Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

I hope Caila stops tweeting at her castmates. She is totally being ignored. I can't wait for BIP to end so Caila can go back to living normally and away from these toxic people.

Kristen Baldwin ‏@KristenGBaldwin
Reaction shot of the night. #BachelorInParadise

Kristen Baldwin ‏@KristenGBaldwin
Hey Brett, Caila not wanting your junk in her face is not "standoffish." It's "normal." #BachelorInParadise

Thanks @dee for that hair vids from instagram of her's! She should do a show w travel channel and be endorsed by hair company!
@bluwavz thanks for the link to her blog. Glad I read that before watching the show tonight! Like Nick said tonight about Caila she is to polite. I wish she wasn't so nice to everyone who uses her as a doormat.
tbh I'm glad Caila leaves soon. Whatever happens with her and Jared will be interesting after the show esp with his friend always so close to him. Also, no couple should be getting engaged on this show this season.

@EliseAlways Me too. The twins did retweet her tweet to them though so that was nice to see.

@SunnyRachel Yeah she's kind of a female Jared. I'll be relieved for her when she leaves. I really think this show is the wrong fit for her.

Yeah this show is really not made for someone like Caila. Glad that we have the next episode and maybe one more before she decides to leave.

IMO the way she's dealt with this is her trying to not have things end on such a weird note. That's what I was saying too about her break-up with Ben. She didn't want to leave things badly so she tried to get some resolution IMO.

I think the people who found her annoying from Ben's season will never like her, and that's fine. I just hope that people also realize she doesn't deserve actual hate thrown at her because she's perceived as "annoying" or "fake". It's just unnecessary, and because she's actually a nice person she doesn't retaliate. Her best revenge IMO will be her rising above it all and being happy regardless of what they say.

@bluwavz Yes this show is not for Caila!So true she is like Jared.That's why they clicked! They both need to stop being so nice. They need to think what they want. They both seem like great people but need to stand up more for themselves! Llike this quote “Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants. Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do you want?”-Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
@siena True, people tonight that watched some will still think the worst of her and some might actually think she was more real than ever. Agree, I'm ready to see her leave this show and this franchise! She can do way better with her life outside the franchise! People forgive a crazy more than a person who is confused that shows some r so twisted with how they think!

Yeah it's so insane to me @SunnyRachel that people could be more unforgiving of someone being indecisive, than someone being really mean and cruel. IMO that's so twisted.

At least Caila owns up to being confusing, whereas so many others are just out to paint themselves as a victim.

I thought this summed up Caila's indecision pretty well.



Being a people pleaser and trying to make everyone happy often means you end up making the wrong choice for yourself. Hopefully Caila's learning. IMO the fact that she's acknowledged that flaw is a lot further along than most of the people in this franchise. When she does decide that she's leaving Paradise I will be interested if the same people are going to call her wishy-washy.

They both pretty much need this advice:



If it were me, I would say bye felicia to almost everyone in this franchise.

I think Claire is spot-on. Caila's problem isn't that she's an indecisive person, it's that she's too afraid of hurting anyone's feelings and it's perceived as her being wishy-washy.

I think I relate to her more than I initially thought. I would've been soooooo uncomfortable on that double date too.

I agree that this show is not for Caila. Is tomorrow her last episode? I love Caila and I relate to her so much because I see myself in her (except I don't have her good looks and majestic hair). And this is why I said earlier that I did not want her to be the bachelorette. Some or a lot of people won't understand her personality and she will get hated on. Because let's admit, these shows aren't REALLY about finding love. They're about creating drama. I can't stress enough how eager I am for all this to be over. Hopefully, Caila finds her happiness in the end, be it with Jared or not.

Yeah I think Caila was trying to figure out what to say and do in order to not hurt anyone's feelings, and got confused in the process. To me that's thoughtful and caring (albeit confusing). To other people, it's apparently fake and annoying to think about other people's feelings whilst making a choice.

That double date would've been so uncomfortable to me too. Glad Caila and Jared are going to get that Janner date to make up for it! It appears Jade and Tanner saw the most potential in them.