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Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

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Re: Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

Post by Alanna on Tue Mar 14, 2017 3:46 pm

@bleuberry wrote:I feel like Nick is scared of Vanessa. I honestly didn't think his type could get any more bad b!tch. laugh out loud I kind of love it.
Maybe this is why I like her. She totally has that fearless bad b!tch aura going and I love it too laugh out loud no surprise she and Rach were like two cats together IMO.
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Post by sosleepy on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:03 pm

Oh yay! Nick and Vanessa discussion thread. Why do I think this one is gonna be active? They are both polarizing separately. Together?? Yikes! Polarizing city!  laugh out loud I loved them on the show. I hope they make it, but my hopes are not super high.

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Re: Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

Post by MVMom39forever on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:27 pm

@MiaHawk wrote:
@emusha wrote:@Sprite IMHO Vanessa is one of the most emotional contestants we have ever seen on this show ...she is impulsive, driven by her feelings and dramatic. I fully see her "crazy" that Elan described. Her logic does not calm or ground herself nor Nick IMO her logic contributes to her overanalysis of every situation.

IMO  She is also extremely particular - she wants and needs very specific things exactly how she wants them to be and so she is very difficult to be in a relationship with. IMO. Nick has been talking Vanessa out of her expectations and it's evident to me that he's still doing the same off the show cos of how she described that she had to come to terms with the fact that nick has been the bachelor and that he had feelings for other women.

IMO I don't think she's a realist imho she is an idealist who's having to modify expectations consistently. Nick said something about how we're having to learn ourselves - I definitely think that Vanessa is not very self-aware and being in a relationship with Nick is making her starkly aware of her behavior. IMHO she's extremely high maintenance and it will be a LOT of hard work for Nick. Sounds like he's up for the challenge so all the luck to them.

I haven't chimed in on any of this, but if I did, @emusha , I couldn't have said it any better than you just did. ITA.

V is an idealist. But she is not an optimistic/glass is half full idealist. Instead, she is dissatisfied/glass is half empty idealist. She is going to have to modify her ideals somewhat in order to compromise for the good of this relationship. Same thing with Nick. He is going to need to modify his ideals somewhat, too. If they can do that, they have a chance. If not, well, they will go the route of 50% of the couples in society. JMHO.

Totally agree!

Vanessa said a few things last night that would have given me pause if I was Nick mother or sister. Sure she may have been kidding but I thought there was little digs.
1. Her telling JK that he probably knew Nick better than her
2. Her saying they were doing DWTS together and it was not like he had already done that show 4x
3. Her talking about how she can be difficult with Chis Harrison. Sure it is nice for her to recognize her challenges but it seems so early in relationship to even be going there.
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Post by Mommyof2 on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:38 pm

I watched bits of pieces of his season, but I agree that Vanessa cracks the whip in that relationship! She seems like you do not want to cross her! Btw, why have they been fighting?
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Post by crunchycheeto on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:38 pm

IDK, I've found their answers realistic and refreshing. I'm all for anything that dismantles the overly orchestrated nature of reality TV, and serves us something more authentic. Different strokes!
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Post by crunchycheeto on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:44 pm

@Mommyof2 wrote:I watched bits of pieces of his season, but I agree that Vanessa cracks the whip in that relationship!  She seems like you do not want to cross her!   Btw, why have they been fighting?  

Nick mentioned in GMA that the fights (I don't recall it being referred to as that though) haven't been specific to anything. More a combination of the the show re-airing and the distance. Now that that's behind them and distance won't be an issue (at least for the foreseaable future), it remains to be seen if they can move forward with their relationship.
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Post by Luvstruck on Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:48 pm

I bet their fights have been because Nick was more empathetic of Raven since he was in that same exact position twice rather than considering Vanessa's precious feelings. Both of them mentioned this and so did Chris Harrison.

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Post by sosleepy on Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:08 pm

I totally think Nick NEEDS someone that will crack the whip and keep him in check though.

Also, what the hell. I'm disappointed it seems he's refusing to consider living in Canada. I dislike that the women on this show like 99% of the time, whether the lead or the F1 always seem to be the ones to do the heavy lifting/compromising/moving.

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Re: Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

Post by emusha on Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:12 pm

@Luvstruck wrote:I bet their fights have been because Nick was more empathetic of Raven since he was in that same exact position twice rather than considering Vanessa's precious feelings. Both of them mentioned this and so did Chris Harrison.

I agree with your assessment here...imo I doubt Vanessa can stand that he was giving someone else attention or having feelings for that person even if its empathy
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Post by MVMom39forever on Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:14 pm

I just watched their interviews and maybe Nick is tired from all the rehearsals for DWTS plus he said working on Internet business.

I just don't see a twinkle in his eyes.

It also crossed my mind maybe they and ABC are being so realistic in not "sugar coating" relationship, mentioing of fights and baby steps toward marriage planning because they want to get people to tune into DWTS to get glimpses of their progress as a couple. Or shoot, setting themselves up for reality show of them.

I am sure by the time DWTS is over we will have our answer about how enduring their relationship is.

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Post by sosleepy on Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:15 pm

Can I get a run down of where they did interviews? So far I've only seen ATFR and Jimmy. Did they satellite in to NYC for any?

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Re: Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

Post by Kashathediva on Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:16 pm

Gentle reminder:
Behind every good man is a woman with a whip.
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