Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #3

The so called classless looser had certainly spoken the truth as we are finding out. Not a surprise, Nick always speaks the truth, no fakeness there.

Josh IMO was in love, he loved the whole idea and probably meant at the time he would do anything for her. He was infatuated and babbled on and on about what a great life they would have. However, as discussed many times over, we wondered how long would he put up with doing anything for her. You can only take so much for so long. It took less than 8 months.

That's a nice IG, however, it leaves too much speculation. Because I'm not a fan of hers, my first reaction is, oh brother. Poor me, feel sorry for me as I lay down and cry. Where is the strong independent woman in all this mess.

Others have other opinions and that's ok. I see that side of the story as well.

It may be a shout out to Josh that's she's hurting, but it's too late for him IMO.

Amberish wrote:

Bet2Win wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

I can't wait for your response?

Josh's and MM's jaws hitting the floor at Nick's announcement on the ATFR.  It felt like an earthquake here that night.  

Interesting, for I only remember that as punctuation to the already revelation of Nick being such classless loser. But I get it!

I have to give credit where credit is due. I'm glad I was not MM at that viewing occasion, puts a whole new definition to grace under fire. Kudos to her. Huge sink hole swallow me whole would be my thoughts.
A new relationship is hard enough, without dealing with this elephant. We can debate what happened at the ATFR to the end of days, but it's what actually happened (the gal sleeping with another guy a week before becoming engaged) that would be disturbing to me as the mom or the guy involved. IRL this situation is what it was regardless of how it was brought to light.

I do not like to call anyone "loser". However, the reality is:
6 months after ATFR, Andi has no job, no fiance, no her own place, and probably will have no ring. I also agree with some posters that she seem has no direction in life.
The "classless loser", on the other hand,  went back to his job, has nothing but praise for Josh and Andi in his post show interviews, never responds to negative SM comments, stays away from the limelight and completely moves on with his life. Yeah, I think I am a fan of this loser!

sdmom wrote:I do not like to call anyone "loser". However, the reality is:
6 months after ATFR, Andi has no job, no fiance, no her own place, and probably will have no ring. I also agree with some posters that she seem has no direction in life.
The "classless loser", on the other hand,  went back to his job, has nothing but praise for Josh and Andi in his post show interviews, never responds to negative SM comments, stays away from the limelight and completely moves on with his life. Yeah, I think I am a fan of this loser!

Well said. I became a fan of Nick because of the way he handled himself post show.

Yeah Nick even wants to be friends with Josh again he's said, I was never a fan of his but he's definetely become more appealing as time passes

Just because some think that Nick speaks the gossip, doesn't mean that everyone thinks he does....  An I will stick with my opinion of each of them in this scenario...... Like some will never like Andi, an some will never like Nick.

luvlady345 wrote:Just because some think that Nick speaks the gossip, doesn't mean that everyone thinks he does....  An I will stick with my opinion of each of them in this scenario...... Like some will never like Andi, an some will never like Nick, really what else is new about this?

There's nothing new about it. There will always be those who like a contestant and those who don't. The exchanging of opinions in a constructive respectable manner is what I enjoy. There may be opinions that I never thought of because of my own biased opinion. It doesn't mean I will not "like" a poster just because of who they are a fan of or treat them any differently.

If you liked Andi before the break up you will still like her...  It doesn't matter to me what Nick think it's not the truth to me it's only his opinion.

GuardianAngel wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:Just because some think that Nick speaks the gossip, doesn't mean that everyone thinks he does....  An I will stick with my opinion of each of them in this scenario...... Like some will never like Andi, an some will never like Nick, really what else is new about this?

There's nothing new about it. There will always be those who like a contestant and those who don't. The exchanging of opinions in a constructive respectable manner is what I enjoy. There may be opinions that I never thought of because of my own biased opinion. It doesn't mean I will not "like" a poster just because of who they are a fan of or treat them any differently.

luvlady345 wrote:If you liked Andi before the break up you will still like her...  It doesn't matter to me what Nick think it's not the truth to me it's only his opinion.

That's your opinion. We have seen the reverse the last week, that's fact. It may be the same opinion for Josh. Those who didn't like him before may like him now and vice versa. This behaviour isn't anything new either.

IMO They both have issues to deal with, this isn't any different than any one of us. We all have challenges in life we are faced with. They have been a very public couple the last 8 months, that has to make it much harder to deal with.

Which ever way they choose to deal with is their choice to make. We hope, whether we are fans or not, that they each find their path to what leads them to be happy and satisfied within.

Yes it is my opinion, that's why to declare that the truth is coming out because of Nick's opinion is still just an opinion......

Hmm. Color me confused.
Facts are facts regardless of opinions. That's the thing about facts. They are. Whereas, opinions, they are fluid. They can change, but doesn't mean one counts more or less than another.