Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

He is so lame. I was never a fan of Lauren, but the difference between their behavior post breakup has definitely made me respect her on some level. This girl had to endure Ben for almost two years, that's tough

all IMO

simon1781 wrote:@bleuberry  joelle_fletcher liked Sam.a.vence's comment: ...not taking things well
This comment was made on the most recent post of Ben.
IMO It's really weird ,what is she doing scrolling through Ben's comment section even if it was by accident . She wasn't even tagged in that comment . Liking a post ,I get it but random liking of comment ??

It was probably accidental. She's liked his pictures with Lauren before as well as his charity work. There are little hearts next to comments now and she probably hit one by mistake.

Ash2214 wrote:

simon1781 wrote:@bleuberry  joelle_fletcher liked Sam.a.vence's comment: ...not taking things well
This comment was made on the most recent post of Ben.
IMO It's really weird ,what is she doing scrolling through Ben's comment section even if it was by accident . She wasn't even tagged in that comment . Liking a post ,I get it but random liking of comment ??

It was probably accidental. She's liked his pictures with Lauren before as well as his charity work. There are little hearts next to comments now and she probably hit one by mistake.

Yeah... but why is she even scrolling through reading comments on his break up pic to begin with? It's ... a little strange. Side eyeing that one, big time.

Cila51290 wrote:I just can't believe he's basically making himself into a meme post breakup. I really thought he was gonna be quiet. Just work his 9-5 job and help with his foundation. The more I look at that photo of him, the more I think he's an attention seeking manchild. jmo

Cosigned.

What you've never snooped your ex's SM?

bleuberry wrote:What you've never snooped your ex's SM?

Of course. I'm smart enough not to like comments though. Be stealth, Joelle.

@sosleepy why? How do we even know she was continuously scrolling through comments? The picture could have popped up in her timeline, she found the picture stupid, clicked on the comments and read the last few, and then moved on.

And in reality, it's kind of funny considering JoJo took a lot of heat for her relationship and the guy that dumped her, and was touted as the best thing ever, now posted a picture of himself buying ice cream and whiskey because he's "sad" she might have just wanted to see what people were saying about the picture.

sosleepy wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

simon1781 wrote:@bleuberry  joelle_fletcher liked Sam.a.vence's comment: ...not taking things well
This comment was made on the most recent post of Ben.
IMO It's really weird ,what is she doing scrolling through Ben's comment section even if it was by accident . She wasn't even tagged in that comment . Liking a post ,I get it but random liking of comment ??

It was probably accidental. She's liked his pictures with Lauren before as well as his charity work. There are little hearts next to comments now and she probably hit one by mistake.

Yeah... but why is she even scrolling through reading comments on his break up pic to begin with? It's ... a little strange. Side eyeing that one, big time.

Because she's nosey like the rest of us (AKA: was looking to see how ppl were reacting to his dumb azz post.) Just because she personally knows Ben and Lauren and was involved with them both, doesn't mean she gets the inside scoop or turns a blind eye to the drama. She obviously never speaks to Ben and I doubt she's super close with Lauren, so she's being nosey, as a general Bachelor viewer IMO.

And like most of us have said a million and one times, JoJo never truly loved Ben. The feelings, whatever they were, were exasperated by The Bachelor bubble. He's too mellow, cheesy, and lame for her when looking how he lives her life VS her. Therefore, I highly doubt it's "lingering feelings." It's cause she's nosey..and probably living for the drama like the rest of us. All IMO.

simon1781 wrote:@bleuberry  joelle_fletcher liked Sam.a.vence's comment: ...not taking things well
This comment was made on the most recent post of Ben.
IMO It's really weird ,what is she doing scrolling through Ben's comment section even if it was by accident . She wasn't even tagged in that comment . Liking a post ,I get it but random liking of comment ??

Maybe I should go look at what she liked before I comment but "Nah, I am going to share my take on it, anyway". I don't find JoJo liking anything related to Ben strange at all. They had a great TV relationship. Ben is part of JoJo journey to eventually finding her HEA. It's human nature to be following the loop of Bach/Ette world. Jo Jo has her man and Ben (much to his regret, IMO) sent her on her way to find him. I'm sure she'd love to hug Ben's neck a thousand times over for the decision he made. All that said, I can't imagine why she wouldn't still have fond memories of her first journey. It's a chapter of her life she wouldn't like to change. Why would she? Ben on the other hand is a strange but dull bird IMO. I don't get him at all.

Ash2214 wrote:@sosleepy why? How do we even know she was continuously scrolling through comments? The picture could have popped up in her timeline, she found the picture stupid, clicked on the comments and read the last few, and then moved on.

And in reality, it's kind of funny considering JoJo took a lot of heat for her relationship and the guy that dumped her, and was touted as the best thing ever, now posted a picture of himself buying ice cream and whiskey because he's "sad" she might have just wanted to see what people were saying about the picture.

Well... when Amanda's dad or Lauren's mom (perhaps inadvertently) like a comment, it gets totally scrutinized with all sorts of hidden meanings. Per usual, imo at least, JoJo gets a pass and the excuse train. To me, it's at least noteworthy as a discussion point. She felt the need to snoop through Ben's comments on his lame, making a joke of the break up picture.

JOJO's out here being messy now too? I love it. It probably was an accidental like IMO but just the fact that she's lurking? I'm dying

It's starting to get heated in here. Please stay on topic. TYIA