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Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #7

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Post by traveler90 on Fri Feb 24, 2017 2:13 pm

Maybe she also doesn't to start planning a wedding just for Ben to (again) get cold feet at the last minute and cancel the wedding altogether. He humiliated her enough, IMO.
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Post by sosleepy on Fri Feb 24, 2017 2:18 pm

Yes, I also side eyed Suspect at the too busy comment, like I do with every other couple that gives that weak excuse.

I managed to plan my wedding while I was working full time, going to school full time AND completeing a 20/hr week internship for school. So I managed to plan my wedding the same year I essentially was working 60-70 hour/weeks. Please Bach crew. You have time to plan a wedding between posting IG adds and jetsetting to the next vacay. Give me a break.

They should just own it. We aren't ready to plan a wedding right now. The end.

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Post by sosleepy on Fri Feb 24, 2017 2:24 pm

@traveler90 wrote:Maybe she also doesn't to start planning a wedding just for Ben to (again) get cold feet at the last minute and cancel the wedding altogether. He humiliated her enough, IMO.

Valid.

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Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #7

Post by Lennoxcolinrolland on Fri Feb 24, 2017 6:51 pm

This gal is on her way back to "the babe."

https://instagram.com/p/BQ6PEUHBdL8/

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Post by traveler90 on Fri Feb 24, 2017 6:54 pm

@Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:This gal is on her way back to "the babe."

https://instagram.com/p/BQ6PEUHBdL8/

She surely looks exicted to see "the babe". not. IMO.
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Post by Alanna on Fri Feb 24, 2017 6:56 pm

Is The Babe even home?
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Post by umngirl on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:05 pm

If I didn't know any better I'd say "the babe" was more like "the rock" she loves to flash. I think she might like that thing more than Ben at this point. Lol


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Post by suzq on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:20 pm

Personally, IMO I would be mad as a hornet if I went from the I would marry her tomorrow and a planned wedding date to "dating" -- yet he is still "Perfect Ben". LOL
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Post by Kashathediva on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:27 pm

@suzq wrote:Personally, IMO I would be mad as a hornet if I went from the I would marry her tomorrow and a planned wedding date to "dating" -- yet he is still "Perfect Ben".  LOL

In all fairness, who dubbed him "perfect" Ben and who encouraged his pedestal? I'm thinking TPTB. If I am wrong, please correct me. (I don't like to unduly cast blame.)
This is exactly what TPTB love to do. They paint an image of a cast person through edit, pr etc. when they are cast, and then use that against them when they achieve the lead.
No one is perfect.
I can't think of anyone wanting to be labeled such. It's almost, IMO, insulting.
I am not defending the relationship. This post has nothing to do with that, only the image of being perfect.


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Post by california90 on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:28 pm

Was Lauren ever just as into Ben with the whole "getting married tomorrow". I just remember Ben so infatuated with her that he'd marry her, but I don't know if Lauren felt the same or just going along with Ben.

Anyways, its clear these two aren't ready for marriage. Maybe they both were so excited coming off the season that they didn't realize they barely knew each other and rushed the whole "marriage" talk. It's best that they are "dating" and I do feel it must be very hard to backtrack those statements, especially publically. Hard to tell with these two if they both want to just date but have a hard time keeping up their statements about a wedding.

Still, with that said, I STILL think these two are so not matched for each other. JMO.

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Post by Cila51290 on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:30 pm

It's why I think Lauren is in it for the fame and opportunities. You know the shilling, bach events, blogging life that is only going up because she's engaged to The Bachelor. I'm sorry but no way in hell would I stay with Ben after the two ILY's, saying he would marry me tomorrow, and then putting everything off on national television. It's all to save face with BenLo. If this were real life, I highly doubt Lauren would still be going back to her little snow white and the seven dwarfs house with perfect Ben. JMO
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Post by George1218 on Fri Feb 24, 2017 7:50 pm

I still like them both a lot, think they really love each other and are trying to make things work. I'm sure that there are a lot of people out there who would love to ditch their "9-5 day job" and be able to travel and make money from personal appearances, I don't hold that against her. I hope they prove everybody wrong and end up eventually getting married.
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