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Rachel Lindsay - Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #3

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Post by Sprite on Wed Aug 08, 2018 1:05 pm

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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:I for one can get where she’s coming from. Comparing this finale to hers there is a huge difference in tone. Becca’s finale being all happy and giddy and light, while hers was so depressing and confusing. All of the focus was shifted from her and Bryan to her and the insecure ex model turned personal trainer. She got a lot of sh*t this time last year for something TBTP milked, not necessary something she did or didn’t do. If Garrett hadn’t liked those pictures this season would be a breeze. They got lucky that brought some controversy.
But yeah they didn’t put Becca on the spot as much as the put Rachel, they didn’t make her watch the finale live (which I can imagine is very hard). IMO that’s a lil unfair. If I can recall they didn’t do Becca dirty once....Rachel got to deal with Demario, Lee , Peter and got dragged for all of them.
I get her frustration
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ITA with you, and your last post as well. Good for her for speaking up and having the guts to put it out there again. As far as I'm concerned it's the truth. Her season created a divide so wide between the glorified gapped tooth model who loves himself IMHO and not the real love story that was there between her and Bryan. Those that sleuthed and were convinced Bryan was the F1, were also treated horribly right here on our forum.

IMO TPTB took advantage of the situation, knowing Peter would never propose, and at the same time, trying to get Rachel to get him to profess his love, which he totally was never going to fall in love with her. I don't care if she complains for the next 10 yrs, good for her. Yes she signed up for it and all that jazz, but so did every one else. I wish more would complain about the way they are treated or edited. I don't see why she should keep her mouth shut. That storyboard and editing, created a lot of SM hate after the FRC towards her and her F1 just because she didn't choose the F2. Quite a different story this past season.

Stone_Hedge wrote:Can I ask an honest question as I did not watch her season but lurked here at times and knew about the Peter drama. Was her season marred from showing “the real love story” because Peter took up a lot of her time by becoming a focal point of her’s? Was it just editing or storyline ? Similar to Des and Brooks?

IMO Peter was no where near interested in Rachel, it looked like to me he couldn't even stand next to her. Rachel's focal point was Bryan, sleuthers knew it, but editing made it all about the one who wouldn't propose, Peter.

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I don't care so much if she complains...although I don't think she should be doing it on a blog that is supposed to be about Becca. The one they want for the next lead is always given a golden edit (see her on Nick's season overshadowing Vanessa and Nick's love story), but maybe if she hadn't haggled in Peter's hotel room for so long, it wouldn't have overshadowed her own love story. However, for me, that part is beside the point. What galls me is the fact that she whines about all the horrible editing of her own love story...which was shown pretty much like most of them have been....how horrible producers have been, but in the next breath says they owe her a televised wedding. OWE HER!!! Ridiculous and entitled. She has so much going for her. She had so many opportunities arise out of her being the Bette and yet she is still not happy. It's me, me, me. Well, the world and particularly the Bachelor world does not revolve around her and the sooner she realises that the happier she will be.


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Post by Sprite on Wed Aug 08, 2018 1:22 pm

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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:Again, Rachel is only comparing finales, when she should also compare her road to Bachelorette vs Becca's, particularly the Arie finale which you could argue was just as cruel, if not more. I think this stems from jealousy and insecurity over still not being an it couple, esp after thinking people were gonna love Bryan, not race or gender, and I say that as a fellow WOC. Their reception as a couple as a sore spot and I get why, but at some point you just need to move on and live that best life you were talking about, and not harp on your finale or Peter every chance you get. As with Kaitlyn, people were sympathetic until she doth protest too much, and Rachel is reaching that point

I love big Rach, but she is so out of touch in this article, she says Becca's finale was void of controversy. But Becca's WHOLE season was marred by controversy!
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Further, IMO ABC is just covering asap for yet another failure to properly conduct due diligence to protect their Bachelorette. They let Becca be confronted with Garrett, an apparent bigot, Leo a soft porn star and alleged sexual harasser and Lincoln, an actual convicted criminal and she apparently knew nothing about any of it until her season ended and she had chosen Garrett. So now, her extreme happiness is both supported by people who love them for all the wrong reasons or, hate them for a side of him I’m sure she knew nothing about when she was falling in love with him. Nevertheless, Becca is soldiering on in a fashion I find admirable. 

Rachel has things she can be upset about if she wants to be stuck with no resolution because what’s done is done and I agree with those who believe she’s not going to get a Dream Wedding to fix it. I personally was disgusted with tptb for the lousy way they handled her actual proposal in a wind tunnel. However, much of the rest of what went wrong falls directly on her. She behaved like an obsessed brat and as much as I did and still do like her I just need for her to get over it and for both her and Bryan to return to real life. Bach Bubble playtime is over for them. It’s over for most of them. The smart ones have found a way to monetize their fifteen minutes. Good for them. There are no movie or, media stars created so far. Sooner rather than later it’s time to wrap up running in circles and implement a real plan. All JMO.


[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Actually there were a few media stars created out of the show....Travis is now on the Doctors and has been for years. As well, Jesse Palmer is doing football commentary and has been for a while. Jillian Harris has been on numerous tv shows including Love it or List it Vancouver.


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Post by Kashathediva on Wed Aug 08, 2018 1:34 pm

I loved Al on First Look. Peyton and Chris had a show, too I think.


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Post by havadrpepper on Wed Aug 08, 2018 2:12 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:I loved Al on First Look. Peyton and Chris had a show, too I think.

Chris is now doing spots on The Weather Channel as well. He has done quite well for himself... put in a lot of hard work for it.
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Post by bleuberry on Wed Aug 08, 2018 2:55 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:I loved Al on First Look. Peyton and Chris had a show, too I think.

I agree Kasha. Ali s a rare breed IMO. She's super engaging and fun to watch.


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Post by Emilia23_12 on Wed Aug 08, 2018 4:31 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:Becca responds to Rachel: [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]

What does it saying??? Cant open us magzine
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Post by Sprite on Wed Aug 08, 2018 5:01 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Not much. Becca is as understanding as ever. It's more click bait IMO.


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Post by timfan on Wed Aug 08, 2018 5:06 pm

Becca is being smart if she said anything negative about Rachel she knows that Rachel will clap back at her jmo
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Post by Sprite on Wed Aug 08, 2018 5:19 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:Becca is being smart if she said anything negative about Rachel she knows that Rachel will clap back at her jmo

Or Becca is just happy and doesn't give a crap what Rachel thinks. She is concentrating on her own relationship, which perhaps is something Rachel should be doing.


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Post by sosleepy on Wed Aug 08, 2018 10:49 pm

Say what you will about Becca, but she is a kind person. I clump Becca in the Des/Jillian/JoJo mold, as in they aren’t gonna be a rude jerk to their F2s, other contestants, or other leads. They also aren’t likely to complain. At least not openly. I do appreciate that. 

Rachel/Kaitlyn/Andi belong to the other “me-centric” archetype that is Our Bachelorettes. Not a huge fan of this group.
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Post by yana_bach on Sun Aug 12, 2018 7:19 pm

Gimme a break, Rachel. Has she seen Des‘ finale? Where the proposal was still completely overshadowed by Brooks leaving, everyone was waiting for Brooks to show up due to a false spoiler, and a lot of people were commenting that Des „settled“ for Chris and gave them a slim chance of making it?
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Post by Kashathediva on Sun Aug 12, 2018 7:27 pm

I agree that kindness goes the distance. It’s much easier not to be kind, than it is to be kind. Kindness, IMO makes me a better me. It’s a pay it forward. IMO it’s something we all could use more of no matter who we are. IMO we need a kinder world. Jmo


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