Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:It's more than a couple. IDK about USA but billboards cost a lot of money in my neck of the woods. They are only up for a month, and it's thousands of dollars. How about donating to a worthy cause in Becca's hometown?

There are a million gifs they could have posted to make fun of Arie. IMHO it's not necessary to make fun of anyone, especially when Becca herself was so gracious and forgiving. They need to take note of their own and learn from it.

Let's just not hope what goes around comes around.

Mind you, if history repeats itself as it usually does in this show, Becca should be ready for the accusations and ridicule that seems to follow the lead season after season. IMO

LiboLRC wrote:So she said she cried for 4 days but then she is saying she just woke up one day and decided to move on? yeah right.

IMO, there are just too many holes in the whole thing that happened from ALL parties. There were some things that Becca said that was taped that made no sense whatsoever neither....almost contradictory in nature. I can just see as in every season, when the airing of the show happens, she's going to have to face ALL the regular stuff that every lead faces. IMO

GuardianAngel wrote:Yup 4 days later that offer came along.

It wouldn't have taken me 4 days, if someone told me they weren't sure about me. That I know for sure. Maybe 4 days to get over being shocked on the set up on getting it on film, but not to get over him.

IMO, all that she kept saying is how embarrased she was with it all. IMO, Becca knew all about things for a long time and had her lead secured for quite a while. IMO

Bachelorette Becca Kufrin has 'so much hope for what's to come'
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Culture/post-heartbreak-bachelorette-becca-kufrin-hope/story?id=53589727

GuardianAngel wrote:Yup 4 days later that offer came along.

It wouldn't have taken me 4 days, if someone told me they weren't sure about me. That I know for sure. Maybe 4 days to get over being shocked on the set up on getting it on film, but not to get over him.

Each of us is different. I have had friends who cried for weeks, even months over some guy. As for Becca, just getting to know a little more about her in the last few days, I'm wondering if she is one of those stoic people who always stays strong for everyone else? She takes care of everyone and holds things in so that she can take care of everything and everyone else. I'm beginning to think, that the break up may have been a cathartic moment for her. She was finally away from everyone she knows and focusing on herself alone. When Arie broke up with her it may have been the catalyst for all the emotions she may have been holding in all these years...her father's death, her mom's cancer, the ex and now Arie? She finally had the time to grieve...for everything...the lost people and lost hopes and dreams. Cried and wallowed a few days and then said...enough....pulled on her big girl panties and said time to get on with the next chapter.

Sprite wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Yup 4 days later that offer came along.

It wouldn't have taken me 4 days, if someone told me they weren't sure about me. That I know for sure. Maybe 4 days to get over being shocked on the set up on getting it on film, but not to get over him.

Each of us is different. I have had friends who cried for weeks, even months over some guy. As for Becca, just getting to know a little more about her in the last few days, I'm wondering if she is one of those stoic people who always stays strong for everyone else? She takes care of everyone and holds things in so that she can take care of everything and everyone else. I'm beginning to think, that the break up may have been a cathartic moment for her. She was finally away from everyone she knows and focusing on herself alone. When Arie broke up with her it may have been the catalyst for all the emotions she may have been holding in all these years...her father's death, her mom's cancer, the ex and now Arie? She finally had the time to grieve...for everything...the lost people and lost hopes and dreams. Cried and wallowed a few days and then said...enough....pulled on her big girl panties and said time to get on with the next chapter.

I recall the women at ATFR Part 2 describing Becca in words that echo the bolded

ElonM wrote:Bachelorette Becca Kufrin has 'so much hope for what's to come'
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Culture/post-heartbreak-bachelorette-becca-kufrin-hope/story?id=53589727

"Executives say this season will be the strangest yet". Please don't mess with Becca! The world will turn on you just like they have on some recent incidences in the news.

Strangest? I don't even know what to make of that.

Could it have to do with the men they chose? I will say that she's a total catch and her whole story has definitely blown up in the past week and a lot of people know about it now outside of the usual Bachelor nation bubble -- so I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of men have been jumping out of the woodwork to try and get on the show last minute.

Norcalgal wrote:

ElonM wrote:Bachelorette Becca Kufrin has 'so much hope for what's to come'
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Culture/post-heartbreak-bachelorette-becca-kufrin-hope/story?id=53589727

"Executives say this season will be the strangest yet".  Please don't mess with Becca! The world will turn on you just like they have on some recent incidences in the news.

Where exactly does it say this? Sorry I don't see it in the link. TYIA

They already know it will be the strangest yet, and they haven't even started filming. That tells me a lot, not that I didn't know already.

Bachelor #17 and #18 will be co-joined twins. 
Why would TPTB want to describe the season as being the "strangest"?

Kashathediva wrote:Bachelor #17 and #18 will be co-joined twins. 
Why would TPTB want to describe the season as being the "strangest"?

Omg, don’t give Elan any ideas.  
GA, it’s not in the printed story.  The reporter says it at the end of the video clip and the cohost repeats it in the throwback to the studio.

@alwaystulips