Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

nannymargie wrote:

Loveinterest wrote:Looks like the book is down from 2.5 stars to 2.0 stars.  Maybe she is deleting all negative comments on her SM because the reviews are terrible.

Maybe she is but Josh also deletes negative comments.

Yeah. I was looking at both of their instagram comments yesterday. Andi did get many favorable comments (more the 15 comments that the amazon review is based on). Josh deleted every comment where someone said anything remotely nice or favorable about Andi and the book on his instagram. She might be deleting negative reviews from her social media, but there are positive reviews that Josh deletes from his social media. He is also trying to give the book the image he wants it to have. I was reading the comments on Josh's instagram and any nice comment was deleted within minutes. He must have wasted his day deleting comments about Andi.

One person who gave the book one star said she wanted more behind the scenes information and that she wanted to know more about Josh's family. She said that Courtney's book was great for that. Had she given details about Josh's family dynamic, his fans would have been more upset.

Welp. I'm listening on audible. I'll report back soon.

I bet she did have more info on the First Delusional Family of UGA but deleted it in case she got whacked, Soprano style.

Josh was deleting any mention of Andi long before the book came out and who can blame him. He's trying to move on and people keep wanting to message him that they should get back together.

It's like poor Reggie bush it's been like 10 years since he split from Kim K and he will post a picture of his kids playing in a sandbox and 30 people will somehow find a way to mention Kim, it must be super annoying

Alanna wrote:I bet she did have more info on the First Delusional Family of UGA but deleted it in case she got whacked, Soprano style.

I bet she could write a book on the family alone.

Joshswife wrote:Josh was deleting any mention of Andi long before the book came out and who can blame him. He's trying to move on and people keep wanting to message him that they should get back together.

It's like poor Reggie bush it's been like 10 years since he split from Kim K and he will post a picture of his kids playing in a sandbox and 30 people will somehow find a way to mention Kim, it must be super annoying

None of the comments he deleted yesterday had anything to do with them getting back together. In fact, he left the negative comments about Andi and her book on his instagram and deleted the positive comments. That doesn't seem to have anything to do with moving on. If it did, he'd delete all the comments that mention Andi, not just the positive ones. He wants people to think he's taking the high road... but selectively deleting comments is his way of indirectly making her look bad. I have no problem if he wants to make her look bad, but come out and say it, don't do it indirectly.

Being they seemed to spend so little time with him family and so much with hers.  I would think most of her knowledge of them is second hand through stories he told her or overhearing their interactions.  Not that she might not know about skeletons in the closet, but I'm sure the same could be said on his part.  He could probably write a book on her family and the pedestal they seem to think she should sit on.  

Lets hope that they all learn from this disastrous relationship and move on to happier, more successful relationships in the future.  The quicker and quieter the better... preferably away from the spotlight and don't feel the need to share anything about it on SM or more journals/books or tv shows.

JMOAA.

Alanna wrote:I bet she did have more info on the First Delusional Family of UGA but deleted it in case she got whacked, Soprano style.

First Delusional Family of UGA
She definitely had more info. Even though they didn't spend much time with his family in terms of being in the same house, Josh and his family's relationship seems to be so enmeshed that I'm sure he talked to his family way too much and Andi had much more information about them.

I can't help thinking that if she wanted to write a book why not focus on the positive? 
So many of us here, alone, would have loved to hear about some of the real day to day stuff: The excruciating travel. The clothes. The makeup and hair.  The dates. Chris Manson. Funny things that we all enjoy so much with the bloopers and outtakes. Those are the things we can't get enough of. Relationships with the cast and crew and funny stories.
If you have to address the break-up even that could have had a positive twist. Focus could have been on growth and learning to move forward. 
This was a chance to put a positive spin on her and she turned it into a train wreck.

The only purpose of this book is a way of Andi's revenge . She can just easily take the high road and be quiet but chose to do the other way. Doesn't matter on the comments they are deleting on their respective ig's. People can say anything they want . It's hard to control social media. If andi did not turn her personal diary to a book . People won't going to talk about her and #26 rel. at all . I don't know what is andi really thinking like  upon writing this book. Unless her one on one interview with CH  wasn't enough

Alanna wrote:I bet she did have more info on the First Delusional Family of UGA but deleted it in case she got whacked, Soprano style.

AnandaMarie wrote:

Alanna wrote:I bet she did have more info on the First Delusional Family of UGA but deleted it in case she got whacked, Soprano style.

First Delusional Family of UGA  
She definitely had more info. Even though they didn't spend much time with his family in terms of being in the same house, Josh and his family's relationship seems to be so enmeshed that I'm sure he talked to his family way too much and Andi had much more information about them.

I have a feeling that he had to call his mom every day and even had to face time with her. I bet every time that Andi and Josh had a argument he called his mom and told her all about it. IMO of course.