Josh Murray - Amanda Stanton - BIP 3 - Discussion

@ leaving the kids with Sabel. Bless her.

I have to disagree, what you call emotional abuse by Josh questioning women who wear makeup to the gym (Amanda), I find funny and relatable because my husband and I have discussed it before. That's JMO.

Loveinterest wrote:I have to disagree, what you call emotional abuse by Josh questioning women who wear makeup to the gym (Amanda), I find funny and relatable because my husband and I have discussed it before.  That's JMO.  

IMO there's a big difference in talking about these matters in private compared to putting it on SM so everybody knows he's not cool with it.

It's called public shaming or humiliation, with that little hint of out-of-the-corner of mouth smirk that let's a passive-aggressive person use humor as an excuse. "I'm just teasing you, can't you take a joke. Where's your sense of humor."
It attempts to put the onus right back on the one being shamed when, IMO, the reality is the joke or irritation could have been handled privately and the onus should be with the person who can not communicate directly.
Look--most of us have pet peeves with those close to us. It's just not cool to play them out publicly when the one we love will be subjected to embarrassment. It doesn't matter if the person being shamed is cool with it or not. It's not cool. IMO.

Andi words are reeking over this guy. Damn I thought he would change. He is emotionally abusive IMHO.

A woman should be able to wear makeup or not wear makeup without a "man" questioning her.
That Josh even does that is not funny at all to me, it's classic sexist behavior, imo.

All I can say is thank goodness I am not married to someone like Josh.
Then again, I would never date someone like him in the first place.

Do they pay Sabel in treats and dog food?  Seems they'd get off cheap compared to whatever they have to pay evil Nick to spend time with the girls.   I think they should start feeding Sabel steak to pay her for all her hard work!    

JMOAA

He 'joked' on snapchat tonight and called Amanda a pig for having a plate of dessert. So funny, right? Ugh.

In all seriousness though, when will they finally end this thing? A month? Next week? I mean it is entertaining but I am starting to feel dirty.

Ughh, he seriously needs to learn to keep his mouth shut.  If he's already this passive agressive while "joking" about things about her or that that she does that bug him this early, I don't want to see what he does long term down the road.  Not that I believe it'll last that long but still... .

We'd have a long talk and if he didn't quit posting about it on SM and come to me with the issues, I'd send him packing.  There is absolutely nothing cute or funny or loving about his actions, IMO. JMOAA

Can you imagine his reaction if she took to sm with junk about him like that? There'd be h*ll to pay.

^^^ He'd have a chit fit... A major temper tantrum, melt down worse than my 3 year old niece.    I'm not a Duhhh fan but if she would stand up to him, put him in his place and/or maybe return the favor, I might gain a teeny tiny bit of respect for her. JMO