MAFS - Season 4 - Tom Wilson - Lillian Vilchez

GA - I hope you are right. However, they seemed to have such different goals in life, I wonder if that is what drove them apart. I guess we just wait and see. JMHO.

I agree with the both of you. This story ( between the two of them) is FAR from over. We shall see how it transpires. Those crazy kids....just like them to make us tune in to see how they are doing...LOL

I wouldn't think anything of it if @tireman4 didn't bring those tweets over. When a couple is done, usually there is an announcement, I wish her the best and will always care for her, blah blah blah

But were told it isn't over, you have to loose something first, and that there were terms and agreements. You don't tweet stuff like that and expect sleuthers to ignore it.

Even more interesting items....I am glad they are friends...

Lillian Vilchez‏Verified account @lillian_mafs  19h19 hours ago

Emma's baptism today!

Edit, Tom was there. Not sure why it cut him or his email address off. That is what point I was trying to make.

This is the point I was "trying" to make. All this new technology..sheesh..LOL..


lillyvilchez

This past Sunday with the moms! ❤️ Thanks @tomyachts for joining!

I was just coming here to post the same thing.  

To a beautiful Sunday with the moms! Thanks @Tom_MAFS for joining!  https://t.co/weMhI46L6q

— Lillian Vilchez (@lillian_mafs) July 26, 2017

GuardianAngel wrote:I was just coming here to post the same thing.  

To a beautiful Sunday with the moms! Thanks @Tom_MAFS for joining!  https://t.co/weMhI46L6q

— Lillian Vilchez (@lillian_mafs) July 26, 2017

Thank GA. I could not get anything the post. Her Instagram has her and Tom in it. Again, humm.....

It's all very strange. I wondered if for some weird reason they felt it necessary to start over again. Date first, then get married. But why not just separate and start over. They went the full divorce route, skipping their merry way to freedom, and now this.

I guess this is the start of "more to come".

GuardianAngel wrote:It's all very strange. I wondered if for some weird reason they felt it necessary to start over again. Date first, then get married. But why not just separate and start over. They went the full divorce route, skipping their merry way to freedom, and now this.

I guess this is the start of "more to come".

Yep or by getting divorced, no more MAFS..who knows..

If you love something, set if free. If it comes back, it was meant to be. They really liked each other. They were very attracted to each other. But that being said they had very different perspectives. Perhaps they thought that if they started over again and chose each other they could make clearer decisions about what was really important and what they were willing to compromise on. They did not want to be married to just be married. Or - more likely - they realized that they really liked each other and each other's families but were not compatible in so many other ways. Get out while they were not too angry with each other. Or (most cynically) they had both gotten enough free advertising for their real estate and interior boat design businesses. (All IMHO).

Some people have a hard time letting go of each other or they just don't want to.  There is also the possibility that one (or both) of them don't like the "pressure" of being married -- if that is what they view it as, but still want to be in a relationship with each other.  I know that the show is called Married at First Sight and what the premise of the show is -- however, I personally don't think that all of the participants that have been on the show have been ready to or in some cases really haven't wanted to. Maybe that is a factor here.  IMO.

I think they genuinely love and respect each other and will always remain friends but marriage does not work. She is from a more "corporate" environment and he is from a more free spirited environment. She is more focused on numbers and sales and goals and he is more focused on making enough to survive in the bus. JMO, but I think if each were a little more to the center they might have survived but I think they were mismatched from the start.