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Post by Eagle Eye Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:39 pm

Honestly, I just don't understand his thought process. He's "ready" to knock her up and have a baby that will tie them together for the rest of their lives, he's "ready" to live with her in her big beautiful house in a marriage-like relationship, but he's not "ready" to make a lifelong commitment, which she desperately wants, in front of their family and friends? Even if the piece of paper isn't important to him, it means everything to her, so unless he's secretly planning on bailing out in a few years, I don't get why he wouldn't willingly do this for her, if he really loved her. The fact that she had to beg him for it just makes me so sad.
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Post by bleuberry Mon Dec 26, 2016 7:15 pm

I actually strongly dislike him so I can't even bring myself to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm surprised how much it bothers me that she's now stuck with him laugh out loud. Ugh.


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Post by Kashathediva Mon Dec 26, 2016 7:36 pm

Yeah. We don't know what the circumstances are behind the conception/pregnancy. Was it planned? Did he want this? Was he ready? IDK. Or was it a surprise to him? If he wasn't ready for this, maybe he still wasn't ready for that.
Anyway, I wish him the best. As always it takes two to tango. So if he was wishy washy and she wasn't, well she may end up doing a lot of his wash half heartedly.



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Post by Alanna Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:03 pm

Eagle Eye wrote:Honestly, I just don't understand his thought process. He's "ready" to knock her up and have a baby that will tie them together for the rest of their lives, he's "ready" to live with her in her big beautiful house in a marriage-like relationship, but he's not "ready" to make a lifelong commitment, which she desperately wants, in front of their family and friends? Even if the piece of paper isn't important to him, it means everything to her, so unless he's secretly planning on bailing out in a few years, I don't get why he wouldn't willingly do this for her, if he really loved her. The fact that she had to beg him for it just makes me so sad.
Honestly I agree. Call me judgey, tell me I'm not in their relationship so I don't get it, explain to me how everyone hs their own timeframe, etc., but nothing will change my mind. Jill deserves better. All IMO.


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Post by Kashathediva Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:10 pm

I think the problem, for lack of better word, is that Jillian does not believe she deserves better. This is what she wants for her.



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Post by GuardianAngel Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:18 pm

She's 36 he's 28. They've been together for four years. He was 24 when he met her. That's young IMO. In all the pic's I've seen of him, he appears to be very happy.

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Post by umngirl Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:21 pm

So the jeweler and Justin were commenting back and forth while they were in Hawaii about Justin going with bigger diamonds and the jeweler cleaning some piece. Not to go all conspiracy but what are the chances they got engaged in Hawaii and then waited until Christmas whether that be for the social media content or for whatever show it was they are/were filming.

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Post by Kashathediva Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:37 pm

My husband and I picked out my ring and the diamond in the month of August many, years ago... We ended up actually getting engaged months later in Dec.
So who knows what happened with them.



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Post by sosleepy Mon Dec 26, 2016 10:31 pm

Eagle Eye wrote:Honestly, I just don't understand his thought process. He's "ready" to knock her up and have a baby that will tie them together for the rest of their lives, he's "ready" to live with her in her big beautiful house in a marriage-like relationship, but he's not "ready" to make a lifelong commitment, which she desperately wants, in front of their family and friends? Even if the piece of paper isn't important to him, it means everything to her, so unless he's secretly planning on bailing out in a few years, I don't get why he wouldn't willingly do this for her, if he really loved her. The fact that she had to beg him for it just makes me so sad.

Yeah. I argue the baby ties them together FAR more permantetly and forever than the marriage. Marriages can dissolve. That kid makes you have to cooperate and co-parent from here until death do you part, for real.
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Post by albean99 Mon Dec 26, 2016 11:34 pm

She's happy and he seems to be also so that's good enough for me. They have little Leo now which is what really counts.


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Post by bleuberry Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:54 am

Funny because he doesn't look so young anymore. He's aged what looks like 10 years since 2012.


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Post by nikikass Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:13 am

bleuberry wrote:Funny because he doesn't look so young anymore. He's aged what looks like 10 years since 2012.

I was just thinking that.

He looks the same age as her. LOL..
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