Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I think every one of us has been rude at one time or another. Add liquor to the mix. It certainly could have happened, imo. 
Does not make him an evil being IMO. Just human.

whit90 wrote:IMO This does not sound like Josh at all. I do not see him drunk in a bar going up to a young lady and saying these things. I think that his main problem of meeting a girl is he is to shy to do that. I have never once heard that he had ever been rude to anyone but his ex. I am not discrediting what the poster said. IMO That is not how Josh is ...JMO

I sort of agree, Whit. I don't really see him doing that either. Not discounting what the poster saw/heard. It's hard when you only get one side of the story. Just like with Andi's book. People paint him as a pig now, but don't stop to think of any of the things she said or did to him. I'm not saying he doesn't have his issues because I'm sure he does, but hard to believe for me, IMO.

That totally sounds like Josh. Didn't Jade say on snapchat sometime back Josh was drunk and arrogant when she met him, and she didn't like how he behaved.....

mysthelma wrote:That totally sounds like Josh. Didn't Jade say on snapchat sometime back Josh was drunk and arrogant when she met him, and she didn't like how he behaved.....

I recall this also, not that Jade is some sort of model of behavior herself. Oh Bach Nation. Nothing but depravity

Alanna wrote:

mysthelma wrote:That totally sounds like Josh. Didn't Jade say on snapchat sometime back Josh was drunk and arrogant when she met him, and she didn't like how he behaved.....

I recall this also, not that Jade is some sort of model of behavior herself. Oh Bach Nation. Nothing but depravity

I hadn't heard that. Maybe the old saying "where there's smoke, there's fire" ... Hopefully, Amanda will bring out a better side of Josh, for the sake of her girls.

I think Josh has many great qualities but is also a hothead, can be impulsive at times. I came to the conclusion not only by his edit in Andi's season but also from his sm.
I just remember a tweet from him last year after Nick's second rejection:
JoshAllanMurray , 7/27/15
Welp, let's see who the next Bachelorette is, 3rd times always a charm, you got this bud

That's so ironically prophetic! Good luck Josh, hope the 3rd tv show is a charm for you.

Alanna wrote:

mysthelma wrote:That totally sounds like Josh. Didn't Jade say on snapchat sometime back Josh was drunk and arrogant when she met him, and she didn't like how he behaved.....

I recall this also, not that Jade is some sort of model of behavior herself. Oh Bach Nation. Nothing but depravity

 The pot calling the kettle black!

Right about now Jade is not looking so good herself.    

I think Josh has a very high opinion of himself and could be obnoxious when drunk... BUT I also think he has some very good qualities as well.  Hopefully Josh and Amanda bring the best out in each other.  Sometimes happiness can balance out the rough edges.  I'm still rooting for Jam.    

JMO

I do think Josh has a temper but I also think he's probably a nice guy for the most part who wants to do better. I don't know if Jam will last or not but I do think it's real for him.

Also Alanna's post about Josh's dad being this mysterious creature we only hear about and never see made me laugh. #bigfoot

Well I've never watched BIP or BP but I'm certainly tuning in for this season. How could I resist seeing Josh and Nick co-exist; Lace "find love" and the spectacle of Evan and Carly.
As for Josh, I think it is sometimes too easy to judge on hearsay - I think he's basically a good guy - not perfect but then who is?

Don't Molly and Jason have beef with Josh too? If so, whoever suggested they talk to he and Amanda..forget about it  IMO. I also don't think Molly even liked/likes anyone from Ben's season..

sosleepy wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:^^Amanda's kids are brunettes

To be fair, under that bottle dye, I think mommy is a brunette too! Lets not tell Andi. She's so scared of Joshy getting with a blonde. Keep on dyeing that hair, Amanda!!

Amanda was born a blonde, but it most likely got darker as she got older, as is the case with a lot of blondes. She looked identical to her daughter Kinsley at her age, just with blonde hair. (Pics on IG.)

Btw, Amanda doesn't live with her parents. (IG and Twitter.)