The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - #10 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

isittrue wrote:
IMO, Nick likes to party as much as K and S.  He just does not choose to share it on SM.  Personally, I think he and K are more alike than people think based on their pre-show SM and FT plus there have been plenty of stories of Nick making out with numerous women at bars.  Is it a double standard because K is a woman and therefore supposed to be more demure or ladylike?  

Personally, I could care less how these people choose to live their lives.  I just think they are more alike than any of us can realize.  

 
Wow, I MUST reply this because the assumption is too serious and heavy.

 I'm not judging her because of her sexuality, I am disappointed because I see a different person than I thought.
And no, I still think Nick is so much different than she is, at least family wise and career wise.
And I think I didn't mention Nick is a perfect guy, did I?
I just mentioned they are not good match.

ReneeM wrote:I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.

I didn't compare them, just stated I dislike her and think she made the right choice not picking Nick.
I ser two very different person, they may have something in common, like partying, but I see them have completely different values regarding many aspects in life. But I dint think one is better thsn another, just different.

I think, some fellow posters took it mean I think Nick is a better person by saying I dislike Kait, while I just see two different person, and it frustrated me so much about this.

I don't think K is a victim of double standard at all. She's had her share of bashing on SM because of her behaviour not because she's female. We can say the same for ChrisS who post show has been a disappointment with his partying ways and most recently posted a pic of his whiskey. ChrisB who would do anything to stay in the spotlight, JakeP was the most hungry fame seeking guy IMO they all have been criticized harshly.

If K wasn't criticized for her behaviour, then IMO it would be a double standard. IMO it works both ways.

I'm glad it has worked out for her and Shawn. They are entitled to live their lives in the manner that makes them content. Being in the spotlight won't protect them from scrutiny, that just comes with the territory. That's no different for males or females.

peggy0221 wrote:Guys, what I posted hinted Nick as a saint?
I see Kait as Kait, I blame myself for have high hope about her.
This is irrelevant about Nick, and I stated that I just hate to see what I am seeing in her, I think everyone has their likes and dislikes and they are not necessarily mutually inclusive/exclusive.

Just like I hate black not because I love red.
I hope this is clear now because it frustrated me so much that people think Nick Chick hates Kait must because of Nick.

I get you POV peggy. I too get frustrated at times at the "generalization" ... even though I tend to use it myself at times when trying to make a point.
Term "Nick's fans" and "Nick Chicks" is used a lot these day to describe a one-sided view ... while it's not so simple.
We, since I would fall in the above category, have different perspectives and different interests.
Me, for starters, despite liking Kaitlyn last season, was never really "impressed" with her. I adored her for who she showed herself to be. Because it's my prerogative to like certain traits of people, especially when I don't have to live or deal with them.
And I'm not trying to brag that I've seen her true colours all along, but she hasn't really disappointed me this season, because I've never held her in high regard. And it's completely understandable, that if I would have a different picture of her before the show, and with time would come to realize she's not the person I thought she was, I would be dissatisfied too. And so I understand your feelings Peggy. It has nothing to do with Nick, he was only a figurine Kaitlyn moved as a chess play ...  a play that showed you her true colors.

ReneeM wrote:I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.

I agree with the above, Renee, but it's also true, since we base things on our values, morals, culture, past experiences, ... that some people we just get better (or we think we do) than others ... and so their actions are ... if not relatable, are at least understandable ... and if not admirable are at least acceptable ... and if not impressionable are at least interesting/amusing... and if they are not, then those are the people we wouldn't want to share our better self with ... so the scale always exists for all.

ReneeM wrote:I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.

Great post!

lexforlife wrote:

ReneeM wrote:I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.

Great post!

Yup! I'm not impressed with any of them frankly.

bleuberry wrote:

lexforlife wrote:

ReneeM wrote:I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.

Great post!

Yup! I'm not impressed with any of them frankly.

In general or those involved in this season? I think that this season was BIP-lite and Nick, Shawn, and Kaitlyn were perfect for that. I predict a lot of trainwreck-y behavior from all three in the future.

chasingpavements wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

lexforlife wrote:
Great post!

Yup! I'm not impressed with any of them frankly.

In general or those involved in this season? I think that this season was BIP-lite and Nick, Shawn, and Kaitlyn were perfect for that. I predict a lot of trainwreck-y behavior from all three in the future.

Oh, just the 3 main players of the season .

chasingpavements wrote:
In general or those involved in this season? I think that this season was BIP-lite and Nick, Shawn, and Kaitlyn were perfect for that. I predict a lot of trainwreck-y behavior from all three in the future.

Where is the evidence to show that K&S and Nick are the same? K&S post drunk snapchats, K about roofie, and what not, tweeting to people that they are disgusting.
Nick has never posted a photo of him drunk etc.
As for Nick's tweet. The reason he deleted it was because it was being re-tweeted as him tweeting to get sex with Clare.
I would delete all tweets as well for that reason.

AllAboutLove wrote:

chasingpavements wrote:
In general or those involved in this season? I think that this season was BIP-lite and Nick, Shawn, and Kaitlyn were perfect for that. I predict a lot of trainwreck-y behavior from all three in the future.

Where is the evidence to show that K&S and Nick are the same? K&S post drunk snapchats, K about roofie, and what not, tweeting to people that they are disgusting.
Nick has never posted a photo of him drunk etc.
As for Nick's tweet. The reason he deleted it was because it was being re-tweeted as him tweeting to get sex with Clare.
I would delete all tweets as well for that reason.

Yeah, I don't think that Nick's tweet is even comparable to Kaitlyn's roofie joke, SC-ing while being almost blacked-out drunk, mocking JJ/Clint's sexuality, etc.

I just think that Nick also really enjoys the fame and attention. I think that he has this skill that most adults do, which is the ability to think before he acts or speaks (which Kaitlyn should really learn), so I don't think he comes off as such an idiot as the other two. Having said that, I just don't think this is the last we've seen of Nick. I just feel like he's going to continue to date reality TV stars, make comments in tabloids, cause drama on Twitter, be friends with Bachelor Nation, etc. He's just not going to disappear like Chantal or Emily O' Brien.

Kaitlyn and Shawn is in Vancouver. There is an article on mailonline.

reason wrote:Kaitlyn and Shawn is in Vancouver.  There is an article on mailonline.

Yep was posted on their fan thread. They also SnapChatted from the plane. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3185264/Bachelorette-Kaitlyn-Bristowe-s-fiance-Shawn-Booth-lays-cheeky-hand-derriere-wait-missing-luggage-airport-Vancouver.html