The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

northernviewer wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:she is so afraid of choosing Jordan and getting cheated on rather than choosing Robby who she knows is the safe choice.

She said if things got tough and it didnt work out .... Where did you get cheated on from?

Yea, she was basically what if'ing on both.  Basically if it didn't work out with one, she'd always wonder if she should've chosen the other and would that relationship have worked out better, IMO.

Alanna wrote:

SafronSahara wrote:She'll hate Jordan if he breaks her heart and be left wondering "what if? with Robby.

That is going to be such a bitter breakup if BBJ doesn't keep his promises. I don't think it's about cheating though, but totally about loving her and being committed to their relationship.

I believe he is proving it to her right now, post-show.

Ladybug82 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:she is so afraid of choosing Jordan and getting cheated on rather than choosing Robby who she knows is the safe choice.

She said if things got tough and it didnt work out .... Where did you get cheated on from?

Yea, she was basically what if'ing on both.  Basically if it didn't work out with one, she'd always wonder if she should've chosen the other and would that relationship have worked out better, IMO.

I think its a crap shoot all the leads face

GuardianAngel wrote:Good job Chase, you're moving right into the next lead!

I wouldn't mind him being the next lead. IMO there isn't much difference in his and Luke's showing of emoticons. I think either one of them would grow on us and make great leads. At least we wouldn't have to worry about drowning from the tears they cry. ; ) I respect Chase for coming back and saying the things he did. I just hope he grills her more at the MTA

Mommyof1 wrote:

Alanna wrote:

SafronSahara wrote:She'll hate Jordan if he breaks her heart and be left wondering "what if? with Robby.

That is going to be such a bitter breakup if BBJ doesn't keep his promises. I don't think it's about cheating though, but totally about loving her and being committed to their relationship.

I believe he is proving it to her right now, post-show.  

And even if he wasn't, the what if'ing with him is real. The what if'ing with Robby isn't real because he's the safe choice. Somewhere down the line, she'll meet another Robby if things with Baddy don't work out. But it's BBJ she really needed to take a chance on now.

Ladybug82 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:she is so afraid of choosing Jordan and getting cheated on rather than choosing Robby who she knows is the safe choice.

She said if things got tough and it didnt work out .... Where did you get cheated on from?

Yea, she was basically what if'ing on both.  Basically if it didn't work out with one, she'd always wonder if she should've chosen the other and would that relationship have worked out better, IMO.

The difference is that she only wondered what if with Robby if things didn't work out with Jordan. When she said she would wonder what if about Jordan, it wasn't contingent on Robby breaking her heart.

I wouldn't mind either one as the lead either. I've just always felt I wasn't sure if Luke would take it. Glad Chase got more confirmation of the next lead edit.

Although I'm sure MF will play them both.

northernviewer wrote:I think its a crap shoot all the leads face

Oh I agree.  I think Jo's just taking it to the extreme.  . They really did a number on her and pushed all buttons to get her to cry, whiny and be such a huge mess each episode and continue to doubt all of them, especially Baddy who she most wants.  JMO.

metalgirl wrote:He's proud of her?  For what?  That's incredibly stupid for him to be proud of her.  She's not his child.

He's proud that she's following her heart IMO..

Mommyof1 wrote:

Alanna wrote:

SafronSahara wrote:She'll hate Jordan if he breaks her heart and be left wondering "what if? with Robby.

That is going to be such a bitter breakup if BBJ doesn't keep his promises. I don't think it's about cheating though, but totally about loving her and being committed to their relationship.

I believe he is proving it to her right now, post-show.  

I hope so because insecurity gets old, speaking from experience. You get to a point, you could care less, tired of proving and you want out.

Same as I felt #26 would get tired of Diva Miss Author

Anyone else notice how pissed BBJ was when she said she had equally strong feelings for both of them? That's what I wanna see. Plus, kind of reminds me of Lauren's edit in the same scene last season saying she thinks it's possible that Ben was in love with both of them.

Ladybug82 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:I think its a crap shoot all the leads face

Oh I agree.  I think Jo's just taking it to the extreme.  . They really did a number on her and pushed all buttons to get her to cry, whiny and be such a huge mess each episode and continue to doubt all of them, especially Baddy who she most wants.  JMO.

For sure ... I think Ben did a number on her ....she just doesnt trust a bach bubble i love you ....it doesnt matter which guy said it .