.

I completely agree. As long as Ashely and her F1 communicate, it should all be good. CH referred to this bunch of guys as more mature and that's what will help with the Bentley fallout!

The only thing that bothers me, is if JP is her final1...I certainly hope that his worst attributes that he answered in his bio questionaire do not come to the forefront while they are watching this season unfold as it is being shown to us.

Here is how he answered:
What are your 3 worst attributes? Stubborn. Frustrated too easily when things don't go my way. Lack of patience.

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