Bachelorette 13 - Rachel Lindsay - Episode 4 - June 19 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Bet2Win wrote:All threads are now open.  

lleyki wrote:

gramercypark10 wrote:

sophienette wrote:

I personally prefer a man who is more reserved and cautious but thinks about things BEFORE, not apologize after,

Correct especially someone who is 37 years old. He has the maturity level of a 15 year old imo. Dean is more mature.  #youcantblameeverythingyoudoonfireballsbryan

Maybe I missed something since I noticed posts were deleted but I haven't seen this amazing immaturity that Bryan has exhibited. So he may be a bit image conscious. I agree with others that many of these people are because as I've always said there is some level of famewhore in anyone who chooses to go on this show. And as I always stress, I do mean everyone. So yes that includes Peter and hell Rachel herself. But that said, how does being image conscious correlate to immaturity? I also don't see this huge consistency of his apologizing for doing such awful things after doing them. He made a joke about a stupid comment he made on national television and clearly recognized was stupid

He deleted comments about an old reality show appearance because maybe the comments were rude. But so what, people delete comments they don't want on their social media all the time. And then he unfollowed two people, yes, likely after reading comments about how awful it looked. I am not defending or justifying and arguing right or wrong about Bryan following Demario and Lee, which is why I stayed out of the conversation last night about it. But I personally do think it could have been as simple as following a bunch of guys that were on the season with him and not giving it a second thought after.

I glanced at Bryan's Instagram and he follows like over 400 people. I barely follow a 100 people on Instagram and unless someone posts often so they show up all the time on my timeline, I can honestly forget I'm even following them. It really could be as simple as he tapped a follow button with little thought to it and didn't think about it again, until of course he started being accused of guilt by association. I don't know if it was the comments from this board he saw because I know for a fact many people read here and parrot a lot of the opinions all over social media. He might have noticed the comments on social media.

Either way, I fail to see this egregious immaturity that Bryan has displayed either on the show or in his behavior post show. I also haven't seen this overwhelming bad behavior he's displayed and keeps apologizing for after. If anything, on the show I think Bryan has shown great maturity in choosing to stay out of the fray and not get into any pissing matches with anyone. He seems friendly enough with everyone and is simply focused on his relationship with Rachel. Post-show he's actually been almost invisible in his daily life. There are no stories about him, very little sightings, etc.

nd4reality wrote:Is anyone else annoyed that CH spilled about the GDR when none of that was shown in the episode ?

Was he the best speller ? What did he say to her that made him stand out in a large GD ?  Is Rachel just so over all the other guys ?

Kashathediva wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Is anyone else annoyed that CH spilled about the GDR when none of that was shown in the episode ?

Was he the best speller ? What did he say to her that made him stand out in a large GD ?  Is Rachel just so over all the other guys ?

I felt Rachel was totally annoyed last night and over it all and not all of it IMO was due to the guys. I felt she was aggravated with production equally. Equally
I can not remember seeing this in a lead mid way through a season. I was glad they left this in last night. It showed me she was not going along with the game. It showed me she was up against a wall with production. Production surely could have edited this out. I was surprised. This had to have been very frustrating for her. I have a feeling this is more of what her challenge is going to be this season, dealing with the drama they are going to manipulate her against(LEE).

nd4reality wrote:Is anyone else annoyed that CH spilled about the GDR when none of that was shown in the episode ?

Was he the best speller ? What did he say to her that made him stand out in a large GD ?  Is Rachel just so over all the other guys ?

Mommyof2 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Is anyone else annoyed that CH spilled about the GDR when none of that was shown in the episode ?

Was he the best speller ? What did he say to her that made him stand out in a large GD ?  Is Rachel just so over all the other guys ?

Jordan received the GD rose early in the season too.  Does anyone remember which episode that happened?  Just curious.