Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Britt Nilsson - Premier May 18-19 - Thread #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

[Guest]

Well, I expected Nick and Kaitlyn to have off the charts chemistry, but wouldn't have guessed this.   :shocked!:  I do feel it's utterly disrespectful to the other guys, but, I also can't wait to see Kaitlyn and Nick together.

I guess that explains why the end is so different.  There could be several bough out and the others left sure aren't going to be very happy go lucky let's meet the fam and tour my home town, I'd bet.  It'll be all drama and tears from the point she tells the guys on.

Also, I love, love Shawn so far.  Totally on board for him as Bachelor.  yes, please.

[Guest]

^^That's the point. These guys had to hear about it.

I'm not shaming Kaitlyn. I'm actually quite delighted that she and Nick were clearly so into each other that they couldn't keep their hands off.

I'm just saying that if I were one of the guys I would be reading tea leaves that she's into Nick the most. And that maybe my connection with her isn't as strong because not only is he getting special treatment and has a previous relationship with her, but she keeps telling me about it. Chances are I wouldn't think I was going to be the last one standing and I'm only sticking it out due to incentives or hopes of being the next lead.

I totally get what you're saying, but I think it depends on how Kaitlyn describes it. If she says that Nick came to HER, it can just be that he made a move and she "succumbed", like Ben and (allegedly) Juan Pablo. It doesn't mean that she was seeking him out for sex. Also, JP (again, allegedly) did get physical with Clare in the ocean and still didn't pick her. So, I guess the guys could think "oh, she just had sex with him because she's known him the longer and HE made a move". I agree that it's really uncomfortable to hear about, but I get why they wouldn't leave. Especially if she sounds super apologetic about it.

I hope for all womankind that K does not frame this like she was an unwilling or hesitant (succumbed) partner in a tryst with Nick (or whoever).  I mean, that would be pretty gross IMO.  

If I was one of the guys, K being super apologetic about it, would not make me feel better.  Either K can control her desires or she can't.  If she's in control, she has to be ready to take responsibility for sleeping with Nick (or whoever).  If she's not in control, then why would I ever trust her as a possible wife?

Well, succumbed/giving into temptation =/= unwilling. One is r*pe, the other is very normal sexual behavior.

I don't think Kaitlyn regrets the sex. Like I said, I think that she had probably already seen Nick naked (and, vice versa) if they had been FT-ing since January. I think that it just happened sooner than she was planning on it because of producer influence/manipulation, and THAT's what she feels bad about.

[SueSt]

I believe Kaitlyn is upset that she may have hurt the other guys and that is what she regrets. JMO

That would be a fair reason for regret, MiniDiva.

[Kashathediva]

I believe Kaitlyn is upset that she may have hurt the other guys and that is what she regrets. JMO

I agree. 
She has been through this process and realizes how invested the other cast are at this point. She has been there. So to make lightly of anyone else's feelings would be harsh. So she may regret her action only because it hurts others and not so much because she didn't want to do what she did in the moment. 
 I think many us of have been in a situation where we regretted doing something not so much because of what we did, but because of the result of hurt it caused another.

[emusha]

woahhh what?? N&K sex before FS? Dr. C mesnicking (my poor baby...) 
What did i miss have been out since last night and didn't watch the episode is all this speculation or spoiler or screenshots?
help!! 

It's all in tonight's preview emusha.  Get busy!!!  Get watching!!  

  omg omg omg I can't handle this new info 

cray cray indeed!!! 
it is all starting to make sense all of K's sexy jokes and revealing her sexploits on live radio etc... she was prepping everyone for this eh?? 
yall remember the exchange between clint + tanner and the other guys??
"he threw a wrench into the whole thing. literally"
"he broke the vneck rule" "he breaks many/all the rules" "and he broke hearts" 

We got that plot line right there yall...the only thing to ask now is if nick ended up hurting K by being "hesitant and not fighting for her" per her liking carly's IG post a little while back and she decided to let things end at FRC.
Very interesting how things progressed with Shawn given this info and boyyy he's gonna make for a mighty tastey tb candidate for tptb!! 

MF said it's much/even better last season....well trust him to say that 
this is not dramatic -- it's absolute COMEDY!
I just hope nobody's feelings got seriously hurt (poor Dr. C i'm sure he's allll good by now) -- seems everyone's fine and no harm no foul

the fun vs. serious edit def makes sense with this info oh boyyyy ohh boyyy

[Guest]

Emusha what was the posting on carly's IG?

[rosesrREd]

I believe Kaitlyn is upset that she may have hurt the other guys and that is what she regrets. JMO

I am with you on this. She said something like "I let the relationship move too fast, and I know I am a good person." It sounds like she doesn't regret the tryst per say, but rather hurting the other guys.

[Guest]

Didn't RS said Nick is upset that Kaitlyn wont change her mind?

[emusha]

Emusha what was the posting on carly's IG?

https://instagram.com/p/2jpNiMPAy8/

ETA: Also makes sense of the "slow and steady" comment from her -- moved too fast -- i'm looking forward to see if they built a relationship foundation or got hot and heavy as two passionate ppl which they def are
.....wow ...so many things clicking into place!

[Kashathediva]

Wow--guys, I feel like we are getting caught having sex here. There are 1600 viewers on our forum right now--1300 of whom are "guests". 

[soccermom333]

Whatever was building between Kaitlin and Nick was definitely not strengthened by what happened. Ruined for them and the viewers.

At least Kaitlin seems okay now. Totally understand why she picked no one. Shawn and Chris will be fun to watch. IMO ;)

[sbolduc]

Didn't RS said Nick is upset that Kaitlyn wont change her mind?

Yes I believe RS said Nick is not at all happy with the ending. He thinks he will try and contact Kaitlyn at some point as well.

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