Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

Yeah I guess... I still remember events that you all were mentioning that you sleuthed on back then that I of course didn't think anything was wrong! Should have listened

stuckinsc wrote:@Linds911 if you think of it as a fiction novel it is probably easier to not be quite as disappointed in her.

But she is not touting it as a fiction novel. She is telling all and sundry and spouting it as the gospel truth even though she doesn't hold herself responsible for anything that happened. People who don't know the circumstances, may sadly believe her. Eeez not okay. Hard for her fans...or now, some former fans.

Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months. It's embarassing.

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

Agreed. It's not fiction imo but the whole thing is a freak show.

To make money and stay in the spotlight. There is always 2 sides to a story and right now I am not believing that delusional one. He wanted out of the relationship she was the one hanging on, until he pack her things for her to go.

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

I don't think she "made" things up. I think she is referencing things from her POV as we all do. Now her POV could be reliable and then it could be drastically skewed.

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

Agreed, and today in that interview (I think AOL) when asked if she regretted anything about being on the show, her response was some of the clothes she wore and using curse words. She didn't say she regretted anything about being in a relationship with any of the guys she reamed in her book.

Mustang19 wrote:

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

Agreed, and today in that interview (I think AOL) when asked if she regretted anything about being on the show, her response was some of the clothes she wore and using curse words. She didn't say she regretted anything about being in a relationship with any of the guys she reamed in her book.

She can't regret the relationships because they all gave her the media and attention she desperately craves.

In the book, she was the most upset about finally returning to his apartment to get her things with her mom. Only to discover he had piled high all of her stuff in one corner of the room like it was trash! She was horrified. Mom cried.  I died. Can you just picture the look on her face?! Priceless. Her pradas piled high. She's lucky he didn't take that crap to goodwill. And then she went upstairs and in the middle of the stairwell he piled more of her crap up! Slay me!

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

Because she wants to make it everyone else's fault. If she said truthfully that she and Josh were both horrible and mean to each other. That she instigated as much as he did and gave as good as she got, then she can't play victim. We have figured out many lies from the book and places where she contradicts herself have been brought up. This book is her yay me, feel sorry for me, I am an empowered woman sob story. Her whole being a feminist by humiliating men shows just how ignorant and self absorbed she is. Real feminist seek equality not shaming or using of men. Andi is a hateful abuser, just as guilty of all the sins she attributes to others. Anyone who takes no blame ever for anything is a huge red flag. In relationships, no one person is ever completely innocent and the other to blame. Her lack of prospective for that alone makes everything she says highly questionable. JMO.

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

I just refuse to believe she was some innocent victim who just took it and wasn't equally nasty back. We saw on the show what an awful person she can be to men. It's hard for me to feel sorry for her and I'm saying this as someone who was in an emotionally abusive relationship as well (and I wasn't an innocent victim either). She didn't have to put this all out in the open if it's so embarrassing and not fun.

All JMO.

stuckinsc wrote:

Cecilia wrote:Why would she make up that stuff in her book? It's not fun to describe emotional abuse and how you put up with it for months.  It's embarassing.

Because she wants to make it everyone else's fault. If she said truthfully that she and Josh were both horrible and mean to each other. That she instigated as much as he did and gave as good as she got, then she can't play victim. We have figured out many lies from the book and places where she contradicts herself have been brought up. This book is her yay me, feel sorry for me, I am an empowered woman sob story. Her whole being a feminist by humiliating men shows just how ignorant and self absorbed she is. Real feminist seek equality not shaming or using of men. Andi is a hateful abuser, just as guilty of all the sins she attributes to others. Anyone who takes no blame ever for anything is a huge red flag. In relationships, no one person is ever completely innocent and the other to blame. Her lack of prospective for that alone makes everything she says highly questionable. JMO.

This^^^^^