Bachelor Australia - Matt Agnew - Season 7 - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7458577/Abbie-Chatfield-responds-video-boozy-Bachelor-viewing-party.html

Rikkim wrote:Hi all, been lurking and enjoying all the sleuthing...is this Daily Mail report a red herring or should Chelsie fans be nervous?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7458703/The-Bachelor-Abbie-Chatfield-jets-Perth-TIME-Matt-Agnew.html

IMO there is no way she would be flying commercial and be so visible. I do also recall Matt saying he is still dating the one he chose

After this came out this morning... I would be shocked if Abbie is F1. She liked the post so bachfunny is taking it as confirmation that these are her views.

Abbie thinks monogamy is toxic

Sundy wrote:

Bobette wrote:

Sundy wrote:Wow. Chelsies family must be minted. That house is next level

@Sundy guess what - Chelsea's castle is a fake!  

I'm glad I know this information before watching the episode or else I would have been judging the heck out of her for being a spoiled rich kid.

Lol. Not the first time it’s happened and I kinda respect that. Shows that Chelsie is true to her word about being protective of image and privacy.

Lucky though because I was going to say that her family is absolutely minted. I’d marry her

I think they're basically always fake, aren't they? They want a certain ~aesthetic~ for the show, families want privacy, and production crews need room to move.

As for Abbie liking that post ... I think that's a fairly common opinion when you're young - people change their minds about things like that a lot when young - and I just don't see why it's a big issue for so many people that she doesn't want to get a ring on it and pop some sprogs straight away! #protectiveofAbbie

leavers wrote:

Sundy wrote:

Bobette wrote:

Sundy wrote:Wow. Chelsies family must be minted. That house is next level

@Sundy guess what - Chelsea's castle is a fake!  

I'm glad I know this information before watching the episode or else I would have been judging the heck out of her for being a spoiled rich kid.

Lol. Not the first time it’s happened and I kinda respect that. Shows that Chelsie is true to her word about being protective of image and privacy.

Lucky though because I was going to say that her family is absolutely minted. I’d marry her

I think they're basically always fake, aren't they? They want a certain ~aesthetic~ for the show, families want privacy, and production crews need room to move.

As for Abbie liking that post ... I think that's a fairly common opinion when you're young - people change their minds about things like that a lot when young - and I just don't see why it's a big issue for so many people that she doesn't want to get a ring on it and pop some sprogs straight away! #protectiveofAbbie

Hmmm...that might be because she is telling Matt that she is ready for marriage (commitment and monogamy are kind of implied with that) and wants kids. That means that Sogand and Matt's friend who chatted with Abbie were correct...she is saying stuff because that is what he wants to hear, not because that is what she wants. Nothing wrong with thinking like that, just don't go and lie about it to win the Bachelor!

Is it around that time when the contestants basically gives the season away with they shenanigans?

Oh dear! I feel sorry for Abbie

Sprite wrote:

leavers wrote:

Sundy wrote:

Bobette wrote:

Sundy wrote:Wow. Chelsies family must be minted. That house is next level

@Sundy guess what - Chelsea's castle is a fake!  

I'm glad I know this information before watching the episode or else I would have been judging the heck out of her for being a spoiled rich kid.

Lol. Not the first time it’s happened and I kinda respect that. Shows that Chelsie is true to her word about being protective of image and privacy.

Lucky though because I was going to say that her family is absolutely minted. I’d marry her

I think they're basically always fake, aren't they? They want a certain ~aesthetic~ for the show, families want privacy, and production crews need room to move.

As for Abbie liking that post ... I think that's a fairly common opinion when you're young - people change their minds about things like that a lot when young - and I just don't see why it's a big issue for so many people that she doesn't want to get a ring on it and pop some sprogs straight away! #protectiveofAbbie

Hmmm...that might be because she is telling Matt that she is ready for marriage (commitment and monogamy are kind of implied with that) and wants kids. That means that Sogand and Matt's friend who chatted with Abbie were correct...she is saying stuff because that is what he wants to hear, not because that is what she wants. Nothing wrong with thinking like that, just don't go and lie about it to win the Bachelor!

Uh disagree with this completely. Saying you want marriage and also saying monogamy can be toxic do not have to be two separate things. I know several married couples who are either open or explore together outside of their marriage and are completely committed and devoted. You know the reason Curious Creatures is so popular in Melbourne? Not everyone has to subscribe to the conventional ideals of what marriage 'should be.' High time to break the taboo around open marriages and the idea that they are less genuine than conventional ones. Abby didn't say she wants to be single and screw around, she said she is a fan of open relationships.

