Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

^^ I wonder if we will hear, "it's the little things..." this season. Seems like they are posting parallelism in their lives. Maybe V will post/snap a workout picture next.

so cute. She has a container of the Laughing Cow! I love that cheese. It also looks like she brought her own jarred tomatoes. My mother makes that type of sauce. You blanch the tomatoes, and cut them up and jar them rather than juicing them.

I really hope this isn't a foiler season. Vanessa not only appears grounded and kind, but she also seems like someone who could bring a great deal of laughter into the sometimes very serious Nick's life.

Bubblebunny wrote:I really hope this isn't a foiler season. Vanessa not only appears grounded and kind, but she also seems like someone who could bring a great deal of laughter into the sometimes very serious Nick's life.

I really hope that this is true and that we get to see it. One of the things that really sticks out for me from Nick on Andi's season was during his HTD. His mom asked him if Andi made him laugh and he said she made him smile. I thought that was so sad and it was one of the reasons that I didn't want him to end up with her...along with the fact that I thought she was a major b*tch, but that is another issue. I want to see a happy Nick. A Nick who even when he is pushed and challenged can still laugh at/with the woman who is pushing his buttons. A shared sense of humour is one of the best things for keeping a healthy relationship. I want to see if Vanessa can make him laugh and I will be curious to see how they communicate.

Vanessa is in the same field as I am and I know that since I started working with people with special needs it has made me much more observant. I have to be because sometimes  my safety depends on it. I'm sure she has had similar experiences. Those observational skills carry over into your regular life and help you nip things in the bud before they escalate. It gets you to deal with issues better and faster and helps you in resolving things. I want to see how they deal with stuff that comes up during the show because that will give me a clue as to how viable the relationship will be post show if the spoilers are correct.

I am just excited to see Nick in love and it finally reciprocated. I believe heart was truly broken by Andi, you could just tell by his demeanor at ATFR. Kaitlyn, not so much IMO. It will be nice that he finishes first for once and the lady loving him back appears genuine and kind.

Diana wrote:

What she did with that candy cane seemed inappropriate.. not cute IMO

Love this pic quote. Vanessa sounds like exactly what Nick is looking for and shares his views too from his past interviews (Bustle interviews come to mind).

@vanessagrimaldi30 Loved this and felt like I should repost it. I hope every woman learns to love how uniquely beautiful they are. Don't change yourself for anyone, because there is no better YOU than the YOU that you are. #nobetteryou

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOWJFQnB-HN/?taken-by=vanessagrimaldi30

It's a magical time of year

voiceofreason wrote:

Diana wrote:

What she did with that candy cane seemed inappropriate.. not cute IMO

What did she do? It's not showing up for me. Not sure if it's a glitch or deleted.

bleuberry wrote:

voiceofreason wrote:

Diana wrote:

What she did with that candy cane seemed inappropriate.. not cute IMO

What did she do? It's not showing up for me. Not sure if it's a glitch or deleted.

She deleted it because it was inappropriate. She was shoving a massive candy cane "down her throat"..

Pardon me what is inappropriate about that?