JoJo Fletcher & Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion - #4

Agreed, and there also could have been private fights/breakups that did not come public...this time it just happened publicly...just a possibility.

When the assumption was that it was Jojo who had blocked him after seeing the flirting video, I thought it was immature and childish but not that much of a cause for concern.

Now that it seems like it was Jordan who had blocked her and then went around flirting, I think it's a bigger red flag. IMO If his instinct is to resort to old patterns when things are rough in his relationship, maybe he hasn't changed after all?

All JMO

Jo Jo was with him in Nashville at some point over the weekend. He wasn't traveling without her. I'm just not of the opinion that while drunk he decided to block Jo Jo so he could talk to some girl in a bar or do anything else that would cause havoc. I just don't see it. I can't take SM and paint a certain picture and live by it. Not yet. But that's just me.

Imo it is alarming, that whatever argument they had, he resorted to ignoring her, blocking her, going out to get drunk with his friends and flirt with other women. Great way to solve fights, real mature, and respectful. jmo

I agree with you @mprssdbyu I'm not gonna jump to conclusions when none of us even know what happened behind the scenes.

I'm not gonna judge him by a 10 sec video. Maybe it's just me. sorry.

I know zero specifics. All we saw was the back of the girls head for 5 seconds. Was she engaged to someone else that he knows and he's known this girl for years? He lived in Nashville for a while. Does she date one of his Nashville buddies? Did they go to school together and she's currently married? For all we know, that's not even what JoJo was upset about.

This isn't to excuse him because I would not be thrilled if I saw my boyfriend hammered and flirty in the bar either, but who knows. The blocking thing, however, is incredibly ridiculous IMO.

@Cocoasneeze wrote:Imo it is alarming, that whatever argument they had, he resorted to ignoring her, blocking her, going out to get drunk with his friends and flirt with other women. Great way to solve fights, real mature, and respectful.  jmo

I think Jo played a role in getting blocked. 1000 mad texts or not communicating in a way that gets the argument resolved. I don't know.  Jo Jo is a sweetheart but she's immature, too.  He went out with friends.... the same friends she had been hanging with all weekend, too. I'm not taking Jordan's side cause he should know what kind of publicity this creates for him and Jo. It has a negative effect on them and his career. It's not just about the two of them. I'm just saying that I can't take a video and determine anything other than it wasn't a good weekend over all in his love life.

I'm bowing out now!

Again, Jordan did NOT have JoJo blocked at the time he was talking to that girl. He had already unblocked her at least an hour before. Time stamps time stamps time stamps IMO.

There are not enough facts to be filling in the empty spaces IMO. There are only TWO facts currently. Everything else, whether "boy bye"/benefit of the doubt, immaturity/etc. is all based on personal belief/experiences/values in relationships IMO. What may be true for one person, may not be true for another IMO.

SMH

That's that saying about leopards and spots?

Yeah, not convinced there's been a total change in that regard. If I was a betting woman I'd say that will be a downfall in that regard at some point. JMO