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Kaitlyn Bristowe - Bachelorette 11 - #5 - Discussion

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Post by Alanna on Sat Jul 28, 2018 11:39 am

Imagine if he’s getting busy with Bossy Brittany or Brittany Farrar too laugh out loud :thud

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Post by Sprite on Sat Jul 28, 2018 12:16 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:JMO When a man is practically loving you to death and you are his everything mainly because he has nothing else and this is true through a year ago when you purchased and began redoing your house together and then you finally help him achieve his career goal and he has his own business and all of a sudden he doesn’t want to get married and he has a whole list of grievances where there used to be worship —— that spells another woman. You know, the one who came along to reap the benefits after Kaitlynn made the man. JMO.

I'm sorry, but I totally disagree with this. This makes it sound as if Shawn had nothing and nobody until he met Kaitlyn when in fact, he was working and had his family and friends. To me it is more about unrealistic expectations and the need to have someone "worship" and "love you to death", which frankly sounds exhausting. Yes, it can happen during the honeymoon stages of a relationship, but eventually, real life makes demands and relationships have to change. To me it appears that this is the first time in their relationship that Shawn is not with her almost all the time and she is left on her own and she is resentful. Add that to the fact that he appears to be dragging his feet on the subject of marriage and all of a sudden Kaitlyn is feeling even more needy. It just becomes an never ending cycle of unmet needs.

Nowhere do I see any hint of another woman. I just see a guy who is working hard to get his business off the ground and a spoiled, immature brat resenting not getting the attention that she demands. The fact that she is dropping hints in interviews and sm just further reinforces how juvenile she can be and if I was him, I would also be questioning if I want to continue being with her.

He doesn't want to get married? That is a legitimate issue, but then it is up to her to decide what is important and make those needs known. She needs to decide for herself what she will tolerate and what she wont and if that is a deal breaker, then she needs to stand up for herself and move on. And it doesn't need to be broadcast all over in interviews and sm in an attempt to shame him and get him with her program or to get her fans to all riled up in support of poor little Kaitlyn.

I'm amazed the guy has the energy to do anything other than just deal with her!


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Post by Chgohighlife on Sat Jul 28, 2018 1:19 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:
[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:JMO When a man is practically loving you to death and you are his everything mainly because he has nothing else and this is true through a year ago when you purchased and began redoing your house together and then you finally help him achieve his career goal and he has his own business and all of a sudden he doesn’t want to get married and he has a whole list of grievances where there used to be worship —— that spells another woman. You know, the one who came along to reap the benefits after Kaitlynn made the man. JMO.

I'm sorry, but I totally disagree with this. This makes it sound as if Shawn had nothing and nobody until he met Kaitlyn when in fact, he was working and had his family and friends. To me it is more about unrealistic expectations and the need to have someone "worship" and "love you to death", which frankly sounds exhausting. Yes, it can happen during the honeymoon stages of a relationship, but eventually, real life makes demands and relationships have to change. To me it appears that this is the first time in their relationship that Shawn is not with her almost all the time and she is left on her own and she is resentful. Add that to the fact that he appears to be dragging his feet on the subject of marriage and all of a sudden Kaitlyn is feeling even more needy. It just becomes an never ending cycle of unmet needs.

Nowhere do I see any hint of another woman. I just see a guy who is working hard to get his business off the ground and a spoiled, immature brat resenting not getting the attention that she demands. The fact that she is dropping hints in interviews and sm just further reinforces  how juvenile she can be and if I was him, I would also be questioning if I want to continue being with her.

He doesn't want to get married? That is a legitimate issue, but then it is up to her to decide what is important and make those needs known. She needs to decide for herself what she will tolerate and what she wont and if that is a deal breaker, then she needs to stand up for herself and move on. And it doesn't need to be broadcast all over in interviews and sm in an attempt to shame him and get him with her program or to get her fans to all riled up in support of poor little Kaitlyn.

I'm amazed the guy has the energy to do anything other than just deal with her!


[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] your comment is just your opinion stated as if it’s fact when it clearly is not. My point is whatever is right or wrong about Kaitlyn is not new, she has not changed overnight, IMO. When the same irritating things that have been irritating for several years are suddenly too much for the partner who dealt with them fine before, it is often because a person’s interest has been redirected to someone new, IMO.  Also, when a mate who has been a full time cheerleader and lived in the partner’s shadow as their identity and only claim to fame, finally has something of his own, albeit due in large part to his alliance with Kaitlyn, his need for her can diminish. Those are my points and opinion. Time will tell. It always does. JMO. 

