MAFS - Season 4 - Nick Pendergrast - Sonia Granados

I could be wrong but I think they are doing just fine at least from their IG's.

^^^I check up on them every once in awhile and that is impression that I get too. They are pretty low key.

Something did happen around a week ago and I'm still not sure what exactly. There were mentions of possible cheating (by Sonia) and hacking (by Nick?) as well as cryptic IG comments and quotes. Sonia also did an IG live, but her account is private, so I guess I can't say much about that. But things don't seem fine to me at the moment, unless they're just attention seeking. It's all very strange and vague.

Yes, this is the vibe I was getting....

Mindless...ah, got it. Thanks for clarifying. I had not checked recently. They are very private and never seemed to overly hype relationship, but seemed together so made me have hope they were working on things.

Sonia is going to Costa Rica tomorrow? Doesn't look good, folks...

provenceguy wrote:Sonia is going to Costa Rica tomorrow?  Doesn't look good, folks...

With family maybe based on this?

https://twitter.com/sonia_mafs/status/836927362474344449

Yes, to see family, but no Nick???

She's been to Costa Rica before without Nick, so I'd be more surprised if he was going with her considering they're clearly going through something, whatever it is.

While I agree something is going on...and there have been a lot of vague ties and mixed signal type of posts...I do have a theory that has not been mentioned...

Sonia went quiet on Twitter for a little bit...then when she came back on she said the reason for her twitter absence was something to the affect of she "was busy at work," ...then another tweet to someone saying something about she went to court... "to see if it was even possible if we could adopt." I thought these were telling for a few reasons:

1.) The obvious "WE" statement.
2.) In one of the episodes she talked about maybe adopting.
3.) Nick didn't really say much about the "adopting," part. I'm thinking he would prefer his own kids...but I don't see him minding adopting...I just think most people have their own first.

4.) To me the whole "if we could adopt," makes me think there is a crisis or urgent need for the child...orphaned child...abused child...maybe Nick isn't opposed to kids or adoption, but perhaps the circumstances or timing under which they may exist...maybe he isn't ready to co-parent with Sonia in the sense that they have not even had their first year of marriage yet.

5.) I'm thinking if they are trying to adopt maybe the child is in CR...or it is a relative...Sonia maybe be choosing to handle it herself because she speaks the language and understand the process of adoption better than Nick due to her job.

Again...don't know...but think this maybe a serious possibility...which maybe causing Nick to be more reflective...what do ya'll think?

....or, re: adopting, one of them is unable to have children.....

@desilucy2 thanks for sharing your opinion. I don't think they would be checking into adoption if there were issues in their marriage, so that's a good sign.

If that's what they are looking into, I wish them luck. That would be wonderful for them and for the child IMO.