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Bachelorette Canada - Season 1 - Jasmine Lorimer - General Sleuthing - S/Caps - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

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Post by Bobette on Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:45 am

@GuardianAngel wrote:

Mom and sister who know- mom just wanted to choose someone who was different – how different - make sure she was with someone who loved her for her

"I wanted to make sure that I wasn't allowing myself to follow any past dating patterns," she says. "I was almost taking this as a lesson to myself, too, and a growing experience as well."

Lorimer says doing the show taught her a lot about herself and made her realize how much she wants a stable and healthy relationship.


Thanks @GuardianAngel for doing all that research. yes

I love it that Jasmine's so quirky - it's a shame they haven't had more time to show that side of her on-screen.

The three quotes above stood out to me most from the interviews and give me hope it may still be Mikhel for F1.


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Post by 4health on Fri Nov 18, 2016 5:06 am

@Bobette wrote:
@4health wrote:Call me confused again. LOL  We are discussing Jasmine's type and I don't think we really have anything to confirm from her own mouth on screen that has given us any idea of what is her type.  Jasmine in a VO states "oooh, I don't know if I would date him" when she met KW out of the limo.  So, by first impressions he wasn't her type.  

We do have her on screen saying ITM (Ep 7 1:1 ) "I feel really comfortable, and wanted, and desired and safe and I feel better then ever.  Getting through conflict, especially for the first time, it tells a lot about the relationship, and how it is going to be in the future and I feel closer to Kevin now" then directly to Kevin she says "even since out first 1:1, I feel there is a solidness to you and I can count on you, I feel like you can handle yourself, I really like how ...you are strong emotionally, as well as physically, you are like a man, a man in all the ways" then ITM again "there is a real potential for love with Kevin, there is an unexplainable kind of a connection we have.  I feel the intensity we have, and I can see myself falling in love with him."    So, in her own words that Kevin walking out (conflict) they worked it out and made them strong together.  So, with them having another conflict and a great FD night after they worked it out, will this make them even stronger?    

Jasmine reflecting her journey with Mikhel has had no conflict until she says until the RC after HTD and his reaction and then his communication skills or lack of.    Very interesting stuff IMO and KW and J story is being told by Jasmine and how KW answers her concerns either to her face or to her family or to the camera.  

Just a few things to share that I think is the story arc of KW and Jasmine.  The only question does Jasmine take the chance of KW leaving her or has her own inner conflict with KW she just can't take that chance with him because Mikhel's love has surpassed all the conflict.  We shall see!

Jasmine's thinking there - that conflict in a relationship can "have an upside" - worries me.  It reminds me of women in domestic abuse situations who stay because afterwards their partner says he's sorry and he loves them and he won't do it again - except then he does.  I hope Jasmine is not confusing turbulence for passion - good relationships IMO have passion without drama.

@bobette I have to just comment that how can we jump to this very personal assumption in the bold when this is an highly edited TV show and not a true presentation of a person and in a normal situation at all. We are here as fans of this type of show and cannot even imagine what it would be like for ALL participants. There have been many participants in all of the seasons that have been misrepresented and we do not know these people. We all have our own feelings from our own personal experiences but if you want a relationship to last there will always be ups and downs and working I don't see KW and Jasmine's relationship as "conflicts" but having a relationship that you don't get confirmation that the other person feels the same or validates what is being felt. That is what makes it hard on these relationships......I have been married for 30+ years and "make up sex" is the best LOL......

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Post by see2love on Fri Nov 18, 2016 5:14 am

The mum and sister called Kevin her type, Jasmine said she wouldn't date him when she first saw him get out of the Limo, she didn't necessarily say he wasn't her type. Maybe a type she had told herself not to date again but the qualities other the guys pointed out to her made her give him a chance.
He did stand out to her amongst the others and that could have been because he was what she always noticed and tended to date( her type). JMO

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Post by emusha on Fri Nov 18, 2016 5:24 am

I think there's a distinction to be made here....

Is Kevin part of her pattern?

Is Kevin her type based on personality?

Is Kevin her type based on looks?

I don't know if he's her physical type necessarily but he seems to be the charismatic and attractive to other women type of guy she's gravitated to....he also does seem to be part of her pattern i.e. the not necessarily secure choice ...that's what i'm interpreting of this situation. What I find interesting is that she let Kevin P, Thomas go cos they're too flighty and not secure. She also let Mike go despite the fact that he was soo secure cos he couldn't give her emotional security verbally & the excitement of passion - the question is will she pick security & passion with Mikhel (emotional or otherwise) or will she be convinced that Kevin is the right combination of passion, risk and security (emotional and otherwise)

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Post by reason on Fri Nov 18, 2016 10:16 am

In all this I remember the sister asking will she be able to deal with other women flirting with him, her answer is if he is respectful, well IMHO seeing this day in or month in it will get tedious. I hope she has the strength because that seems to have happen in the past, while I believe she was cheated on.