I love that she liked that post because she wasn't ashamed of not confirming to the norms. Whether married couples want to be monogamous, whether they want to do S&M or swing, whether they want to not have sex at all - none are less valid or 'better' than the others.

Sundy wrote:

Rikkim wrote:Hi all, been lurking and enjoying all the sleuthing...is this Daily Mail report a red herring or should Chelsie fans be nervous?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7458703/The-Bachelor-Abbie-Chatfield-jets-Perth-TIME-Matt-Agnew.html

IMO there is no way she would be flying commercial and be so visible. I do also recall Matt saying he is still dating the one he chose

this is absolute rubbish imo and exactly on time like every year when the media writes crazy stuff for click$. Like I posted before per someone who had shared this anonymously with me that Matt and Chels were together on a SHV and a few days later Matt himself confirmed to media that he was on a SHV that very time I stated which only proves they were correct.

There's zero way that Matt imo would be dumping Chelsie or meeting with Abbie. More likely Chels and Matt are super happy together as he has said and coupled up and Abbie is in Perth to meet up with Todd (she is 100% Todd's type  ) jmo.


ETA: This is a comment under the article and I can believe it that she's told people Chels wins   Heck, is there anyone that doesn't know? It's been known since Sportsbet let it all out and TAB have had the most ridiculous odds that deny any chance of anyone but Chels winning. I think Abbie is just fine and ready to film for paradise (probably was guaranteed a queen of bip slot to play the game while on the show). 

AllAboutLove wrote:

Sundy wrote:

Rikkim wrote:Hi all, been lurking and enjoying all the sleuthing...is this Daily Mail report a red herring or should Chelsie fans be nervous?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7458703/The-Bachelor-Abbie-Chatfield-jets-Perth-TIME-Matt-Agnew.html

IMO there is no way she would be flying commercial and be so visible. I do also recall Matt saying he is still dating the one he chose

this is absolute rubbish imo and exactly on time like every year when the media writes crazy stuff for click$. Like I posted before per someone who had shared this anonymously with me that Matt and Chels were together on a SHV and a few days later Matt himself confirmed to media that he was on a SHV that very time I stated which only proves they were correct.

There's zero way that Matt imo would be dumping Chelsie or meeting with Abbie. More likely Chels and Matt are super happy together as he has said and coupled up and Abbie is in Perth to meet up with Todd (she is 100% Todd's type  ) jmo.


ETA: This is a comment under the article and I can believe it that she's told people Chels wins   Heck, is there anyone that doesn't know? It's been known since Sportsbet let it all out and TAB have had the most ridiculous odds that deny any chance of anyone but Chels winning. I think Abbie is just fine and ready to film for paradise (probably was guaranteed a queen of bip slot to play the game while on the show). 

I saw this 4 days back on the bachelor Instagram handle.
Pretty much says it all!
So the article is a red herring!





https://instagram.com/thebachelorau?igshid=1x4fufyp4t1wd

Vjeff wrote:

Sprite wrote:
Hmmm...that might be because she is telling Matt that she is ready for marriage (commitment and monogamy are kind of implied with that) and wants kids. That means that Sogand and Matt's friend who chatted with Abbie were correct...she is saying stuff because that is what he wants to hear, not because that is what she wants. Nothing wrong with thinking like that, just don't go and lie about it to win the Bachelor!

Uh disagree with this completely. Saying you want marriage and also saying monogamy can be toxic do not have to be two separate things. I know several married couples who are either open or explore together outside of their marriage and are completely committed and devoted. You know the reason Curious Creatures is so popular in Melbourne? Not everyone has to subscribe to the conventional ideals of what marriage 'should be.' High time to break the taboo around open marriages and the idea that they are less genuine than conventional ones. Abby didn't say she wants to be single and screw around, she said she is a fan of open relationships. I love that she liked that post because she wasn't ashamed of not confirming to the norms. Whether married couples want to be monogamous, whether they want to do S&M or swing, whether they want to not have sex at all - none are less valid or 'better' than the others.

The point is that Matt wants monogamy. He wants to be in a relationship with ONE person and commit to one person only as he's stated. Not an open marriage or a non-monogamous relationship. Doesn't matter if open relationships are wonderful for other couples as it's not something Matt wants and so therefore it's just another incompatibility between Matt and Abbie. jmo

@Missnair nice catch!  It goes along with everything I've been told, that Matt and Chelsie are very happy together