Bachelor In Paradise - Season 4 - Episodes - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

yana_bach wrote:I've been in Kristina's position unfortunately, as have many girls, so even though I want to scream 'He's just not that into you! Let him go' to the screen, everyone has to come to that conclusion on their own  

Amethyst wrote:I don't have a major problem with Dean's behavior since dating can be a messy thing. OTOH, Kristina would be perfectly justified in saying, "I'm done here." I don't think that he could have been any clearer about where he was at with her. He liked her, but it was moving too fast for him. I do think he should have left her largely alone after his date with D Lo, though. Going back and forth from one woman to another wasn't very nice.

If anything, I think that BiP is highlighting his immaturity. He's just not ready for a serious relationship. The great thing about D Lo (beyond being his type,) is that she will keep it light and playful with him. She won't put any demands on him. I believe that's where he is at right now. They can smile and giggle at each other and have a great time together.

I really didn't like the shade being thrown at Nick last night. I agree with the others that Alexis should be grateful she was kept as long as she was. Any other season, she would have been out on the first night. And Dean, what makes Nick boring and you the fun guy? Call me curious. Is it his age?  

I was sorry to see Vinny go. Nick B. frustrated me. He doesn't seem to understand his type. He has a Master's degree in electrical engineering (I always notice the engineers, because I like smart guys, but they never get anywhere on this show,) and IMO would be a lot better suited to someone like Danielle M. who is gorgeous, well educated and classy. Instead he gravitates toward the sort of cheerleader/model types who won't give him the time of day, and who would probably bore him to tears in the long run. Iggy's got no game with women (how was he ever cast?) and Alex wasn't smart enough to cast his net wider early on.

Rachel and Adam together are sort of interesting. I get the feeling that Matt will bolt away from Jasmine at the earliest opportunity. Best line of the night, from D Lo to  Ben Z. - "How's the dog?" Second best, from Dean (?) to D Lo -- "You had ONE job."

casjacknick wrote:Not just Amanda and Robbie the only chemistry I see is Taylor and Derek and those two are just off doing their own thing (making out). No one even wants to hook up. They are just on vacation. Last week each girl should have just picked some random dude and said let's just give each other roses each week unless one of us falls for someone. Other than that we can just ignore each other. It makes for super boring TV but a nice couple week vacation with friends.

mizzoufan wrote:Kristina should have tried to get to know Ben Z

Luvstruck wrote:Maybe they are not even trying since they have to give consent on camera if they want to sleep together.