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Post by Sprite on Sat Jul 28, 2018 1:37 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Nowhere is my comment stated as fact. I clearly repeat that this is what "I" am thinking.

While I respect your opinion, I don't see any evidence of the fact that Shawn is interested in anyone else. You do not know that things that have been irritating him for years are suddenly too much for him to deal with, but as you say, that is your opinion. It is of course a possibility, but under the circumstances of him starting a new business IMO it is more likely this is where his focus is rather than Kaitlyn. Given that he has supported her...and happily lived in her shadow all these years....I would think she could manage to let him have the lime light for a bit.  no idea

Either way, they are still together and all of this is just speculation. I agree...time will tell.


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Post by Kashathediva on Sat Jul 28, 2018 2:16 pm

Sometimes qualities in a person that were once endearing or even tolerable can wane, become annoying or even unbearable once the first bloom of a romance are over.
It doesn’t have to be because of another love interest, imo.
I think a lot of people find characteristics or traits in friends, family and S.O. that at one time might be attractive and later become annoying or even intolerable.


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Post by sosleepy on Sat Jul 28, 2018 3:01 pm

Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t find either party particularly likable. laugh out loud I’m sure there is plenty of blame to pass around on both sides here. JMO.
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Post by Diana on Sat Jul 28, 2018 3:05 pm

I don't like them and ever saw them getting them married but this is just sad af. Kaitlyn needs to love herself and end this. He is not going to change his mind or he would have already

It's sad if she forcing his hand and its not what he wants. Either way it's not a good environment. JMO
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Post by Aria on Sat Jul 28, 2018 3:32 pm

Yeah, I'm sorry, but I just can't go along with this narrative of Kaitlyn being a spoiled, needy, attention-seeking brat while Shawn is the strong, silent type who just wants to work but his dang woman won't let him and keeps pestering him with silly things like "marriage" and "commitment". They're both a lot of work, but Kaitlyn has always supported his passion and businesses (she was crucial in starting CityStrong and was at every one of his events, which, let's be real, was the main reason people showed up). He'd be nowhere without her. She's always defended him and their relationship and, other than this anxiety-driven late night IG story, has kept the fact that her boyfriend doesn't want to marry her pretty private. It's just that people aren't stupid and can get a sense of what's happening, when we were promised things like weddings and re-proposals years ago and they're not still happening. And I just don't buy that Shawn has suddenly matured and Kaitlyn just isn't good enough for him anymore. No, because he dated another girl for 7 years and never married her, so it's clearly a pattern for him regardless of the girl. And, no, because according to Kaitlyn, they're no longer using protection and basically trying to have a baby, which means Shawn is happily signing on to a lifetime of commitment with the girl.

I just have an issue with putting ALL of the responsibility on the woman. Either she's the doormat who waits around or she's like Rachel, desperate and marriage-obsessed, who has to give the guy an ultimatum or fake break up with him or whatever. Why can't the guy just have some integrity and be honest? IMO.
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Post by Mozhi1 on Sat Jul 28, 2018 4:53 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] EXACTLY, also i want to add that kaitlyn supported him last year through his 12 months ironman training , i don't think she is that needy if she stayed through whole 12 months while he was training 10 hrs a day and she was doing his cooking for ironman.
I think the problem is that they both took each other for granted and mostly shawn. I don't think she expects something crazy but planning a date night once a month is not that crazy to me. Shawn is such a passionate and hardworking guy and thats why kaitlyn supported him through everything but at one point you start to really feel alone when you put everything out there and you don't receive it back. Relationships are hard work and if one stops working at it, the other one will get tried of trying as well.

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Post by GuardianAngel on Sat Jul 28, 2018 4:58 pm

I can't stop this story to get a s/cap but when she is kissing her nephew and asking why his ears are floating, you can see her hand in view with what looks like the ring to me.

This isn't that great but right after this which I can't grab is a better view. I don't remember what her ring looks like, maybe it's a totally different ring.

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Post by Mozhi1 on Sat Jul 28, 2018 5:01 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] She gave her ring back to shawn 3 weeks ago and talked about it here @ 9:42 (she wants him to re-propose with the ring) [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]

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Post by GuardianAngel on Sat Jul 28, 2018 5:16 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] thanks for the link. I know she gave it back according to the conversation going on in this thread. I was curious when I saw the ring on the ring finger. In that link, she state's there's no pressure Shawn to propose, kidding, but says she doesn't want to plan a wedding, it's not up her alley. So why all the fuss?

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