Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

limoncello wrote:is he really? :O that's weird. it gives some hope to BenJo believers I guess

He is following him on twitter but not on IG...which he seems to be a pretty big poster on...

It is very possible he loves Jojo...you can fall in love with two people in a process like this, I am sure. What a debacle! The question is: Who will he not be able to say good-bye to?
If I were either Jojo or Lauren, I don't think I would be ready to marry him after seeing this s-storm where he was so emotionally involved with the other!

jupi wrote:Are there any post-show clues that could point to JoJo being F1? I'm fairly positive that it'll be Lauren, but I'm still trying to keep an open mind, because I don't want to be... well, blindsided

The only one I can think of right now is that changed Instagram caption

Edit: Oh plus Ben Patton following our Bachelor Ben, I missed that

I'm not sure. I haven't been following JoJo on SM that much. Maybe someone else has and can give you more info.

tennischick80 wrote:It is very possible he loves Jojo...you can fall in love with two people in a process like this, I am sure. What a debacle! The question is: Who will he not be able to say good-bye to?
If I were either Jojo or Lauren, I don't think I would be ready to marry him after seeing this s-storm where he was so emotionally involved with the other!

Regarding the bolded, remember that Des was crushed when Brooks left and Chris still kept his heart in the game and was able to move forward. I think most F1s are able to see past the need to make the Lead look conflicted and still invest themselves in the relationship.

eirekay wrote:

tennischick80 wrote:It is very possible he loves Jojo...you can fall in love with two people in a process like this, I am sure. What a debacle! The question is: Who will he not be able to say good-bye to?
If I were either Jojo or Lauren, I don't think I would be ready to marry him after seeing this s-storm where he was so emotionally involved with the other!

Regarding the bolded, remember that Des was crushed when Brooks left and Chris still kept his heart in the game and was able to move forward.  I think most F1s are able to see past the need to make the Lead look conflicted and still invest themselves in the relationship.

Yep, and I'm sure Ben has devoted himself to the woman he chose, so hopefully he's talked her through the process and has been honest with her. That's almost all he can do, really.

They SHOWED JoJo's date after Lauren's to maximize the drama, but the date was actually shot BEFORE.  JoJo's date was filmed on November 1st and Lauren's date was filmed on November 3rd.  They were shown out of order deliberately.  Because a lot more happened with JoJo and they wanted more time, so they showed her at the end.  Reality Steve was absolutely correct in what he reported.  (I'm happy to provide the link to his column where this is featured if the mods want me to)

While I very much enjoy this board, I am a Reality Steve Fan.  Yep, I like Satan and read every single column he writes. And I don't care that he occasionally gets things out of order or is told something incorrect.  When he gets something wrong and finds out, he always takes responsibility for it.  I've been reading him since the beginning and I always will.  If that makes me a pariah here or an outcast, so be it.  I happen to like what he writes.

So you are saying RS only posts FACTS?

^^^I've learned to choose my words carefully here. I'm sure most people do. And occasionally I revise a post to be more considerate and concise.

I try to be respectful.

metalgirl wrote:They SHOWED JoJo's date after Lauren's to maximize the drama, but the date was actually shot BEFORE.  JoJo's date was filmed on November 1st and Lauren's date was filmed on November 3rd.  They were shown out of order deliberately.  Because a lot more happened with JoJo and they wanted more time, so they showed her at the end.  Reality Steve was absolutely correct in what he reported.  (I'm happy to provide the link to his column where this is featured if the mods want me to)

While I very much enjoy this board, I am a Reality Steve Fan.  Yep, I like Satan and read every single column he writes. And I don't care that he occasionally gets things out of order or is told something incorrect.  When he gets something wrong and finds out, he always takes responsibility for it.  I've been reading him since the beginning and I always will.  If that makes me a pariah here or an outcast, so be it.  I happen to like what he writes.

No one is judged just because they prefer a certain website or have certain opinions or get their information from certain bloggers. It makes no difference to the camaraderie around here. Information is obtained from various sources one of them being sleuthing which is what we do around here, so it's all good.

Have there been any clues to Ben visiting JoJo, post show, safe house visits?

Love the Caribbean background. Hope they get to do fun things there on their days off.



from: https://amp.twimg.com/v/60c75de7-b45d-45b3-a008-e184eb56663b

I noticed he really likes to touch JoJo's face/hair.