Bachelor In Paradise - Season 2 - Episode Discussions - #3 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Carly Waddell ‏@carlywaddell
Is this a muscle sandwich...like knuckle sandwich but with muscles...????(get it?) #tequilajokes #BachelorInParadise

elan gale ‏@theyearofelan
Tonight is the #BachelorInParadise finale and as you can see @chrisbharrison and I are ready

Carly Waddell ‏@carlywaddell  
Here is my statement. #bachelorinparadise ‘Blindsided. A song for Kirk.’ by carlywaddell on #SoundCloud? #np https://soundcloud.com/carlywaddell/blindsided-a-song-for-kirk-1?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_campaign=share&utm_medium=twitter …
Blindsided. A song for Kirk.
Bachelor 19, Bachelor in Paradise 2 Music is my souls language. Here I allow it to speak. I made these myself on garage band. Unprofessional. Raw. Emotional. Real. Enjoy.

For the most part these contestants want to stay in paradise for as limping as they can. So they keep accepting roses or doing all they can in order to stay. Talk about the bubble effect.
Ch talking about real life commitments put a break on these relationships.

I ave not watched yet but there breakups r sad though expected because tbh, which of them seem ready to commit after 3 weeks?

I got to see AshleyI's real nails for the first time during the cab ride to the airport.

what the deal with all of the screenshots? Is that for people who might have missed the show?

we are viewers saw every week Kirk say Carly was going to fast. How did she not pick up on his feelings

Kirk should have told Carly his concerns sooner. And when someone says that they don't want to talk to you or look at you, walk away. He wanted to continue the conversation to make himself feel better, not her. I'm glad she didn't give him that.

Can someone explain the 5 week thing? The show only films for 3. Does this mean they were talking for two weeks before hand?

I think Carly's reaction would have been the same if Kirk had told her sooner. I think anything short of a fairytale ending in her mind would have been devasting. And Kirk did voice some hesitations about moving too fast on their 1-on-1 date.

Carly felt used because they probably had sex and it's all Kirk's fault because he led her on in what 2 weeks?

I don't think it matters when Kirk told her he didn't think they should go any further. She would have reacted the same IMO.

Not saying that Carly still wouldn't have freaked out? But it is still error on his part to wait to til the last minute. Jared told Ashley I. a few times that he really wasn't feeling it and she made the decision to keep pursuing him. Kirk should have told Carly it was going too fast as soon as he realized. She said he wasn't being vulnerable with her so he'd known for a while he really wasn't into it. JMO.

The cast go on this show knowing the format, then get upset when things don't work out. Go figure.
My take is most go on this show and continue to go on this show for exposure, Carly included.
I am sure I am not the only one who found this site.link
All it is basically is a commercial to pay and see Carly. I have a very hard time finding much empathy for any cast person in this age group still trying to find themselves by making a buck off of their grade C/D personality. I say: whatever. Next?