Bachelorette 19 - Gabby Windey - Rachel Recchia - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Well, well, well. Let me get this straight...So Rachel blindsided Zach and Avan, all the while making them feel like sh*t because they actually wanted a hot minute to think about wanting to get engaged, then gets engaged to Tino and promptly blindsides him by returning the ring and tells him she wants to date? He than kissed someone and of course, she then breaks up with him? So she basically set him up to do anything stupid so she would then have an excuse to break up with him too. Well, I know who I think is an a**hole and it's not him.

She needs to apologize to all the guys this season since she cried herself a river, cancelled cocktail parties right and left, made most of them feel like cr*p, made them apologize repeatedly for making princess feel bad, is all into one guy who she finally gets engaged to and then proceeds to do the same sh*t to him and then it is his fault?

Worst lead ever and that is saying a lot since we have had Colton, Peter, Clare and Clayton in the recent past. Ugh, what a waste of a season.

Gabby and Erich now have an us weekly article about them. I personally hope they don't sweep everything that has come out about him under the rug to just try and show a happy couple. This season has been a dumpster fire -- why not totally embrace it at this point?

I am waiting to hear Rachel's side of the story before I form any opinions on her and Tino's breakup. I know that he followed and liked a lot of bikini pics of IG models right after they got engaged. I am sure that Rachel got wind of that. I am not going to judge anyone for being unsure of someone or a relationship once outside of the "filming bubble". Honestly, if she was not convinced that Tino was her guy after the show -- I just wish that she would have totally broken it off with him rather than saying that she wanted to step back to dating. A clean break may have been better for all involved. I do wish that the pressure to become engaged at the end wasn't so strong. These people really do not know each other well. I do think Rachel really wanted an engagement -- she knows that is the main goal of the show. That can't be the only goal, though. I hope both Rachel and Gabby get some counseling after this experience. They need real support. JMO.

Sprite wrote:Well, well, well. Let me get this straight...So Rachel blindsided Zach and Avan, all the while making them feel like sh*t because they actually wanted a hot minute to think about wanting to get engaged, then gets engaged to Tino and promptly blindsides him by returning the ring and tells him she wants to date? He than kissed someone and of course, she then breaks up with him? So she basically set him up to do anything stupid so she would then have an excuse to break up with him too. Well, I know who I think is an a**hole and it's not him.

She needs to apologize to all the guys this season since she cried herself a river, cancelled cocktail parties right and left, made most of them feel like cr*p, made them apologize repeatedly for making princess feel bad, is all into one guy who she finally gets engaged to and then proceeds to do the same sh*t to him and then it is his fault?

Worst lead ever and that is saying a lot since we have had Colton, Peter, Clare and Clayton in the recent past. Ugh, what a waste of a season.

I totally agree. If Rachel hadn't operated the same way with Zach and Aven - throwing the blame on them, rather than saying her heart had led her elsewhere - I would not be so critical. I think it's fair to say that Tino's ego probably took quite a hit if she tells him she wants to step back and date. Not saying it's right for him to kiss someone - or check out models - but I can understand how this whole scenario could be quite hurtful to him - big ego -- and on top of his father being so skeptical and the whole story being aired on national tv. Maybe this explains Rachel constantly crying - did she find herself not falling for any of these guys - so "what's wrong with me ?" - and how do I manage the pressure the producers are giving me ??

If he was interested in following and liking Instagram models, why didn't he try to leave when he got to F3? He seemed to be all-in to win it, but I don't understand why if that's not even what he wanted. She's not blameless either obviously, but I just don't get his behavior.

Two live events, two can't miss nights. Don't miss @GabrielaWindey on @officialdwts Monday on Disney+, followed by #TheBachelorette Finale Tuesday on ABC! pic.twitter.com/RT2RaqMFVO

— The Bachelorette (@BacheloretteABC) September 17, 2022

I feel we need a break from all the messiness, so here it something sweet: Rachel was the one who suggested Gabby for DWTS.
https://www.etonline.com/why-gabby-windey-was-chosen-for-dancing-with-the-stars-over-rachel-recchia-191008

That was kind of Rachel to plant the seed.

For future sleuthing, I wonder why she wasn't on Millsey's radar for DWTS.

(SPOILER): Who are two of the women set to be on Zach’s Bachelor season? Find out that and when filming begins right here: https://t.co/svYRIfAMRY.

— RealitySteve (@RealitySteve) September 20, 2022

Gabby Windey Addresses Erich's Blackface Photo, Leaked Texts: 'We're Seeing How We Can Become Better' https://t.co/mu1EXFdgR2

— People (@people) September 21, 2022

Rachel Recchia Wants to 'Move on with My Life' After Tino's Infidelity: 'I Still Believe in Love' https://t.co/iDX0ntcEGF

— People (@people) September 21, 2022

BLUWAVZ thank you for posting the Gabby article .. it’s good to see that they are being mature and working thru some tough things. I really hope these two make it

I am sorry, but I don't consider him kissing another woman under these circumstances as cheating. I just don't. She is a mess and needs serious therapy and to stop dating until she gets herself together, but I get the impression that she thinks her sh*t don't stink so good luck with that.

Jeepers wrote:BLUWAVZ thank you for posting the Gabby article .. it’s good to see that they are being mature and working thru some tough things.  I really hope these two make it

I have the same opinion. I feel like some people are so mad at gabby right now but I think she’s being mature about this and trying to see if they can work through things. Doesn’t mean what he did was okay but I’m happy she’s happy and hope it works out after all this show is about finding love!