Bachelor Australia - Season 5 - Matty Johnson - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #4

HEA wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:I think most people who push themselves and call themselves the "favorite" and whatnot are ego driven and ego is a sign of insecurity imo.

I still think based on everything I've sleuthed on and off the show (so not just "edit") that Laura is like his sister and Matty will be doing what she says if she's F1 and I think he may like that since that's what he is used to.

JMO

laura dominatrix and matty submissive??

yeah... i see that  
source google

Replying purely so I have a record of this emoji.

HEA wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:I think most people who push themselves and call themselves the "favorite" and whatnot are ego driven and ego is a sign of insecurity imo.

I still think based on everything I've sleuthed on and off the show (so not just "edit") that Laura is like his sister and Matty will be doing what she says if she's F1 and I think he may like that since that's what he is used to.

JMO

laura dominatrix and matty submissive??

yeah... i see that  
source google

the emoticons are too funny 

yeah i am the queen of emojis. ask and you shall receive

THANK YOU everyone for the live comments !!
it was very entertaining and will make my day

is the teaser the same as already shared for the hometown or did you see something new in it?

BREAKING NEWS: Off Topic but the Bachelorette page just posted a video of her men arriving on the red carpet. I'm off.

Bobette wrote:BREAKING NEWS:  Off Topic but the Bachelorette page just posted a video of her men arriving on the red carpet.  I'm off.

do not want to see................................

HEA wrote:THANK YOU everyone for the live comments !!
it was very entertaining and will make my day

is the teaser the same as already shared for the hometown or did you see something new in it?

It was a newish sneak peak..every girl pretty much say they are falling for him except for Laura she says something like don't ask me to do that when you can't say it back.... :shocked!:

Bobette wrote:How on earth does Elise make it to F2 with only one SD, when Tara and Flo have both had 2???

yea, even cobie got 2 SD, COBIE!

Just watched the replay (missed the live) and caught up with all your commentary along the way... all the LOLs here -- you guys are way more entertaining than the predictability.com that that episode was ... LOL @ purple cadbury suit!!! What WAS thaaaaat?!! Haha

Okay I think you ladies are ALL over it tonight.

I'm SUPER wary of trying not to 'pick' on the 'confident' girl... confidence and women historically is a strange psychology, we're so conditioned to equating femininity with 'soft and shy' and that equating to 'better' and 'nicer' in women, as opposed to strong and confident. With that said, I am not feeling warmth toward Laura either. Just not.... feeling the humility there that makes a person endearing.
I think there can definitely be a balance of confidence and warmth/humility in people... feel that there is that balance less and less. I just want to LOVE the predicted F1 sooo much but... not...

RE: the episode preview for tomorrow -- short though it is, IMO once again it's the Laura show. The way he's looking at her as opposed to the less engaged way he's looking at the other girls (yes, even Elise IMO ), the way he's saying 'are you completely sure?' (or whatever) like he's invested enough to try and pull that out of her in that moment, which sets Laura off... and IA with whoever said she knows what she's doing - that she's got a very firm hook in him and the claims of 'insecurities' are kind of a false overlay of trying to project either a modesty or a fragility neither of which seem convincing.

Getting off my judgey armchair soapbox now.

Taras brother in the promo "are you gonna pick tara?" lmaoo , as if matty can answer that

ITA with everything you wrote @ideas_ideas and see it the same way

HEA wrote:

Bobette wrote:BREAKING NEWS:  Off Topic but the Bachelorette page just posted a video of her men arriving on the red carpet.  I'm off.

do not want to see................................

No worries @HEA my lips are sealed.  

Back to Matty, this just in: apparently there WAS tongue on his date with Elise.  If this man is to be believed...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-4857268/James-Blunt-awkward-performance-Bachelor.html

'Here am I, sort of tearful, singing a song, crying away, while they are tongues down the throat. Going hell for leather.'