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Kaitlyn Bristowe - Bachelorette 11 - #5 - Discussion

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Post by Pattycake92 on Tue Nov 20, 2018 12:14 pm

Basically she said that they weren’t on the same page but she never imagined the outcome where they wouldn’t choose to be together.  They had some fundamental disagreements about major issues and decided that it couldn’t be worked out. She said it took her so long to announce it because she had to accept it first. She said they came to the decision together. She said she is grieving the loss of her best friend (Shawn) but that they will remain friends and that she will get to see Doodle. She is very excited for the future.
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Post by sosleepy on Tue Nov 20, 2018 12:19 pm

Is she planning to stay in Nashville? 

I feel like a move to LA, or back home to Canada makes more sense...
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Post by Alanna on Tue Nov 20, 2018 12:37 pm

I don’t know if she’s going back to Nashville but looks like Shawn has a new apt and their house isn’t on the market yet. I couldn’t imagine staying in that 4,000 sq ft home by myself post-break but she did lovingly decorate it and she does want a family so maybe.


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Post by Sprite on Tue Nov 20, 2018 1:12 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:I 100% believe Kaitlyn loved Shawn with her whole heart and wanted a future and children with him.  Nothing and no one will ever convince me otherwise.  She's been a broken, sad, mess for months over losing this idiot, and the thing that really upsets me is Kaitlyn seemed to fully believe that SHE was the problem. She was in Canada and Italy reading self-help books. When she did the July podcast with Clio and admitted they were having trouble, she said that she and Shawn were both going to work on bettering themselves. And in her podcast with Becca and Garrett, she said they were having trouble because SHE WAS TOO NEEDY. He was never honest about his feelings regarding marriage and family with her, he took on two huge jobs, and he refused to make time for her while making time for everyone and everything else.  But he somehow convinced her that their problems were all HER FAULT!  Of course there's nothing wrong with his commitment phobe, non-communicative self.  Just ugh.

While I do agree that Shawn has to shoulder a lot of blame for the break up, none of us are privy to the inner workings of this relationship. I can totally see Kaitlyn being too needy. I have always said this about her. She demands a lot of attention and while that may seem cute at the start of a relationship, over time, it can wear the other person down.

I have gone through something similar with a couple of friends....always seeking attention and OTT....and I didn't have to live with them!!! Exhausting.


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Post by Kashathediva on Tue Nov 20, 2018 1:39 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] ITA. A neediness and high maintenance or dependentcy would totally smother me to the point I might end up intensely disliking the person. Escape. Chewing off a limb. Witness protection program.


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Post by veg_out on Fri Nov 23, 2018 8:55 pm

Just stopping in after reading a People article about these two and their breakup. My heart goes out to both of them that they heal and move forward. Ugh, big hug to Kaitlyn. bestbud!


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Post by GuardianAngel on Sun Nov 25, 2018 4:31 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I A with you both. I've been on the other side. You go from tons of patience to get out of my life very quickly.

Once it's over, there is a sudden burst of energy and desire to do whatever you want, because you know there won't be anyone nagging about it. If this has been over for months, I don't see why Shawn would post anything related to birthdays or anniversaries. I'd rather he didn't post anything instead of a fake "expected" post.

I too speculated long time ago, he will get tired of her and of cleaning her empty wine bottles under the kitchen sink while she's laughs on SM about it. How do we know Shawn convinced Kaitlyn it was all her fault? TYIA

Good to hear she is excited for the future. I think in the last few years she has learned a lot and hopefully will put her experiences to good use.


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Post by GuardianAngel on Mon Dec 03, 2018 6:41 pm

This was originally a joint thread with Kaitlyn and Shawn. The topic has been changed to just Kaitlyn.

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