Re: Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

by Ladybug82 Wed Sep 07, 2016 10:55 pm

mindless wrote:Regarding the bolded, the operative word is "date". It would be much less embarrassing if he realised these women weren't for him BEFORE proposing to them and promising his unconditional love forever just to be like "oops, you're not who I thought you were, so bye" a few months later. I know it's the show pushing for engagements, but he's already been through it once and was battling the fallout throughout his stay in Paradise, so he really should know better. Even if they surprise me by living happily ever after, I'll still think he's a total idiot for jumping in head first again, after less than 3 weeks with the woman.

A simple like is not enough! This, this, so this! yes

by Guest Wed Sep 07, 2016 10:56 pm

Laura Walsh wrote:
Fingersandtoes wrote:Didn't Josh tweet something about 'time to head back home' at some point, after he just went to visit Amanda, or moved to her place? That could've indicated a huge fight/break up. IMO.

Good thought, Fingersandtoes. Breaking up doesn't necessarily mean he actually moved out. Breaking up could be having a fight, calling it quits and then making up before the actual moving out occurs.

He did have an event to go to in Atlanta. He probably got paid to go to it and he still has friends in Atlanta so it does not necessarily mean they had a fight. He went right back after the event. We all really do not know.

by Guest Wed Sep 07, 2016 10:58 pm

Ladybug82 wrote:
mindless wrote:Regarding the bolded, the operative word is "date". It would be much less embarrassing if he realised these women weren't for him BEFORE proposing to them and promising his unconditional love forever just to be like "oops, you're not who I thought you were, so bye" a few months later. I know it's the show pushing for engagements, but he's already been through it once and was battling the fallout throughout his stay in Paradise, so he really should know better. Even if they surprise me by living happily ever after, I'll still think he's a total idiot for jumping in head first again, after less than 3 weeks with the woman.

A simple like is not enough! This, this, so this!

In my mind she has a ring and they are dating. The engagement does not start until they set a wedding date. This is just they way I view these relationships from Reality TV. They have said nothing about setting a wedding date and good for them to figure life out and see if they will be a good match long term. Then they can set a date... real engagement starts and then get married.

by bluwavz Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:04 pm

Ladybug82 wrote:
mindless wrote:Regarding the bolded, the operative word is "date". It would be much less embarrassing if he realised these women weren't for him BEFORE proposing to them and promising his unconditional love forever just to be like "oops, you're not who I thought you were, so bye" a few months later. I know it's the show pushing for engagements, but he's already been through it once and was battling the fallout throughout his stay in Paradise, so he really should know better. Even if they surprise me by living happily ever after, I'll still think he's a total idiot for jumping in head first again, after less than 3 weeks with the woman.

A simple like is not enough! This, this, so this!

Haha I didn't watch the shitshow last night but I did read what he said during his proposal to the Duhhh and how he didn't know what true love was (sorry Andi!) until he met her and blah blah blah and lordy I just can't with these folks. I know I'm just a dumbass commoner though. Who the hell am I to question true love after less than three weeks? cheeky

by Guest Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:28 pm

Amanda's mom replied to a comment that Amanda had to pay her ex I go to the hospital to visit and stay with Char. That certainly changes my perspective of their family dynamics. Being paid by your ex to visit your own child in the hospital is despicable!

by Ladybug82 Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:32 pm

And who knows if that's really true or them just trying to paint the ex to be the bad guy. After all, who needs him... They have Josh now. cheeky

JMO

by Kashathediva Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:33 pm

IMO It is equally despicable that a mother would involve herself in something like this and air dirty laundry.
What is put out on the internet lasts forever. You can not unring that bell.
Why would a loving grandmother(and I have no doubt that she is) do anything like that so that someday her granddaughters could hear/read this?
Personally, I do not understand the motivation of that. It's ignorant. IMO And none of her freaking business.

by mindless Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:42 pm

Ladybug82 wrote:And who knows if that's really true or them just trying to paint the ex to be the bad guy. After all, who needs him... They have Josh now.

JMO

I don't know what's true and what's not, but it seems pretty strange to me. It's not like Josh and Amanda had anything better to do than to be at the hospital, so why would she be so desperate to have the supposedly useless father there as well? You'd think she would've been happy not to see his face, if he refused to show up. Strange family dynamics indeed.

by Kashathediva Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:46 pm

Yep, it's nice to know there are plenty of other dysfunctional families out there besides my family of origin. :Nod:
Sometimes you just can't make this chit up.
We should start a new thread--airing dirty laundry and see what we come up with and give a tide award to the weirdest stuff each week. Our own BBF bleachable moments.
If ^ true I give it to DUH's mom for this week.
The acorn didn't fall far from the Oak.

by AllAboutLove Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:47 pm

Just when I think it couldn't get any worse.... both Josh and Amanda's mothers coming out the woodwork! no no

by Alanna Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:51 pm

Man, I really want that gramma to show up here and tell us what the Duh paid when Nick2 is the one paying HER alimony and paying for her car. Which, by the way, does Josh get to do now?

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:53 pm

I don't get it. Why would Amanda have to pay her ex to go stay with his daughter? Why couldn't she just stay there with her, like I would do. I wouldn't leave that child's side. I could care less who came to visit her, ex or no ex. My focus would be on my daughter, end of story.

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