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Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - #5 - Discussion

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Post by Alanna on Tue Jul 31, 2018 6:03 pm

Kaitlyn just has a snap where she said, “if they need you temporarily, ignore them permanently.” After all the talk of Shawn needing her and her sm influence before opening his business, I can’t help but think this is directed at him.
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Post by Mozhi1 on Tue Jul 31, 2018 7:46 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I'm in Kaitlyns "Off the Vine" facebook page, a lot of speculations are happening there as well , but just now her sister liked this comment made by one of the girls in the page...
"She said that Shawn is just so busy right now and she gave her ring back and put it in the box so when they are both ready he will re-propose. and surprise her and then they will plan their wedding. She said Shawn gets home so late and then just goes to bed and she understands because it’s tough work. She also said Shawn can’t leave the gym for that long so he can’t join her in Canada this year.
Remember he was only supposed to launch the app and the gym was a total surprise he had come together super fast. They likely were not prepared for the hours he would need to put in."

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Post by sosleepy on Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:00 pm

Someone on Reddit hit the nail in the head for me. And this time last year, he was too busy focusing on the triathalon. Clearly he has the time for the things he wants to do. And marrying Kaitlyn, and prioritizing her clearly ain’t one of them. Once the gym is settled and he can manage to tear himself away, it’ll be the next thing, probably.
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Post by Alanna on Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:40 pm

Exactly, you make time for the things and the people who matter to you and it speaks volumes what Shawn makes time for and what he doesn’t imo. Idk. This is tough because she’s between a rock and a hard place right now imo- I’m sure she doesn’t want to leave the man she loves, the house she’s bought and spent a year decorating, a dog she cries over but I don’t see what choice she has?

Meanwhile, Shawn. Ughhhs all around imo laugh out loud
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Post by Kashathediva on Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:50 pm

And then again, I would imagine it would be totally exhausting living even a week with kaitlyn. Three years worth and he can count himself lucky he can still form words or isn’t in jail.


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Post by Alanna on Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:53 pm

No one is all that easy to love imo and we all have our crap. I don’t think Kaitlyn is any worse or more special than any of us and furthermore, she hasn’t changed. He knew what he was getting and swore he’d love her forever blahblah Bachelor talk.
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Post by sosleepy on Tue Jul 31, 2018 11:59 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:And then again, I would imagine it would be totally exhausting living even a week with kaitlyn. Three years worth and he can count himself lucky he can still form words or isn’t in jail.

I’m not disputing this, but if that’s the case and this is how he has grown to feel, grow a pair, be honest, and cut it off. Don’t string the woman along with “yeah, we’ll totally get married, it’s just only been 3 years, babe. We hardly know each other. Oh yeah, totally, yeah, I’ll repropose in some year and have your babies at some point. Definitely.” Not cool. Don’t put the person you supposedly love on hold like that. She’s in her 30’s. That’s not cool. Stop being a doucher and $hit or get off the pot. And because I agree, it is Kaitlyn and damn that had to be exhausting, I don’t think anyone would blame the guy if he got off the pot. I just don’t respect him trying to have it both ways.
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Post by Norcalgal on Wed Aug 01, 2018 12:09 am

Having social media speculate on your every move and motive has got to be damning. I hope that Kaitlin and Shawn do what's best for them and not succumb to fulfilling their fan's wishes and desires. Almost every woman, no matter how much she earns or how much she models feminist behavior, wants to be cherished. I'm sure Kaitlin is no different. Hopefully, this is a wake up call for Shawn.
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Post by Cocoasneeze on Wed Aug 01, 2018 6:04 am

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:And then again, I would imagine it would be totally exhausting living even a week with kaitlyn. Three years worth and he can count himself lucky he can still form words or isn’t in jail.

No one us forcing him to. He is free to leave, if that's how he feels.

She wants to be with him, marry him, build a life together. He seems to be prioritizing everything and anything but her. It's unfair on her, to make promises, that he most likely won't keep. It's on him to be honest with her, but right now I don't think he is. Imo.


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Post by Chgohighlife on Wed Aug 01, 2018 6:51 am

Truly, I’ve never rooted for this couple but, if Shawn just opened a new hands on business, a gym - which is a business that makes the kind of demands like a law or medical office or hair salon or other PERSONAL service - why on earth is Kaitlyn in Canada?? For a month? Why isn’t she at home helping him through this difficult start up period which by the way can last several years, not just a few weeks. IMO, He doesn’t have time to leave now. This is make or break. She should not be missing her dog because she should be home. What am I missing? Adults adapt. If she doesn’t understand a change in lifestyle, she better not ever have a baby. If she wants to follow her routine and be in Canada, then fine but STFU. JMO

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Post by bleuberry on Wed Aug 01, 2018 9:26 am

Legally Kaitlyn can't just stay, she's Canadian. She risks getting banned from going to the US for 10 years (happened to an acquaintance just last week!). This is serious.

However, Kaitlyn can say they're having issues because she's neglected and feels ignored and that they don't see each other, but if Shawn wasn't avoiding wedding talk like the plague, I assume the distance would be more bearable. It's the fact that he apparently doesn't want to marry her that makes all their issues probably worse. JMO.

It doesn't matter how annoying people find Kaitlyn IMO. Shawn can spend half a year training for a triathlon, and months (not to mention $$$$) opening a gym. A wedding can be planned in less time, for less money, and planned entirely by someone else (looking at Des and recently Tenley). Shawn literally can just get a suit. I call BS on his busy schedule.
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Post by sosleepy on Wed Aug 01, 2018 10:39 am

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] wrote:Legally Kaitlyn can't just stay, she's Canadian. She risks getting banned from going to the US for 10 years (happened to an acquaintance just last week!). This is serious.

However, Kaitlyn can say they're having issues because she's neglected and feels ignored and that they don't see each other, but if Shawn wasn't avoiding wedding talk like the plague, I assume the distance would be more bearable. It's the fact that he apparently doesn't want to marry her that makes all their issues probably worse. JMO.

It doesn't matter how annoying people find Kaitlyn IMO. Shawn can spend half a year training for a triathlon, and months (not to mention $$$$) opening a gym. A wedding can be planned in less time, for less money, and planned entirely by someone else (looking at Des and recently Tenley). Shawn literally can just get a suit. I call BS on his busy schedule.


Yep. Not to mention the fact that if he married her, she’s legit be able to stay in the US without having to monitor her days and get back to Canada. Their OG plan was always Nashville most of the year, a couple months in Canada in the summer. Obviously life happens and plans change, and he’s opening a business and blah, blah, blah, but it seems Shawn can’t even follow through on that. 

A marriage, in this case, is also logistically important and could lend a lot more flexibility to them. I don’t get him and his weird hang ups. You are “life partnering” with someone from a different country and America isn’t exactly pro-immigrant these days and super flexible with letting foreigners just do whatever. If you are willing to procreate with someone and stay together indefinitely, what is the big deal with signing a marriage license?  In this case, it makes their lives easier. Go to therapy, Shawn, and get over it. And I agree with Bleu, if he agrees to that, I’m sure Kaitlyn is fine either forgoing Canada this year to help with the gym, or going to Canada alone ... cause she has the ring and the commitment, so who cares.
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