The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Blogs - NO Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

nutty1 wrote:Ben's blog....

http://www.people.com/people/package/article/0,,20981907_20985843,00.html

The thing that stood out to me most was him mentioning twice that he was there to find a wife, not just a girl to date. I hope that bodes well for his present relationship and where it stands right now.
He was very kind toward Olivia and I am not surprised. I do believe, however delusional she was, a lot of Olivia came from producer manipulation.

PS....I wasn't sure where else to put this.

NCGalBecca wrote:Yikes!  Ben's latest blog post on People

But with that, I knew I had three women left that I felt absolutely amazing about. But Fantasy Suites presented even more pressure than before, and I can tell you now I never expected this week to unfold the way that it did. I had to say a goodbye in a way I never thought I would, to a girl I wasn't sure I ever would say goodbye to … and she did not take it very well at all. I don't think neither she nor I anticipated that kind of emotion overflowing when goodbye happened so unexpectedly. They say what happens in the Fantasy Suites stays in the Fantasy Suites, but next week's episode definitely puts that to the test.

To say that what happened on this week’s episode of The Bachelor was dramatic would be a terrible understatement. Over the years, I think many Bachelors and Bachelorettes have fallen in love with two (and maybe even more) people. I think it’s very possible and I think it’s part of the journey and part of the magic that is The Bachelor. But for the first time ever, a Bachelor told two different women that he loved them.
I know Ben pretty well and I know he meant everything he said — but man has he put himself, and the women, in a very, very tough position.