Kaitlyn Bristowe - Bachelorette 11 - #5 - Discussion

I hate myself but I listened. I don’t understand why Kaitlyn cannot say what she wants. Is she afraid he’ll leave her?? That’s okay if he does, he can take a nice long walk off a nice short bridge, and she can find someone who actually wants to get married. How many years will the busy busy busyness continue before it’s enough?

Multiple Bs. Hahaha. The rumors started because of Kaitlyn's words and actions. It wasn't out of thin air. She keeps saying Shawn is busy with his business but he has a business partner. Also Shawn can take out a couple of days to go on a sponsored trips but can't take a couple of days off for his fiancee. I used to defend Shawn but it is clear he only makes time for things that are important to him. Wise up Kaitlyn and don't waste your good years on a man that doesn't put you first. I really think it will be hard to pull away because their bought a house together and decorated it. Also because of the dog. But someone needs to knock some senses into her. It is so obvious she is not happy. She has lost the spark she had on the show. Maybe it is the social media drama or Shawn or both but things are clearly not going well personally.

You are both always away, you’re exhausted at the end of the day, sometimes the relationship isn’t being put first, but does that mean you call it quits? No. You love the sh-t out of each other and you work through it — and yourselves to be better

But...is Shawn doing that? I actually believe that Kaitlyn is 110% committed to him and would never let a couple of tough months end them, but it doesn't really seem like Shawn even gives an f. Maybe I'm wrong though. 

IMO.

Aria wrote:

You are both always away, you’re exhausted at the end of the day, sometimes the relationship isn’t being put first, but does that mean you call it quits? No. You love the sh-t out of each other and you work through it — and yourselves to be better

But...is Shawn doing that? I actually believe that Kaitlyn is 110% committed to him and would never let a couple of tough months end them, but it doesn't really seem like Shawn even gives an f. Maybe I'm wrong though. 

IMO.

Does Kaitlyn typically use you instead of talking in the first person?

I hate when people use the term 110%. All anyone can give is 100%. No one has 110% in them to give. So all they have is 100%

Now is Shawn giving 100%? It don't seem like he is. When I think back to all she put him through during their season I wonder if he still isn't holding on to some of those ill thoughts?

Whatever is the best for them I hope they get, be it they stay together or part ways. I wouldn't be surprised at all for them to call it quits as soon as the new wears off Becca's season. Where there's smoke there will be fire sooner or later.
( my S key is messing up so if my words look stranger than normal, that is why. lolol )

Aria wrote:

You are both always away, you’re exhausted at the end of the day, sometimes the relationship isn’t being put first, but does that mean you call it quits? No. You love the sh-t out of each other and you work through it — and yourselves to be better

But...is Shawn doing that? I actually believe that Kaitlyn is 110% committed to him and would never let a couple of tough months end them, but it doesn't really seem like Shawn even gives an f. Maybe I'm wrong though. 

IMO.

I agree. And this would've been a great time to have Shawn join her on the podcast and hear what he thinks of all the speculation and this 'tough' time in their relationship but noooo. This all seems very one sided.

What a freaking great point! Why couldn’t Shawn join this podcast? Oh I know! Was he busy teaching at the gym??

Yep knew that's what she would say. *sigh* guess we have to wait until she gets back to Nashville to see what happens.

Shawn had a event in Dallas yesterday, Raven and Adam were there and Adam posted a photo with Shawn and captioned double date soon. So guess Shawn thinks everything is ok idk. Also the last podcast Shawn was on he talked about the rumors and said the same thing that they are fine basically everything Kait said in today's podcast.

Adam also captioned it something about real husbands of BN so methinks Adam might be a bit of a daft idiot here

Alanna wrote:Adam also captioned it something about real husbands of BN so methinks Adam might be a bit of a daft idiot here

K but don't come for Adam though. I luff him

ReneeM wrote:

Alanna wrote:Adam also captioned it something about real husbands of BN so methinks Adam might be a bit of a daft idiot here

K but don't come for Adam though. I luff him

I do too  He’s so sweet and loving and raven is so lucky imo. So I’m sure he thought his hashtag was appropriate for them (him and Shawn), which it sooo wasn’t imo.

timfan wrote:I do not think it Is bs I think she is just saying he is busy right now and relationship is hard but you have to work on it whether it works in the end do not know but I believe she wants to work on it they should seek out couple's counseling jmo

Sorry, but I do think it is BS. She is the one doing idiotic posts passive aggressively hinting that he is not giving her the attention she needs. Why if nothing is wrong? Now it just seems she is trying to cover her a** after she started the questioning. I also don't see anything from Shawn. It is all just starting to smell funky IMO.