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Post by Brill on Fri Nov 18, 2016 1:58 pm

@reason wrote:In all this I remember the sister asking will she be able to deal with other women flirting with him, her answer is if he is respectful, well IMHO seeing this day in or month in it will get tedious.  I hope she has the strength because that seems to have happen in the past, while I believe she was cheated on.

Remember the sister and friend asking Mikhel if he has flirted with others, when he is with someone and his answer was yes. Interesting that it did not draw a red flag with some of the fans. It sure did with me. :yes: So here we have Mikhel who has flirted, since we heard it out of his mouth and Kevin who we assume will flirt because of his eyes, or smile or because of his dimples that he somehow makes appear when he wants to. question Also I'm sure both guys got the same questions and yet we never saw Kevin's answer to this. no idea Things that make you scratch Looks like editing is at work to make us fans think one way or the other. IMO

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Post by Sprite on Fri Nov 18, 2016 2:38 pm

@Brill wrote:
@reason wrote:In all this I remember the sister asking will she be able to deal with other women flirting with him, her answer is if he is respectful, well IMHO seeing this day in or month in it will get tedious.  I hope she has the strength because that seems to have happen in the past, while I believe she was cheated on.

Remember the sister and friend asking Mikhel if he has flirted with others, when he is with someone and his answer was yes.  Interesting that it did not draw a red flag with some of the fans.  It sure did with me. :yes:   So here we have Mikhel who has flirted,  since we heard it out of his mouth and Kevin who we assume will flirt because of his eyes, or smile or because of his dimples that he somehow makes appear when he wants to.  question   Also I'm sure both guys got the same questions and yet we never saw Kevin's answer to this. no idea   Things that make you scratch Looks like editing is at work to make us fans think one way or the other. IMO

I think the reason that Kevin is causing red flags with his "flirting" vs. Mikhel who actually admitted to doing it, is the fact that Kevin also admitted to going on 50 - 100 dates after his break up and move to downtown TO. Kevin told Jasmine's family he went on 50 dates and earlier in the season he told Jasmine 100. Now I get that he is single and certainly allowed to date, but that admission was an hmmm.... moment for me and I suspect for her family and friend. Also, while Mikhel may have admitted doing at some point in the past, he didn't seem to actively be "flirting" during the meet and greet while Kevin really seemed to turn on that charm. For me, that seemed manipulative. I get he wants to win their approval, but it just didn't go down well with me. Now, Jasmine isn't me and I doubt she gives a fig what I think and will choose who she wants and I strongly suspect it will still be Kevin. It will be interesting to see how things work out for her...we already heard rumours that they broke up. We shall see...

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Post by 4health on Fri Nov 18, 2016 2:46 pm

@Sprite can I ask where you heard that they already broke up ?

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Post by Sprite on Fri Nov 18, 2016 2:56 pm

@4health Not sure where in here that I read it. I believe there was someone that heard it and posted. Anyone else remember reading that? I don't know that it was necessarily a trusted/reliable source, but it was just something that I remembered and stored away for future reference to see if it will fit in with how I'm seeing him.

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Post by Luvstruck on Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:38 pm

@Sprite wrote:@4health Not sure where in here that I read it. I believe there was someone that heard it and posted. Anyone else remember reading that? I don't know that it was necessarily a trusted/reliable source, but it was just something that I remembered and stored away for future reference to see if it will fit in with how I'm seeing him.

Yes Sprite, you remember correctly, I know I read that comment here but didn't pay any attention since there was nothing to back it up.

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Post by primexi on Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:53 pm

the breakup comment was from an instagram comment, apparently kevin dated jas broke up. the users friend apparently knew kevin, but i doubt he just broke his contract like that.

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Post by 4health on Fri Nov 18, 2016 4:31 pm

@Luvstruck wrote:
@Sprite wrote:@4health Not sure where in here that I read it. I believe there was someone that heard it and posted. Anyone else remember reading that? I don't know that it was necessarily a trusted/reliable source, but it was just something that I remembered and stored away for future reference to see if it will fit in with how I'm seeing him.

Yes Sprite, you remember correctly, I know I read that comment here but didn't pay any attention since there was nothing to back it up.  

@Luvstruck thank you for answering my question. This is the kind of stuff that makes following this forum confusing and misleading ourselves, just like the production crew of the show. UGH at this time in every season, the finale can't come soon enough......

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