The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #7 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

^I think that is what happened.  From Kaitlyn's blog:

"Yes, I kissed a lot of guys. I was trying to compartmentalize these different relationships, and I was just dating these guys how I ordinarily would. And, if I'm dating someone and I like them, I kiss them. It's challenging to be in my position, asking everyone to understand my decisions, my mistakes and my journey. Everyone is different, and I would rather be disliked for who I am than liked for who I am not. It is too exhausting to try and make everyone happy or pretend. I hope everyone can understand that and try to be forgiving as they watch how all of this unfolds."

Try to forgive me because I slept with Nick pre FS and then ended up choosing Shawn. It also explains why she is so upset and crying about it.  Because she really cares for Shawn.  Why sob if it is Shawn that she sleeps with?

Also - I think it is refreshing if Shawn could move past that. And if that's the case like Shawn even more.

I totally agree Cecelia!!

looking forward to next week - i have a feeling RS will be fliessed yet again

"So I’m glad I could finally clear up the spoiler for you, with a little help from Kaitlyn." RS

I am so happy the smug one was wrong!

emusha wrote:looking forward to next week - i have a feeling RS will be fliessed yet again

Yes he just admitted his spoiler is wrong

Yawwwn...

I am going to wait to see if the show gives us nightcam videos, like they used to in Bachelor Pad, to PROVE it.

sdmom wrote:I can't access his website from my ipad and computer. Anyone else has the same problem?
This is so messed up IMO if she had pre FS sex with one guy and chose another guy....

I got on with my computer today but other times I have encountered that and usually access it with my I-phone since I worry about viruses from his site.

I guess one way to look at her sleeping with Nick and getting engaged to Shawn is that it is basically the same scenario as the FS nights where the lead sleeps with more than her F1 only a little earlier timing. I personally would not go for that but apparently others seem to have no problem. Different strokes from different folks. I am just curious if she and Nick slept together again in the FS too. I would imagine so. If so, Shawn must have a higher tolerance than I would have - maybe he looks at it as Kaitlin sowing her wild oats?

emusha wrote:looking forward to next week - i have a feeling RS will be fliessed yet again

I really hope so.

I remember Prince Farming sleeping with Britt after their balloon trip, despite her waking up that morning with her makeup on. That was a very hot session, with her sweater on under the covers.

Wonder if we have the same situation... one guy "sleeps" and the other does what Ben H. explained with his postie notes with the middle school class group date. I'll leave it to others to argue it out who gets to do what.

Just consider Jared's make-out session on a rose petal strewn bed last night as... foreplay.

So ... is it 100% accurate/proven that it is Nick, the sex-guy? ... or is still just Smug One word? - 'Coz about the engagement we didn't need the confirmation (when the solid proof is out), but for the deed I still haven't read how does it all play out ... so nothing new from oracle's sources?

So, it's possible Kaitlyn slept with Nick twice.

Good for Shawn to forgive her.

Nothing beats love and understanding.