Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

Good catch @Ash2214 and @ElonM

IMO she wouldn't post the tease about cuddling if there wasn't someone with her. I see hair on that arm, but not enough to be Kenny's by the pics on his IG. I have no idea who that guy is but he doesn't sound like a catch to me from what I'm reading here.

And in her book she told her family Nick was the dud and Josh was the stud? Un, if her ideas of studs are abusive, controlling Josh and sexual-assault perpetrator Kenny, she has bigger issues than I thought.

I had no idea who this person was and just read up on that sexual assault case...that's straight up r*pe, as it is legally defined as "penetration by any object or body part". Just so gross. Andi is the absolute worst if she is dating him, IMO. He makes josh look like a saint.

yana_bach wrote:I very well could be her own foot though. That pose doesn't take a contortionist to achieve.

To me this is her leg and she is resting her elbow on her knee that is cut off from the pic.

So she moves on from verbally abusive Josh to a straight up sexually abusive guy? Yikes. Sounds like all that "self reflection" January 2015 holed up in Kelly's house and subsequently writing her NYT Best Seller really helped her long term. She's got it all figured out, that one.

Andi life starts falling apart once she choose the Josh, she choose the wrong guy and it has never been the same since. She finally move on from Chris interesting!!!

nothatgirl wrote:I had no idea who this person was and just read up on that sexual assault case...that's straight up r*pe, as it is legally defined as "penetration by any object or body part". Just so gross. Andi is the absolute worst if she is dating him, IMO. He makes josh look like a saint.

I don't think it makes her "the worst." She didn't do the assaulting; it does, however, make her the dumbest imo. 

And not to open a can of worms, but she and Josh made a huge error in not trying harder/better/more/differently imo. They were, by far, better matched than either of their paramours that came after each other imo.

Alanna wrote:

nothatgirl wrote:I had no idea who this person was and just read up on that sexual assault case...that's straight up r*pe, as it is legally defined as "penetration by any object or body part". Just so gross. Andi is the absolute worst if she is dating him, IMO. He makes josh look like a saint.

I don't think it makes her "the worst." She didn't do the assaulting; it does, however, make her the dumbest imo. 

And not to open a can of worms, but she and Josh made a huge error in not trying harder/better/more/differently imo. They were, by far, better matched than either of their paramours that came after each other imo.

I mean, after all the sl*t-shaming she got, she made such a big deal about feminism and women having each others' backs and how it's not fair that men get away with things, but women are name-called if they dare to be sexually active. So she's being a total hypocrite, IMO. There are other people who saw this happen, so it's not even a she said/he said situation. And the way they defended it was to call the girl every name in the book, by basically saying she deserved it because she was so trashy and gross. So, she's either stupid enough to believe it didn't happen despite the evidence (and she's not stupid) or she's okay with it. This is Andi's MO, IMO. Be self-righteous to avoid any criticism, but never actually have the morals to stand by those belief.

Nah. Andi and Josh were basically one of the worst matches to come from this franchise. Not sure how much more trying they could do. IMO that one was never going to work. I never begrudge these people who they choose... the heart wants what it wants and I'm not one to pine over what could have been with a F2. Andi is the one exception here for me. She chose so poorly.

And word. Can't wait to see how this "feminist" justifies being with a sexual predator.

IMO Andi doesn't need to be dating Kenny to put her preferences into question. Choosing him as part of her social circle defines her.

Agree with everyone's comment about Kenny. Seriously this is who the woman who thinks she's some huge star and above others, starts dating? The guy who made himself his own wrestling championship belt and spent a huge amount of his Challenge winnings building his own wrestling ring in his parents' backyard?

But none of that of course compares to the Tonya situation. I know many of the Challenge competitors defended him and Evan because many of them hated Tonya. But as I said in a Challenge topic thread, it was telling that MTV not only settled this suit with Tonya but banned Kenny and Evan permanently from the Challenge competitions.

These are the people who let CT back on, after he tried to physically maim Adam and had to be physically restrained by multiple people. CT looked like a crazed psycho during that incident and they let him back on but banned Kenny and Evan. That was all I needed to know that something very horrible and illegal happened.

Nah. Andi and Josh were basically one of the worst matches to come from this franchise. Not sure how much more trying they could do. IMO that one was never going to work. I never begrudge these people who they choose... the heart wants what it wants and I'm not one to pine over what could have been with a F2. Andi is the one exception here for me. She chose so poorly.

Agreed. Even before we found out just how horrible Josh is in relationships, I knew Josh and Andi would not last because even during the season it was clear that their personalities were both too dominant, which meant they would likely butt heads a lot.

sosleepy wrote:Nah. Andi and Josh were basically one of the worst matches to come from this franchise. Not sure how much more trying they could do. IMO that one was never going to work. I never begrudge these people who they choose... the heart wants what it wants and I'm not one to pine over what could have been with a F2. Andi is the one exception here for me. She chose so poorly.

And word. Can't wait to see how this "feminist" justifies being with a sexual predator.

@Alanna and I followed both Andi and Josh closely a couple of years ago. While they were far too similar in their dominant personalities, they had a lot of stuff on paper that matched up and in actuality, would have made them a good fit if they tried to get help in regards to their issues like Josh's with his temper, which I think is what Alanna was referring to. Plus, with how she is, she wouldn't have lasted with Nick or Farmer Chris. It didn't matter who she picked.

Andi got him away from his family for months, which was a miracle in itself. I would bet this was Andi's "bliss" period with him, which she referred to in her book. I would bet her hell period with him was when his crazy mother came back into the picture.

It's all moot point now though, however, and if Andi is dating Kenny, well shame on her. All JMO