Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

Lauren now liked Ben's post about running today but she doesn't even follow him. Weird.

Cila51290 wrote:Lauren now liked Ben's post about running today but she doesn't even follow him. Weird.

Becca had liked right before her (within minutes), so she most likely saw it in her timeline.

Or she's just doing some light SM stalking of her ex.... like people do.

I thought it was nice she liked that.

@sosleepy Oh I know! I just found it weird since she doesn't follow him and thought the reason behind it was cause she doesn't want to see anything from him on her timeline

Maybe all the ex's that follow each other can all like posts now since none of them are in a realationship with one another.

IMO it's very difficult to be friends meaning real life friend and not one on SM, with an ex. I know it happens, but personally it doesn't work for me. I am cordial with my ex husband because he's a good guy and is my son's father. Anyone else, it's move on, and out of my life kind of attitude.

IMO it's always best to remove traces asap in order to move on. It's all very recent so I can see them stalking each other's SM. Once Lauren meets a nice guy who is her type, Ben will be in the past. Just like many former's who have moved on and married wonderful people, some since have had children.

A source spoke with Enews about Lauren adjusting post-break up.

http://www.eonline.com/ca/news/860615/lauren-bushnell-having-a-hard-time-with-split-from-ben-higgins-it-s-been-a-tough-adjustment

Lauren still being on the mend but moving forward sounds perfectly normal to me. I imagine that Ben feels the same way. If you were in love and invested in your partner for 18 months...you don't just turn off the feelings the minute you announce your split...IMO.
JMO

when you recovering from a breakup not only are you dealing with the emotions with ending the relationship but also the daily life routine, IMO. Lauren hasn't revealed where she's living but it could be lonely getting an apartment by herself. She appears to be surrounding herself with friends but with so many of her friends in long term relationships(besides the twins and Amanda) it could be a tough adjustment. IMO.

^ True. Her friend Scarlett is getting married very soon, her sister Mollie and her friend Whitney seem to be in happy relationships (and those girls have careers). Amanda has her kids and the twins are still in Vegas so she may be feeling lonely. But still seems to keep herself busy doing whatever.

The irony of calling her blog "Sparkle in Her Eye" since I pretty much always found her eyes so blank.

I don't know how to bring them over, but Lauren posted a few insta stories, looks like she found her a nice new home, and can't wait to decorate it. Good for her!

https://www.instagram.com/laurenbushnell/

Mkay Ms. Bushnell! That looks like a nice little expensive apartment. IG money really is everything. I'm debating coming on this show and shilling afterwards.