The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #7 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

Alanna wrote:This poor thing. Can someone put a romcom on for her and just let her be for the next 2 hours?


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Just remember, when you judge me, you do not define me, you define yourself. think about that before sending out negativity to any1 tonight

I wished she stopped spending so much of her tweets about the negative and the nasties!

jcrbil wrote:The Lead gets an early copy to blog.  But Shawn isn't the lead.  I don't recall someone not the lead getting a copy (or at least saying so).  Most f1s would rather not watch.

There have been others, in the past,  that have gotten to view episodes early other than the lead. I think it was during Emily's season, but am no longer positive, Beth Stern(Howard Stern's wife) got to watch the episodes early.

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:This poor thing. Can someone put a romcom on for her and just let her be for the next 2 hours?


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Just remember, when you judge me, you do not define me, you define yourself. think about that before sending out negativity to any1 tonight

I wished she stopped spending so much of her tweets about the negative and the nasties!

Thank you, Sophie! I so totally agree. 
This happens regardless of anyone's behavior and she has to let the whole thing go. It's not about anyone else, it's about her behavior toward it.

Amy Schumer throwing her support behind K on twitter:

Oh no someone slept with a guy they're dating and considering marrying! Showing love for @kaitlynbristowe

The sex is not the point!! The point is that she cannot deal with the consequences of the sex! If she did nothing wrong, why is she already crying about it and regretting it? Just lack of thought and judgement all around. She's 30 but I would bet she's 15 with how she's acting.

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:This poor thing. Can someone put a romcom on for her and just let her be for the next 2 hours?

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Just remember, when you judge me, you do not define me, you define yourself. think about that before sending out negativity to any1 tonight

I wished she stopped spending so much of her tweets about the negative and the nasties!

Poor girl, I get the feeling that she is hugely self conscious and is actually very worried about public opinion because she knows she made a mistake, where as Nick couldn't be more happy right about now. So why not send out a few attention-whore-y tweets making sure no one forgets for a second that "we had sex on national TV."  Barf.

Stop talking Nick, and send her message wishing her well or check in on her, that would be supportive.

http://www.people.com/article/bachelorette-recap-kaitlyn-nick-sex-ian-leaves-season-11-episode-7?xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

bleuberry wrote:

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:This poor thing. Can someone put a romcom on for her and just let her be for the next 2 hours?

1 minute ago
Just remember, when you judge me, you do not define me, you define yourself. think about that before sending out negativity to any1 tonight

I wished she stopped spending so much of her tweets about the negative and the nasties!

Poor girl, I get the feeling that she is hugely self conscious and is actually very worried about public opinion because she knows she made a mistake, where as Nick couldn't be more happy right about now. So why not send out a few attention-whore-y tweets making sure no one forgets for a second that "we had sex on national TV."  Barf. Stop talking Nick,and send her message wishing her well or check in on her, that would be supportive.

Exactly. He wants to remind the world of it. Really pathetic. Run, Chicago girls!!!! 

I hope Shawn is really, really there for her and they're focused on each other, but seeing him last night, I just don't know how they can survive this. Shawn basically cannot handle it already at that point in the filming and he doesn't even know about the sex yet.

Alanna wrote:The sex is not the point!! The point is that she cannot deal with the consequences of the sex! If she did nothing wrong, why is she already crying about it and regretting it? Just lack of thought and judgement all around. She's 30 but I would bet she's 15 with how she's acting.

Maybe because she has feelings for two guys? And now one of them is all of a sudden talking about leaving..

The whole concept of this show is so inappropriate on so many levels, and so it's really vague and blurred as to where the line needs to be drawn. Personally, I find it more disrespectful and immature for leads to sleep with multiple people days before being engaged in the FS, and so many leads do that! and we haven't seen many of them showing regret about that...

I see someone being really human and raw on our tv screens, and personally that is actually what I'm finding refreshing ..

EDIT: one more thing to add: the above is the reason that I actually think from what we have seen so far (may change in the next couple of weeks...), kaitlyn has been the best bachelorette

Kaitlyn on GMA: said that she doesn't see the problem with what she has done and that the guys, (they mentioned Shawn especially) as well as viewers are forgetting what show this is.

Funnily enough, right after Kaitlyn's segment, they posted a photo of the cover of GQ I believe and it had Ryan Gosling on it!!

You cannot make this stuff up

Alanna wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

sophienette wrote:

I wished she stopped spending so much of her tweets about the negative and the nasties!

Poor girl, I get the feeling that she is hugely self conscious and is actually very worried about public opinion because she knows she made a mistake, where as Nick couldn't be more happy right about now. So why not send out a few attention-whore-y tweets making sure no one forgets for a second that "we had sex on national TV."  Barf. Stop talking Nick,and send her message wishing her well or check in on her, that would be supportive.

Exactly. He wants to remind the world of it. Really pathetic. Run, Chicago girls!!!! 

I hope Shawn is really, really there for her and they're focused on each other, but seeing him last night, I just don't know how they can survive this. Shawn basically cannot handle it already at that point in the filming and he doesn't even know about the sex yet.

Yeah next week should be interesting. I think TPTb really poured salt on the wound by focusing so much attention on their date and subsequent aftermath. The whole thing was so uncomfortable to watch and listen to.  Neither Shawn or K were painted in the best light which confirms again TPTB could care less about these people and just want a good show.  Sad.

happydays wrote:

Alanna wrote:The sex is not the point!! The point is that she cannot deal with the consequences of the sex! If she did nothing wrong, why is she already crying about it and regretting it? Just lack of thought and judgement all around. She's 30 but I would bet she's 15 with how she's acting.

Maybe because she has feelings for two guys? And now one of them is all of a sudden talking about leaving..

The whole concept of this show is so inappropriate on so many levels, and so it's really vague and blurred as to where the line needs to be drawn. Personally, I find it more disrespectful and immature for leads to sleep with multiple people days before being engaged in the FS, and so many leads do that! and we haven't seen many of them showing regret about that...

I see someone being really human and raw on our tv screens, and personally that is actually what I'm finding refreshing ..

EDIT: one more thing to add: the above is the reason that I actually think from what we have seen so far (may change in the next couple of weeks...), kaitlyn has been the best bachelorette

I know and that's kind of the age old debate with the this show. You are dating multiple people, but the rules of the real world technically don't apply. You are supposed to have as real a relationship as you can with each person and forget that you are dating multiple people, right? So you are criticized for treating it like they are all individual relationships, but then if you are careful and think of feeling of others, then that is wrong too.

So I can see both sides I guess.

So, if you are gonna have sex, then either own it and say yes I did it and it is what it is, or think of the fall out BEFORE you do anything?