Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

Rolly wrote:I know it's not likely but I still hope the spoilers are wrong. Wouldn't that be something! JoJo is still the better match for Ben IMO I'm sure there is a lot that we don't see but the conversations shown with JoJo seem deeper and more mature. Lauren still seems like a HS crush to me. JMO

If she isn't F1 JoJo would be a great 'ette. She seems like such a well rounded person.... beauty, humor, maturity, intelligence and sensitivity. Whoever ends up as her F1 will be very lucky. She deserves much better than Chad.

I would love to know what went on behind the scenes. Ben seemed genuinely conflicted, clearly attracted to and having loving feelings towards both of them. I just see JoJo challenging him more, going outside the box as a choice and bringing out the best Ben IMO. Maybe in the end what draws me in is the unpredictable take a risk attraction which is JoJo not Lauren. JoJo overcame the obstacles....having the walls come down and taking risks even though she was terrified. I don't see Lauren's obstacles? If Ben chose Lauren he went with the safe pick IMO but it's his choice not mine. I wish he had asked me though.....  

I hope they are all very happy.

Different subject. How in the world does the F1 not watch the whole show? Probably best if they don't but not watching would make me crazy. Maybe they do watch but never tell anyone.

^ Great posts and great point.... If they don't admit to watching it, the don't have to answer any questions about it.

^ Agreed. As much as I wouldn't want to watch my fiance with other women there is just no way I couldn't. That's what wine, bourbon, and friends are for.

I remember JP and I think Roberto saying they only watched their portions.

And CMIIW, didn't Whitney choose to not watch too?

I know Josh only watched his and Andi's parts as well

Yes that is what Whitney said and so did Shawn I thought he said. Maybe that's a thing they suggest to do or say but I personally could not not watch. I give credit to all who have the willpower to refrain.

I would rather watch every second with him, so he can explain exactly what he was feeling, and what was going on. I would rather know all the details coming from him, rather than being asked a million questions in the media and not knowing what they are referring to.

GA, I totally agree.  And, a bigger question for me would be did Lauren's family not watch the episodes either?  As a parent, I would most definitely be watching.  And, if it happened to be this season, I would find it disturbing, just like Ben's own mother did.

I don't think I could ever not watch knowing that my friends and family and all the media people did. I mean I do get the thinking behind it, because if there were videos of my boyfriend with his ex lying around, I wouldn't want to see them. It would be too weird. But if everyone around me had seen them and kept asking me about them, I would probably go crazy wondering what I missed.

Add Ed. He also stopped watching the show, or at least only watched his parts. It seems this is typical for F1's.