Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

She wanted second but no chemistry, hit it and quit it with Josh. God help my soul. I am glad I aint buying that book it aint worth it. Gutter rat and bunny boiler bitch.

Is she some kind of masochist? She felt empowered having sex again with a man she claims emotionally abused her and she wondered if she would have sex again with a man whom she claims to hate and outed her on TV. What the eff is wrong with her?

Also does she think she was getting back at #26 by hitting and quitting it? I always laugh at women who think that. Oh they just don't understand men at all. All the man is thinking is at least he got laid. I'm not sure why she feels empowered by that.


All JMO.

Andi, you are a sad, strange little woman.

bluwavz wrote:Is she some kind of masochist? She felt empowered having sex again with a man she claims emotionally abused her and she wondered if she would have sex again with a man whom she claims to hate and outed her on TV. What the eff is wrong with her?

Also does she think she was getting back at #26 by hitting and quitting it? I always laugh at women who think that. Oh they just don't understand men at all. All the man is thinking is at least he got laid. I'm not sure why she feels empowered by that.


All JMO.

Because, IMO, Andi is a narcissist so whether it is masochism or sadism, as long as it's all about "ME-Andi" that's all that matters to her.

http://www.bustle.com/articles/160990-why-nick-vialls-sex-talk-with-andi-dorfman-on-the-bachelorette-was-such-a-big-deal

I'm honestly utterly disgusted by her at this point -- her lack of self-awareness is shocking

Supposedly, she says getting over a breakup is harder than battling an illness -- a commenter on instagram was a fan but then was disappointed because of that comment.

bluwavz wrote:Is she some kind of masochist? She felt empowered having sex again with a man she claims emotionally abused her and she wondered if she would have sex again with a man whom she claims to hate and outed her on TV. What the eff is wrong with her?

Also does she think she was getting back at #26 by hitting and quitting it? I always laugh at women who think that. Oh they just don't understand men at all. All the man is thinking is at least he got laid. I'm not sure why she feels empowered by that.


All JMO.

That's what I was thinking, who was empowered by who?

umngirl wrote:Andi, you are a sad, strange little woman.

Interesting way to say this umgirl.  I just can not see any reason that a woman with intelligence.  Yes, she did graduate from law school so she has some intelligence would ever write a book like this... indeed this is "strange and sad."  I wonder if any of her friends or family advised her against this.  How could anyone that cares about her let her actually write this?  I think it is publicly embarrassing for her.  Also just unkind.

And then this: source

4. People, you've got to quit obsessing over Andi's law career. 
She describes being constantly peppered with condescending questions about why on earth a lawyer would ever want to go on a reality show, and why she isn't back in the courtroom. "What I really want to say in response is, 'Fork off. Are you still working at your first job? Oh, you're not? How dare you make a career change?'" BOOM.

So I guess the real statement should be--People you've got to quit obsessing over MEandI not working at all. 
What she really wants to say is : Fork you! My dad is richer than your dad and if he says I can stay home and hang my thongs from the toaster and eat sushi, I will. BOOM!

The social media audience is lapping this up -- she's getting a lot of admiring comments and fan messages they say they are loving her honesty, "you go girl" etc etc.

If my own daughter wrote that book, I'd be investing in a really good disguise to go out in public, and looking into moving to some very, very remote area to hide. I could not even pretend to be "proud" and I like to think I'm pretty supportive of my kids' choices even when I don't agree with them. This one would cross my line of being able to even feign being supportive.

She is a joke and an embarrassment.

So how's that career change in fashion, MeAndI? Have you designed anything since that sheet you wore to the live premiere? How about your web series? When does that come out?