Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

Umngirl, Ben is hosting a watch party with JJ at some restaurant in Denver tonight. Go meet him!


https://twitter.com/HighlandTapDen/status/613034483823079424

Darn! I work til 7 and it would take 90 minutes to get there. So I'm not sure it's really worth my trouble this time.

BlackHalo wrote:Umngirl, Ben is hosting a watch party with JJ at some restaurant in Denver tonight. Go meet him!
https://twitter.com/HighlandTapDen/status/613034483823079424

JJ posted about it on his twitter with a photo https://twitter.com/jjhlane/status/613028079754022912

For some reason JJ looks much better post show. And his daughter really is adorable.

IA. They are both looking good. Relaxed. Funny how the edit of this show really can bring out the not so great parts that even a guys looks get affected (more attractive or less attractive).

Sorry for double post. It looks like Ben's other thread is still open.

Longhornfan wrote:IMHO, Ben Higgins was too "normal" a guy (read: no drama) for Kaitlyn.  I am starting to think that she might not actually know what a relationship without drama is really like, and she would find a nice, normal guy like Ben boring in real life.

I honestly do not see Ben as a guy who enjoys heavy drinking, getting sloppy drunk and hanging out at clubs either.  He seems too mature for Kaitlyn in some ways.  I am actually glad that she did not choose him.

Old habits die hard.
Posted awhile ago that I think Kailtyn wants the not so nice guy but probably needs the nice guy.
Less up and down and more stability in a long term relationship with the nice guy but it is sometimes hard to figure that out.

Even Kaitlyn has said that Ben is the marrying type.
That he is marriage material.
Sometimes marriage material = boring... but that's the best kind of boring, imho. :Nod:

Won't be surprised if Ben was taken to F3 or leaves before then (no FS, since the horseriding is not FS), didn't sleep with K, and is given the bach gig.
His lack of SM posts related to the show make me think he is either not wanting to do anything with the show, or wants to distance himself from the show so when he is Bachelor it will make his "good guy" edit more credible.
Hope he can Sean it up b/c he is in for a rough ride if he accepts being lead - good guy or not. JMO

RS said he is a top contender to be the Bachelor.

NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

Good. He is the much better (younger and also hotter) version of what Josh Murray wants to be one day.

So I guess he does want the bach gig. For my own viewing pleasure, I would like Ben in the role over Josh. But he better not do/say anything stupid or America will turn on him.

Maybe they are looking for a tamer season after this messy season.

I like him for Bachelor! So what if he probably doesn't wanna get married anytime soon? Par for the course.

I so hope the number of followers on his insta and twitter accts soar...he's def worthy of watching 25 women trying to snag him!

I wouldn't mind watching a season of him. For me, that would be refreshing.