Re: Arie Luyendyk Jr - Lauren Burnham - Bachelor 22 - Discussion

by umngirl Sat Mar 10, 2018 4:32 pm

^So based on that he was DMing others as well. Should we guess who and if they will release said DMs?

by Diana Sat Mar 10, 2018 4:46 pm

Arie DM'ing multiple woman behind Lauren's back (imo)

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by happygolucky Sat Mar 10, 2018 4:54 pm

Despite her exuberant personality and ways of expressing her opinions I actually have found myself agreeing often with Bekah ... and indeed I think her vehement comments against Arie come after deeper disappointment (figuring out she was wrong about him, because she liked him, and because he is similar to her - IMO) ... I agree with Bekah M regarding Arie's lies, mostly for "proposing" to a person he had no place (feelings) to propose ... he was "reciting" words with no meaning ... but he isn't the 1st lead to do so ... actually one of the most beloved Bachelors, who media and fans still write into the stars as an example of a "good guy everyone deserves" mr. Ben Higgins himself has done plenty of meaningless talking IMO ... and yet I see on SM people placing them as opposites, to prove how horrible Arie is versus the "angelic" Ben (who wouldn't hurt a fly) ... and I call it BS. Arie made a mistake, h***, he made more than 1 (at least 3...) ... but he isn't the worse of all, actually he isn't any different from most ... JMO.

by TheWrongReasons Sat Mar 10, 2018 4:56 pm

Nice! Can’t wait to see more salacious pickup lines like “hope all is well” released/exposed. Arie and Lauren should probably go in that cave now. Bring on the drama! 2pop

by Diana Sat Mar 10, 2018 5:06 pm

lauren is clearly okay with this behavior or is in la la land I don't know what is worse Rolling Eyes

JMO

by ReneeM Sat Mar 10, 2018 5:15 pm

If we're engaged, don't message b*tches I don't like for 'casual conversation'. Point blank period. Jmo.

by TheWrongReasons Sat Mar 10, 2018 5:36 pm

It’s Bekah’s opinion that Lauren didn’t like her ... she certainly liked her well enough to joke comment on IG when she could have just not follow her at all and/or not commented.

As for not liking Bratty Beks now - yeah, that’s a given IMO.

by Mommyof2 Sat Mar 10, 2018 5:44 pm

Norcalgal wrote:
Mommyof2 wrote:so let's see if we can be respectful towards one another and have an adult conversation.

It makes sense as Bekah has been nothing but rude to Arie post-show. Jmo

If you listened to the entire Betchelor podcast that was removed from the fan thread, you will hear both Bekah and Kendall say very nice things about Lauren AND wish she and Arie well. Bekah even said that she'd get over being so mad at Arie, in time. Both girls were disappointed in Arie because he proposed when he was so conflicted. And they both felt empathy with Becca for going through a humiliating breakup on TV. These are facts - not opinion, based on listening to the entire podcast.

It is your right to label Bekah's comments as rude to Arie. In my opinion, they were reactionary comments made by someone who was invested in the people involved. Listening to the podcast made me feel better and I gained more insight into Lauren. I know sometimes we don't want to invest time in listening or reading post-show commentary as we anticipate negative comments and this board has enough of those without seeking additional sources. I don't have hate for anyone - the world truly needs more love right now!

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-betchelor/id1271840754?mt=2

I did not listen to the Betchelor podcast (I will listen later), but Bekah did nothing but slam Arie post-show. She said she dodged a bullet, slammed him again on ATFR, and exposed him DMing her. There was no love coming from her after the finale. None. Jmo.

by Diana Sat Mar 10, 2018 5:53 pm

I will never understand why Arie is so annoyed and calling Bekah immature for posting their DM'S. like dude... you shouldn't have sent them then. JMO

by notarose Sat Mar 10, 2018 6:10 pm

Diana wrote:I will never understand why Arie is so annoyed and calling Bekah immature for posting their DM'S. like dude... you shouldn't have sent them then. JMO

I guess Arie thought it was immature/disrespectful to not keep private matters private.

Oh wait... rofl

by Mommyof2 Sat Mar 10, 2018 6:12 pm

I don't understand the fuss about it in the first place. So, he wanted to send her a message without the whole world watching. Big deal. Jmo.

by **GuardianAngel** Sat Mar 10, 2018 6:19 pm

This is what I want to know! Did she ever post her response??

“I think it just shows her immaturity. I think that’s the takeaway from it,” Luyendyk Jr., 36, told E! News on Wednesday, just hours after he proposed to Burnham on Tuesday evening’s After the Final Rose taping.

“I could add to that, but I’ll just keep that to myself,” he shared.
http://people.com/tv/bachelor-arie-luyendyk-jr-speaks-out-bekah-martinez-dms/

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