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Post by Guest on Thu Sep 08, 2016 11:43 pm

@nutty1 wrote:
Eviebloom wrote:
@nannymargie wrote:

I kinda understand what you are saying but it was only a 2 day stay so it couldn't have been that hard.  But I also understand they could have gone get a bite to eat while the dad was there with the child.

I had a child who very sadly lost his life to cancer.  We all spent a lot of time with him we loved him dearly and I miss him every day. However we took breaks occasionally to eat and clear our heads and stretch our legs. It was good for all of us and him to have some visitors. Especially to have her daddy come would be very important.  I do not judge them at all for giving her daddy time with her.



HUGS for all you have gone through.

Thanks for the Hugs Nutty, it is beyond terrible to go through that.  Made me look for the best in life and people.  I am looking for the best and positive things about Josh and Amanda. They are interesting to watch because of all their family dynamics and I look for as much of the good in that as I can.  Sometimes I cringe...but I cringe at myself sometime.  I am going to keep bringing out the things I see that seem good or to bring out a different side to the discussion for Josh and Amanda.  They have a lot of obstacles and I hope they also get support in dealing with them through a church or counseling.  
I wish them good things in life and a healthy relationship.

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Post by Kashathediva on Thu Sep 08, 2016 11:57 pm

@ReneeM wrote:
@bleuberry wrote:He's already hashtagging #dadlife on Twitter. I can't look away from this mess.

It's nice that he's taking such an active role in the girls' lives but I can't imagine their actual father being pleased, or that it's helping the co-parenting situation. I know Josh and Amanda are pretty self absorbed but they CANNOT be this oblivious about why that might be inappropriate

I don't think Josh would know what appropriate is if it were slathered in sauce and double cheese. IMO he is OTT with everything he does.


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Post by Ladybug82 on Fri Sep 09, 2016 12:37 am

@Kashathediva wrote:I don't think Josh would know what appropriate is if it were slathered in sauce and double cheese. IMO he is OTT with everything he does.

Well, he gets it honestly, IMO.   Hugesmile

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Post by Cocoasneeze on Fri Sep 09, 2016 1:00 am

@bleuberry wrote:He's already hashtagging #dadlife on Twitter. I can't look away from this mess.

And this is why I can't with him and Amanda. His few weeks spending time with the kids doesn't qualify him even as a step dad. He will need to take 200 steps back, stop broadcasting the children on sm, and realise that the children already have a dad. But it'll never happen, because Amanda & co have branded the actual father as evil already. Jmo.

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Post by Laura Walsh on Fri Sep 09, 2016 1:06 am

@bleuberry wrote:He's already hashtagging #dadlife on Twitter. I can't look away from this mess.

I'm with you blueberry. This is the most disrespectful thing I have seen yet. Nick is their dad, Josh will be their stepdad. Yes. There are plenty of children that grow up and think a lot of their stepdad and might even call them dad some day. But they've known each other a total of three months. Amanda talks about wanting a dad for her kids like they don't have a dad. I thought having him move in right out of the gate was such an immature thing. There are many single parents that won't even introduce their man until further along in a relationship. He could have rented a place there and slowly came into their lives. And if you want to be technical he is not even their stepdad until they are actually married.

Josh will be very good to the girls just because he is great with all children but to be referring to himself as dad already to me is very insulting to their actual dad. I'm kind of speechless right now.

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Post by Velvetine on Fri Sep 09, 2016 2:06 am

I really can't stand how Josh and Amanda both repeatedly disrespect the girls' father. While I don't doubt that Josh adores the girls, he's in no position to call himself a dad because he's known them for roughly 3 months. Amanda irks me because she bashes her ex on national television in order to make herself look like a saint. It honestly doesn't matter if the girls' father is the biggest jerk on the planet because he will always be their father. How do you think the girls will feel when they're older and realize that the general public sees their father as a deadbeat jerk? Hearing other people insult your parent can be very upsetting. For the sake of her daughters, Amanda needs to suck it up and deal with her baby daddy drama in private.

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Post by Seabear on Fri Sep 09, 2016 3:24 am

@Eviebloom my heart goes out to you for your loss. My all your wonderful memories bring joy and comfort to you. Warm thoughts and prayers from me to you. bestbud!

My thoughts on Amanda and her Ex is that both should work hard to refrain from the public negativity they cast on each other for the sake of their girls. I believe both Amanda and Nick are better served concentrating on respecting each other as co parents. That said it is understandable for both of them to also focus on loving their new partners. I think Josh and Amanda are well suited to each other. The girls are fortunate to have many loving people in their lives. I believe kids benefit from having lots of people who care for them. I hope Josh and Amanda do the work it takes to blend families and make it work. Same for Nick and his girlfriend. All this benefits the girls IMO.
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Post by bleuberry on Fri Sep 09, 2016 10:58 am

He's more like #instadad. Those poor girls being subjected to mommy's boyfriend of the month's ego driven redemption tour. It's kind of sad how they're being paraded around this way.



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Post by GuardianAngel on Fri Sep 09, 2016 11:15 am

IA whether the Dad is a jerk or not, there should never been any negative comments directed at the Dad. The girls will grow up and make their own decisions as to whether the Dad is a jerk or not. Besides it's a reflection on the parent and / or grandparents that make these accusations public, that says a lot about their character IMO.

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Post by nannymargie on Fri Sep 09, 2016 12:21 pm

Fingersandtoes wrote:
@bleuberry wrote:He's already hashtagging #dadlife on Twitter. I can't look away from this mess.

And this is why I can't with him and Amanda. His few weeks spending time with the kids doesn't qualify him even as a step dad. He will need to take 200 steps back, stop broadcasting the children on sm, and realise that the children already have a dad. But it'll never happen, because Amanda & co have branded the actual father as evil already. Jmo.

Well MM is either leading Josh or Josh is following MM's lead because she calls them her grand babies already. Can't she just sit back and see how things play out with inserting herself in everything. I have never seen another mother do what she is doing.

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