Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #5

Any updates on BenLo? People shoot should be coming up soon .

https://www.instagram.com/p/BCwZSvnIRlI/?taken-by=whitjyoung&hl=en

Lauren's friend posted that quote. Do you think it's about Lauren?

dyra wrote:We need Monday to come over as soon as possible, hang on guys. 

4 days to go !

I don't think ATFR does much to end speculations. People see what they want to see/expect to see. Fans will see love and happiness, non-fans will see tension and people on the fence might see one or the other. We won't know who's right until the wedding/breakup.

mindless wrote:

dyra wrote:We need Monday to come over as soon as possible, hang on guys. 

4 days to go !

I don't think ATFR does much to end speculations. People see what they want to see/expect to see. Fans will see love and happiness, non-fans will see tension and people on the fence might see one or the other. We won't know who's right until the wedding/breakup.

Exactly, mindless!  All the AFTR does, IMO is bring closure to the is she F1 speculation and fully confirm it.  The rag mags don't go away, they'll just change what they're reporting/manufacturing, from supposed behind the scenes knowledge to break up, cheating, etc. rumors, etc.  And those can occur even if/when they get married!    

The quicker this couple gets back to real normal life, going back to work, surrounding themselves with friends and family and stays out of the public eye, the quicker the press will forget about them.  And that's when we get a good read on them and where they stand, IMO.

JMOAA.

It's fairly easy to ignore the noise, if you want to. Don't live your life on social media and have good communication. All the tabloid drama will just be for the curious fans, none of it will necessarily effect the couple. I'm pretty sure Jennifer Aniston and george clooney manage to live their lives and have no clue what the tabloids say.

mindless wrote:

dyra wrote:We need Monday to come over as soon as possible, hang on guys. 

4 days to go !

I don't think ATFR does much to end speculations. People see what they want to see/expect to see. Fans will see love and happiness, non-fans will see tension and people on the fence might see one or the other. We won't know who's right until the wedding/breakup.

Truth. If anything, it will just stir up more drama and controversy. Right now is basically the calm before the storm.

Fingersandtoes wrote:It's fairly easy to ignore the noise, if you want to. Don't live your life on social media and have good communication. All the tabloid drama will just be for the curious fans, none of it will necessarily effect the couple. I'm pretty sure Jennifer Aniston and george clooney manage to live their lives and have no clue what the tabloids say.

If you are in the public eye, it's pretty hard to ignore the tabloids. They just choose to not let it bother them.

sophienette wrote:plus Ben and Ryan met at Janner wedding....

That wasn't the first time they met.  If I remember correctly, Trista isn't big on spoilers (someone CMIIW), but it wouldn't surprise me if Ryan knew all about Ben's season's drama and who his F1 was.  

The pic is from 36 weeks ago.  It was discussed and speculated (here on the board), at the time that he was probably asking them for advice.

higgins.ben  It is a good morning when you run into some of Colorado's favorite people #fanguying

This article is dated July 15, 2015.  

"I actually ran into Trista and Ryan Sutter this past week," he said of the first Bachelorette and her winner, who have been married for almost 15 years and have two children together. "I think seeing them gives me hope that this works."

Source

Ladybug82 wrote:

sophienette wrote:plus Ben and Ryan met at Janner wedding....

That wasn't the first time they met.  If I remember correctly, Trista isn't big on spoilers (someone CMIIW), but it wouldn't surprise me if Ryan knew all about Ben's season's drama and who his F1 was.  

The pic is from 36 weeks ago.  It was discussed and speculated at the time that he was probably asking them for advice.

higgins.ben  It is a good morning when you run into some of Colorado's favorite people #fanguying

This article is dated July 15, 2015.  

"I actually ran into Trista and Ryan Sutter this past week," he said of the first Bachelorette and her winner, who have been married for almost 15 years and have two children together. "I think seeing them gives me hope that this works."

Source

Remembering Ryan's quote: Pick Lauren.

ForeverLove wrote:I remember when Ben said he saw an article that said he was dating his ex after his stint on the Bette. He laughed  that he learned so much from the tabloids because he didn't know he was dating his ex.

Where did Ben say this? I want to see, Forever.

Mommyof1 wrote:

Fingersandtoes wrote:It's fairly easy to ignore the noise, if you want to. Don't live your life on social media and have good communication. All the tabloid drama will just be for the curious fans, none of it will necessarily effect the couple. I'm pretty sure Jennifer Aniston and george clooney manage to live their lives and have no clue what the tabloids say.

If you are in the public eye, it's pretty hard to ignore the tabloids.  They just choose to not let it bother them.

It could be, at first when you're new to it all. But I'm guessing after a few rounds of 'they're breaking up/she's pregnant/he's cheating/we have all the wedding details it just becomes background noise.

I could never be in the public eye, that's for sure.

charmained wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:I remember when Ben said he saw an article that said he was dating his ex after his stint on the Bette. He laughed  that he learned so much from the tabloids because he didn't know he was dating his ex.

Where did Ben say this? I want to see, Forever.

I'm looking for it now. It was an earlier vid. Will keep you posted.

Correction: He said he sometime learns about his life through tabloids. He said, rumors come out of nowhere
I'm still checking for the one about his GF
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