Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

LeapofFaith wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:@LeapofFaith I am not personally on a hate anyone train.
Hate is a really abhorrent emotion imo. For me personally. I think it rots from the inside out. However,  No judgment for anyone else.
It’s simply I really do believe good can outweigh bad, kind of like a talisman or kina hora or Kama or maybe that’s my rainbow and unicorn moments.

yeah maybe "hate" is the wrong word..but all i am seeing is "hate"..  on ig some ppl are being pretty hostile towards becca which makes me sad for her . that is all imo.

I hate to sound insensitive but Becca will just have to get used to some of her supporters being disappointed with her choice. With her being such a feminist and liberal some of them may even feel a bit betrayed right now, especially if she sticks with him. Hopefully soon they will recognize it is her life and not theirs. Never a good idea to project your wants onto someone else.

For her sake I hope any one disappointed will just skip out on watching the season instead of bashing her on instagram.

Someone on reddit started a thread about Becca’s premiere ratings and how there worried that it won’t premiere well because it’s 1. On Memorial Day and
2. The Stanley cup finals are on at the same time. After reading the comments it’s got me worried also. I’ll feel so bad for Becca if it’s the worst rating bachelorette premiere. I’m nervous.

Joy15 wrote:

pavalygurl wrote:I feel kind of bummed out, like my team lost the Super Bowl in a close game.  It's not like I lurve every F1, more like about a handful of them.  But this season is different.  I like Becca probably about the most of any lead so far.  I have let MY hopes for her go wild.  But, it's not like when the lead didn't pick my favorite like in seasons past.  It's like the lead picks someone I kind of have l lost respect for and little interest in even watching.
And I see guys she sent home and I want to say, what about him, how about him, oh do you really want HIM?  And I kind of wonder what Uncle Gary might have to say about his SM.

yeah..same here. Then again, the female leads always picked the one they get the super hots for. Final answer .

For example, the well-rounded musical Ryan : no chemistry there. John G the ivy league rare guy: ditto. perhaps? . I had high hopes for Blake yet with G the chemistry is hotter..so...

i am officially joining the snark train this season

Count me in this. I don’t hate G. I was skeptical with his posting picture of guns with 2nd amendment. The hunting posts were a little more about the kill then sport if that makes sense? The likes and follows just pushed him over to a big no thanks.

Unfortunately, I over identify with Becca so watching her fall for a man like G will not be joyful to me. I will enjoy getting to know the other men. And snarking. JMO.

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I hate to sound insensitive but Becca will just have to get used to some of her supporters being disappointed with her choice. With her being such a feminist and liberal some of them may even feel a bit betrayed right now, especially if she sticks with him. Hopefully soon they will recognize it is her life and not theirs. Never a good idea to project your wants onto someone else.

For her sake I hope any one disappointed will just skip out on watching the season instead of bashing her on instagram.  

That is not being insensitive, that is the truth IMHO. It doesn't apply just to Becca. Every single lead has had disappointed viewers where they didn't choose the one they wanted. The last three ette's went through a lot of bashing for various reasons but they got through it and are still together regardless of what they had to endure via SM and tabloids.

They would pit the F1/F2 against each other in order to create drama regardless IMHO so I wouldn't say it's any different for Becca. Hopefully she takes some pointers from some past leads, who ignore the unnecessary negativity which doesn't mean anything coming from people they don't know or care about. JMO

Heck I thought Robby was the better choice. Wrong! Now I love J cubed.

Becca will survive and she and Garrett may even survive. It will probably change my feelings for her, but at the end of the day, Becca needs to follow her happiness. Whatever that is.

All JMO.

For me since I was just diagnosed with cancer last February and had surgery last April and might have chemotherapy , I'm just looking at all the positivity that I could get. I might be in my own bubble world of HEA but that's my wish for Becca .JMO

I think part of being a feminist is embracing other women being able to express their views whether agreed w or not. IMO it’s not so much right or wrong, but simply being able to say this is what I think. Jmo

@maryl oh hugs and best wishes for you! Pray a full recovery

I also want to see a love story and hope Becca got what she’s wishing for. I am always being optimistic for the couple.

Thank you sdmom. I appreciate the hug and prayer.
Wishing for the best .

pavalygurl wrote:I feel kind of bummed out, like my team lost the Super Bowl in a close game.  It's not like I lurve every F1, more like about a handful of them.  But this season is different.  I like Becca probably about the most of any lead so far.  I have let MY hopes for her go wild.  But, it's not like when the lead didn't pick my favorite like in seasons past.  It's like the lead picks someone I kind of have l lost respect for and little interest in even watching.
And I see guys she sent home and I want to say, what about him, how about him, oh do you really want HIM?  And I kind of wonder what Uncle Gary might have to say about his SM.

I’m usually so excited about the start to the season even if the spoiled F1 was not my pick. Now I feel like I’ll look forward to things that don’t have much to do with Becca....getting to know the guys, watching the bromances develop and the beautiful places they visit. There’s also a dread that this will be swept under the rug and in the end she will stick with this guy and continue a pattern of being with guys she needs to fix. He’ll say all the right things but at his core he really believes the things he liked in those posts. And as much as I hate to admit it, I will be disappointed in Becca if she decides stay with him. There are sooooo many great guys out there I want her to find someone deserving of her. Garrett isn’t it IMO.

There's also the NBA West semi-final game 7 with the Warriors and Rockets. They really couldn’t have picked a worse premier day but guess it’s all about the schedule and when it needs to end.

I’m still looking forward to seeing the season and getting to know the guys better. They seem like a great group of guys to me.

There's also Stanley Cup finals Game 1. I wonder which one @GuardianAngel is going to watch.

Despite everything w/ Garrett I'm still looking forward to this season like @albean99 said.