Re: Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Episode 4 - June 18th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

by Tiggerlgh Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:11 pm

mizzoufan wrote:Colton is getting into the drama

He is perfect for Tia then. IMO.

by Maddy Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:12 pm

by ilgirl Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:12 pm

I wish I'd screen-capped Blake's expression when Jordan walked in and sat on the couch with the gold underwear. Hilarious!

by **Sprite** Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:13 pm

mizzoufan wrote:Colton is getting into the drama

He's just warming up and practising for BIP.

by Maddy Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:13 pm

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by ReneeM Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:14 pm

Diana wrote:
nananana wrote:What Garrett said about this ex was no different than all other past ex convos from this show. It was brief and vague IMO.
TBH I agree. I didn't feel like he was bashing her.

Garrett said his ex emotionally abused him, would build him up and tear him down, constant roller coaster, and caused a rift between him and his family and friends. That's probably the most specific breakup explanation on this show. I remember Jordan Rodgers talking about his ex and said he was too focused on football and making it in the nfl and also flirting with girls when he shouldn't have. I'm sure his ex wasn't a saint but he chose to focus on his part in the breakdown. You don't need to air out your ex's flaws on tv when they didn't sign up for it. He could've said they weren't right for each other, they didn't bring out the best in each other etc. But instead he placed ALL the blame squarely at her feet. That's a red flag imo. Maybe not for his relationship with Becca, but indicative of the type of person he is.

by Kolormiblnd Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:15 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:
Tiggerlgh wrote:
Kolormiblnd wrote:Does his story mirror Becca's with Coach Ross? "Wanting the relationship to work..."
Kind of but not nearly as long a time.

I want to know what happened for them to file for divorce after two months.

He said she emotionally abused him. He fell in love with the wrong person. Becca asked if he didn't realize this before, he said he saw red flags but he wanted it to work. This made Becca feel so sorry for him.

I would have more respect if he didn't bash someone on national tv who wasn't there to defend herself.

ReneeM wrote:Becca during that convo with Garrett was extremely cringeworthy. After he told her about his divorce her first response was "what did she do?" automatically absolving Garrett of any responsibility for the breakdown of that relationship. & Garrett took no responsibility for anything. Like am I supposed to believe that every single thing that went wrong in that relationship was his ex's fault? So ugly.

In the telling of his story, I felt as if he was trying to to find a point of similarity between his past marriage and Becca's relationship. "I married the wrong person but I was trying to make it work, guaranteed to garner sympathy. Becca swallowed the bait with that really cringe worthy "what did she do?..." He seems to know how to do this well, there is a name for it starts with "M" cos he is doing it almost effortlessly. I hope I am wrong though.

by **Sprite** Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:16 pm

Jean is so smooth. She is really not into him.

by **GuardianAngel** Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:16 pm

@ReneeM totally agree. If I was the ex, I'd be talking right now.

I don't understand how he could be heartbroken with someone who mentally abused him. They were together for a year and a half before getting engaged, then a year engaged, before getting married. That's a long time to not do anything if it's all her fault. I'm wondering who emotionally abused who.

by Kashathediva Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:17 pm

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She best hold on to that ax. She may end up needing it. Her life may depend on it. cantstopl

by Maddy Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:18 pm

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by northernviewer Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:19 pm

@ReneeM agreed ..... he was telling her he was a victim ... and just like that ... she bought what he was selling in a heartbeat ...

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