Welcome!!

Become a Member of our site to be able to post and join in on the conversations!

A site for fans of The Bachelor & Bachelorette who enjoy

sleuthing and discussing Spoilers and Non Spoilers!

Join our site for updates on past contestants as well.

Discuss a variety of other shows, as well as International Bachelor and Bachelorette!


Enjoy!

MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Page 3 of 47 Previous  1, 2, 3, 4 ... 25 ... 47  Next

View previous topic View next topic Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by GuardianAngel on Sun Aug 07, 2016 3:57 pm

@Ruqibabe wrote:I would wait and see how it plays out

http://www.fyi.tv/shows/married-at-first-sight/videos/heather-is-concerned-about-dereks-smoking

Interesting, this link takes me to the fyi home page. I don't see Heather is concerned about Derek's smoking even if I put that link in the search bar or search part of the link.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________
"Have a nice life" . Gord Downie #TheHip



All Rules

Posts without source will be deleted.  

NO SPOILERS in any threads other than those titled Spoilers.  

GuardianAngel
Admin
Admin

Female Posts : 31184
Join date : 2011-04-04

http://www.bachandbachettefans.net

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by albean99 on Sun Aug 07, 2016 4:13 pm

@GuardianAngel wrote:
@Ruqibabe wrote:I would wait and see how it plays out

http://www.fyi.tv/shows/married-at-first-sight/videos/heather-is-concerned-about-dereks-smoking

Interesting, this link takes me to the fyi home page. I don't see Heather is concerned about Derek's smoking even if I put that link in the search bar or search part of the link.

It took me right to the video, GA. Is it because you're in Canada?

Marrying a smoker would have been a deal breaker for me. It sounds like Derek didn't admit smoking more than occasionally even if you don't count the supposed pot smoking. Funny that Dr. Pepper talked more of Heather saying she didn't mind an occasional smoker and seemed to put the onus on her to look past what she might consider faults. Maybe we didn't hear what she said about Derek though, to be fair.


"Love is the Only Reality" -Ed Lambton

albean99
Moderator
Moderator

Female Posts : 11567
Join date : 2011-06-01
Location : Plano, Tx

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by Ruqibabe on Sun Aug 07, 2016 4:19 pm

@albean99 wrote:
@GuardianAngel wrote:
@Ruqibabe wrote:I would wait and see how it plays out

http://www.fyi.tv/shows/married-at-first-sight/videos/heather-is-concerned-about-dereks-smoking

Interesting, this link takes me to the fyi home page. I don't see Heather is concerned about Derek's smoking even if I put that link in the search bar or search part of the link.

It took me right to the video, GA. Is it because you're in Canada?

Marrying a smoker would have been a deal breaker for me. It sounds like Derek didn't admit smoking more than occasionally even if you don't count the supposed pot smoking. Funny that Dr. Pepper talked more of Heather saying she didn't mind an occasional smoker and seemed to put the onus on her to look past what she might consider faults. Maybe we didn't hear what she said about Derek though, to be fair.

Yeap. That's why I said I would see how it plays out. I don't think Dr Pepper would be supporting Derek if it were really pot. I think there is more to this story.

I have a theory that she walked away and he got clean. They are dating now. Wishful thinking here. I just think these new experts would try to redeem this marriage.

Ruqibabe

Posts : 392
Join date : 2015-03-27

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by GuardianAngel on Sun Aug 07, 2016 4:55 pm

OOps maybe that's why I can't see the link. Usually it tells me I live in another country and it's forbidden, as if I'm stealing something. laugh out loud


___________________________________________________________________________________________________
"Have a nice life" . Gord Downie #TheHip



All Rules

Posts without source will be deleted.  

NO SPOILERS in any threads other than those titled Spoilers.  

GuardianAngel
Admin
Admin

Female Posts : 31184
Join date : 2011-04-04

http://www.bachandbachettefans.net

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by GuardianAngel on Sun Aug 07, 2016 10:04 pm

Watching epi 2 right now. They look good together. I hope they really gave it a chance. If it didn't work out, I hope it's not messy, and at least they tried.

I have not had a chance to check their SM's. I think sometimes that can be telling sometimes not.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________
"Have a nice life" . Gord Downie #TheHip



All Rules

Posts without source will be deleted.  

NO SPOILERS in any threads other than those titled Spoilers.  

GuardianAngel
Admin
Admin

Female Posts : 31184
Join date : 2011-04-04

http://www.bachandbachettefans.net

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by albean99 on Mon Aug 08, 2016 12:03 pm

I just don't see them as a good match even if he does quit smoking. Of course it may be that he's not my type at all and I'm projecting but they seem so different. It will be interesting to see it play out.


"Love is the Only Reality" -Ed Lambton

albean99
Moderator
Moderator

Female Posts : 11567
Join date : 2011-06-01
Location : Plano, Tx

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by jlccaz on Mon Aug 08, 2016 2:16 pm

Ok -- I saw the clip. The "SMOKING" red flag is "weed" in that conversation, I believe. If you insert "weed" or "pot" after someone says "smoking" including Dr. Pepper, I personally think the whole conversation makes more sense.

One joint a week vs one cigarette a week.

I'm ready to call it that the article is on the money -- she bails over a weed "habit" (because once a week is a habit ... and I bet it's more than that anyway).

