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Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

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Post by Catdwoman50 on Tue Feb 28, 2017 2:54 pm

@ReneeM, I finally agree with you. The report was bad for both parties. If that was aired the look would have been bad for both Vanessa and Rachel. Seems like Rachel believed Vanessa was two-faced, but it also seems like Rachel was also queen bitch, mean girl lead - no one should like Vanessa because she is a tattle tale. I say that because she could have taken the high road when Vanessa approached her. And now after the show, the squad is still at it - that is passive bullying. (Shaking my head).
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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by Kashathediva on Tue Feb 28, 2017 2:58 pm

IDK. What it sounds like to me is one alpha approached another.
The other alpha did not want to engage, backed off and is still uncomfortable with the experience.
It could have been processed, but for whatever reason the second alpha imo backed down and now might be feeling a wee bit put in her place and not happy with how she handled it.
So instead of moving forward and actually being alpha, agreeing to go their separate alpha ways, IMO, continues to take the stance of making much ado out of nothing and not really being an alpha, but a baby.


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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by happygolucky on Tue Feb 28, 2017 2:59 pm

It's the same with job interviews, when people are asked to tell a story to demonstrate their skills/attributes/qualifications in practice and if not well prepared can uncover their lack/flaws when all they wanted was to impress ... Try harder next time GG boy. You had 2 months, 3 ... to come with a reasonable explanation ... I would long change the source, or the screenwriter, 'coz this movie flops.
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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by ericbutterfly on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:00 pm

jessietrey wrote:I just read the info from RS about the fight that we have been hearing about for months and SERIOUSLY!? I can't believe that is the reason why all the girls hate Vanessa. Over literally nothing. I can't believe that was even a fight let alone something these women are still holding grudges about months later.

Besides the fact that Rachel hangs with girls who are called the "squad" which was merely the girls she got along with best in the house including Astrid, Whitney, Alexis, Raven, Sarah, etc... and Vanessa posting pics with her Danielle M, and Taylor. What evidence do we actually have that they are still holding a grudge? I have not seen Rachel slander Vanessa in public and I have never seen Vanessa slander Rachel in public.

I also don't think we should throw around the word "bullying" without evidence beyond what RS reported about a disagreement the ladies had which doesn't make either look bad IMO.
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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by Ladybug82 on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:03 pm

Ok, I expected some major explosive fight.  I know RS, much like MF tends to overhype his stuff.  And I see where there was a disagreement, not questioning him at all.  I'm ok with both, not too pro or con (some days a little more of one way or the other about both) of either.  I can see points for both sides, but seriously?  that's it?  Rolling Eyes dizzy

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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by ericbutterfly on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:07 pm

Ladybug82 wrote:Ok, I expected some major explosive fight.  I know RS, much like MF tends to overhype his stuff.  And I see where there was a disagreement, not questioning him at all.  I'm ok with both, not too pro or con (some days a little more of one way or the other about both) of either.  I can see points for both sides, but seriously?  that's it?  Rolling Eyes dizzy

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I agree, I was expecting something terribly offensive to be said and it wasn't that big of a deal. I do wonder though, if all these "two faced" antics that RS speaks of were shown on the show, and Vanessa was edited or portrayed as a snitch that acted nice to the girls then ran to Nick, if all of us would be singing a different tune or if this disagreement would still be considered petty to us?
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Post by california90 on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:11 pm

Ladybug82 wrote:Ok, I expected some major explosive fight.  I know RS, much like MF tends to overhype his stuff.  And I see where there was a disagreement, not questioning him at all.  I'm ok with both, not too pro or con (some days a little more of one way or the other about both) of either.  I can see points for both sides, but seriously?  that's it?  Rolling Eyes dizzy

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lmao, i was totally prepared for a major fight, but makes sense why they don't show it. i can see both sides - these girls just dont have to like each other. and their squads are just their squads, neither of them (R&V) are publiclly shaming the other.

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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by BKay on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:12 pm

Well, actually Rachel just said a couple of days ago that she doesn't like Vanessa. Not shaming her, but not taking a high road either.
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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by GuardianAngel on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:13 pm

ericbutterfly wrote:snipped..

Besides the fact that Rachel hangs with girls who are called the "squad" which was merely the girls she got along with best in the house including Astrid, Whitney, Alexis, Raven, Sarah, etc... and Vanessa posting pics with her Danielle M, and Taylor. What evidence do we actually have that they are still holding a grudge? I have not seen Rachel slander Vanessa in public and I have never seen Vanessa slander Rachel in public.

I also don't think we should throw around the word "bullying" without evidence beyond what RS reported about a disagreement the ladies had which doesn't make either look bad IMO.

Rachel posted an IG story the other day that said she doesn't like Vanessa, paraphrasing, for all SM to hear.


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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by Guest on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:14 pm

I still can't get over why these ladies were bickering, over Nick? Okay, then.

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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by Catdwoman50 on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:15 pm

Since this is Vanessa's discussion thread, question - did any of the girls see Vanessa telling Nick about the other girls? Did Nick tell any of the girls his source is Vanessa? Not siding with Vanessa, but I can't believe all these could have started from rumors and it may have been TPTB telling Nick and not Vanessa.  I don't know so I'm speculating.... Seems like a bunch of hearsay


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Re: Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Post by ericbutterfly on Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:15 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:
ericbutterfly wrote:snipped..

Besides the fact that Rachel hangs with girls who are called the "squad" which was merely the girls she got along with best in the house including Astrid, Whitney, Alexis, Raven, Sarah, etc... and Vanessa posting pics with her Danielle M, and Taylor. What evidence do we actually have that they are still holding a grudge? I have not seen Rachel slander Vanessa in public and I have never seen Vanessa slander Rachel in public.

I also don't think we should throw around the word "bullying" without evidence beyond what RS reported about a disagreement the ladies had which doesn't make either look bad IMO.

Rachel posted an IG story the other day that said she doesn't like Vanessa, paraphrasing, for all SM to hear.

I didn't see that. That is unfortunate and not very classy IMO. Is that IG story still up?
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