Maybe in his eyes, etc. he even comes across as stoned on the wedding day, does anyone agree?

jlccaz

Posts : 2095
Join date : 2011-03-23

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by 2observe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 5:31 pm

@albean99 wrote:I just don't see them as a good match even if he does quit smoking. Of course it may be that he's not my type at all and I'm projecting but they seem so different. It will be interesting to see it play out.
Well they did have the least amount of wedding pictures on the abc site.

2observe

Female Posts : 2990
Join date : 2011-07-20

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by Ruqibabe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 6:05 pm

@jlccaz wrote:Ok -- I saw the clip.  The "SMOKING" red flag is "weed" in that conversation, I believe.  If you insert "weed" or "pot" after someone says "smoking" including Dr. Pepper, I personally think the whole conversation makes more sense.

One joint a week vs one cigarette a week.  

I'm ready to call it that the article is on the money -- she bails over a weed "habit" (because once a week is a habit ... and I bet it's more than that anyway).

Maybe in his eyes, etc. he even comes across as stoned on the wedding day, does anyone agree?  

Let us assume the rumor is true. Is it ok to just bail? I am sure most married people have terrible habits that their spouse hates. Porno watching or even drug use. Why not try to fix it before throwing in the towel? I am hoping she expressed her concern to him and not just the talking head. If after discussing it, there was no solution then maybe it's ok to walk away. However I have a feeling she ran because that was the easy way out. JMO


Last edited by Ruqibabe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 11:32 pm; edited 1 time in total

Ruqibabe

Posts : 392
Join date : 2015-03-27

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by GuardianAngel on Mon Aug 08, 2016 6:10 pm

IA @Ruqibabe. I prefer not to see another season where the wife or husband for that matter, just doesn't even want to try. What's her name was horrible, I couldn't watch how mean she was without even trying. It didn't matter at that point if he was a nice guy or not, her attitude was awful.

Whatever it is, I hope they give it an honest shot. If it's one a week or whatever it is a week, if he really wants it to work, then I would think he'd try to give it up.

I know for me that would be a deal breaker for sure. I don't mind compromising in life in general, but there are somethings, that I wouldn't.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________
"Have a nice life" . Gord Downie #TheHip



All Rules

Posts without source will be deleted.  

NO SPOILERS in any threads other than those titled Spoilers.  

GuardianAngel
Admin
Admin

Female Posts : 31184
Join date : 2011-04-04

http://www.bachandbachettefans.net

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by Ruqibabe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 6:34 pm

@GuardianAngel wrote:IA @Ruqibabe. I prefer not to see another season where the wife or husband for that matter, just doesn't even want to try. What's her name was horrible, I couldn't watch how mean she was without even trying. It didn't matter at that point if he was a nice guy or not, her attitude was awful.

Whatever it is, I hope they give it an honest shot. If it's one a week or whatever it is a week, if he really wants it to work, then I would think he'd try to give it up.

I know for me that would be a deal breaker for sure. I don't mind compromising in life in general, but there are somethings, that I wouldn't.

Agreed. I totally agreed that would definitely be a deal breaker for me. However if after getting married I find myself in this situation, I would ask for help immediately. Call the experts and communicate with my spouse. He did promise to do anything to make the marriage work. According to the preview, she said she didn't feel any chemistry yet. So I am thinking she just took the easy way out.
I pity him though. He was so excited after meeting her. He keeps posting their wedding pictures on twitter and instagram. He hasn't said a bad word or liked a bad comment about her (yet). He actually defended her on instagram when someone made a rude comment about her wedding dress.
Heather hasn't posted any wedding picture with him. She only posted with her friend and family. Even Ashley posted something during her time. Heather just doesn't seem like the forgiving type. None of her friends filmed Unfiltered with Jaime. I wonder why.


Last edited by Ruqibabe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 11:34 pm; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : Typo)

Ruqibabe

Posts : 392
Join date : 2015-03-27

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by 2observe on Mon Aug 08, 2016 11:30 pm

@Ruqibabe wrote:
@GuardianAngel wrote:IA @Ruqibabe. I prefer not to see another season where the wife or husband for that matter, just doesn't even want to try. What's her name was horrible, I couldn't watch how mean she was without even trying. It didn't matter at that point if he was a nice guy or not, her attitude was awful.

Whatever it is, I hope they give it an honest shot. If it's one a week or whatever it is a week, if he really wants it to work, then I would think he'd try to give it up.

I know for me that would be a deal breaker for sure. I don't mind compromising in life in general, but there are somethings, that I wouldn't.

Agreed. I totally agreed that would definitely be a deal breaker for me. However if after getting married I find myself in this situation, I would ask for help immediately. Call the experts and communicate with my spouse. He did promise to do anything to make the marriage work. According to the preview, she said she didn't find him attractive. So I am thinking she just took the easy way out.
I pity him though. He was so excited after meeting her. He keeps posting their wedding pictures on twitter and instagram. He hasn't said a bad word or liked a bad comment about her (yet). He actually defended her on instagram when someone made a rude comment about her wedding dress.
Heather hasn't posted any wedding picture with him. She only posted with her friend and family. Even Ashley posted something during her time. Heather just doesn't seem like the forgiving type. None of her friends filmed Unfiltered with Jaime. I wonder why.
Good point.

2observe

Female Posts : 2990
Join date : 2011-07-20

Back to top Go down

Re: MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Post by Sponsored content Today at 1:36 pm


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

Page 3 of 47 Previous  1, 2, 3, 4 ... 25 ... 47  Next

View previous topic View next topic Back to top

MAFS - Season 4 - Derek Schwartz - Heather Seidel

Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum