Bachelor Canada Season 3 - Chris Leroux - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2

Aunties_Love wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:
I completely agree with the whole post and I agree with it being a turnoff and IMO it has NOTHING to do with the Bachelor.


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I have an aunt and friends that are lesbian and it doesn't bother me one bit.  Been around my aunt all my life as well as her "girls", BUT when we see that Lynds friend that she's known since childhood is in a committed happy relationship with a guy(as per many pics on her IG), Lynds is with guys in her past, why should we drag her friend and her friend's relationship with the boyfriend in this in such a manor that may be construed as completely WRONG.  IMO, that is taking things to extreme that we just shouldn't do.  IMO, it's not enhancing the sleuthing for this season.  AND further more, I  KNOW how damaging it can be to someone else's relationship to bring this to it.  Been there done that by watching my aunt's friend that isn't a lesbian or bi for that matter got drug into crap that jeopardized their relationship just because my aunt was her friend.  Is this fair to them?  I know I am taking this personal as I have seen how personal things can get when this type of stuff happens

Stepping off my soap box now but I hope we can treat the friend and her boyfriend with some respect.

IMO, If said boyfriend of the girlfriend is ok with the public declarations and full on kissing pictures on their instagrams - these little obscure postings will not concern him.

Then IMO, when these inferences are brought into their lives by other sm venues and other people's opinions, it can matter greatly.  I watched a marriage and family almost be ripped apart by stuff that's said.  IMO, it's not our right to do it when IMO, it`s not our(the viewers) business to do so. IMO.

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I disagree and IMO ALL of the conclusions are based upon Lyndsey's and her girlfriend's postings on SM so, we are not responsible for reaching the conclusion she set up. If you post a picture of yourself slopping hogs and feeding chickens and then harvesting crops and milking a cow - you'd have to be stupid to be shocked and offended that people surmise you live on a farm. These images and postings are equally direct, IMO. The chips will fall wherever they may. I'm not going to pretend to be concerned. JMO

They posted it for all the world to see. She is on a reality TV show.

She enjoys the attention and to get people talking and debating.

She succeeded. Even her wine lables you can debate the hell out of them. Whatever!!

I personally dont give an F. This whole season was a waste of my time IMO. Ugh..

Chgohighlife wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

IMO, If said boyfriend of the girlfriend is ok with the public declarations and full on kissing pictures on their instagrams - these little obscure postings will not concern him.

Then IMO, when these inferences are brought into their lives by other sm venues and other people's opinions, it can matter greatly.  I watched a marriage and family almost be ripped apart by stuff that's said.  IMO, it's not our right to do it when IMO, it`s not our(the viewers) business to do so. IMO.

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I disagree and IMO ALL of the conclusions are based upon Lyndsey's and her girlfriend's postings on SM so, we are not responsible for reaching the conclusion she set up. If you post a picture of yourself slopping hogs and feeding chickens and then harvesting crops and milking a cow - you'd have to be stupid to be shocked and offended that people surmise you live on a farm. These images and postings are equally direct, IMO. The chips will fall wherever they may. I'm not going to pretend to be concerned. JMO

See, right there with the bolded, why call her a girlfriend vs a friend? Couldnt' that be considered as a label? Conclusion is another word. IMO, it was reached without facts involved. IMO.

Aunties_Love wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:
Then IMO, when these inferences are brought into their lives by other sm venues and other people's opinions, it can matter greatly.  I watched a marriage and family almost be ripped apart by stuff that's said.  IMO, it's not our right to do it when IMO, it`s not our(the viewers) business to do so. IMO.

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I disagree and IMO ALL of the conclusions are based upon Lyndsey's and her girlfriend's postings on SM so, we are not responsible for reaching the conclusion she set up. If you post a picture of yourself slopping hogs and feeding chickens and then harvesting crops and milking a cow - you'd have to be stupid to be shocked and offended that people surmise you live on a farm. These images and postings are equally direct, IMO. The chips will fall wherever they may. I'm not going to pretend to be concerned. JMO

See, right there with the bolded, why call her a girlfriend vs a friend?  Couldnt' that be considered as a label?  Conclusion is another word.  IMO, it was reached without facts involved.  IMO.

Look down. Neither of us have a fact to stand on. That’s why every post is sprinkled with ‘IMO’. IMO.

@aunties_love FYI referring to someone as a girlfriend does not imply relationship......plenty of women refer to their women friends as girlfriends....jmho.

And on another note IMO no one is going to change anyone's mind so continuously trying to prove to posters that they shouldn't have the opinions they are posting as @guardianangel has posted many times already is not really needed. If folks are offended about opinions rendered about these contestants, might as well choose to skip the thread altogether......jmho

GuardianAngel wrote:Everyone has different opinions, and I respect them all, and would never try to convince anyone of anything. That's who I am in general. I enjoy reading different opinions, and often times something is posted that I never thought of, so it's all good IMHO.

I have very good friends, some for over 35 yrs, 2 in particular, I love them both. I would never do what Lindsay did with her friend, let alone post them on SM. That's me, maybe that's normal, it's not for me. Therefore I can understand the speculation. I have no prejudice towards any sexuality. My nephew is gay, my very good friend's son is gay. I know what he went through growing up. IMO speculating sexuality based on what that person themselves posted on SM, I don't consider a bad thing. What if she is bisexual? I see nothing wrong with that. To me saying that it's not very nice to say, sounds like there's something wrong with it, and IMO there's nothing wrong with it.  We are all respectful. That's just the way I see it.

@GuardianAngel thanks for posting and saying this. I truly enjoy the forum here up and until almost every time I post MY OPINION others come behind me telling me how wrong I am for feeling that way and thinking that way. Why?? Is it not my right to have my OWN opinion and to state it if I feel like doing so?? I've gotten to where I hesitate to even try to join in on the convo's here for that main reason.

I know when it gets down to the F2 things can get a little heated on here, but I try my best to never make someone feel like their thoughts aren't just as important as my own are. Since I rarely keep up with these Bach and Ette people after the show goes off because I know how rarely they ever stay together, I do like to ever now and then post about how I see the edit playing out, but it seems like if my opinion aren't in favor of the "popular" one then I get shot down and discounted..

To me if somebody sees something different than I do that's great. Difference of opinions is what makes the world go around. How boring would it be if we all saw the same thing in black and white? Sometimes there's a little gray area that needs to be looked at.

I guess what I'm trying to say is we ALL need to be respectful of others even if they don't see things the same as you do. It doesn't mean that either one of you are wrong. That's all and thank you. ; )

Maybe it will be best to cool down a little and focus on something else for now.

Did anyone catch Jessie's live on IG this morning? She have Lyndsey on and Lynds slipped on the Jan 5th trip and Jessie sort of hint/warn her to keep mum about it (although I don't understand why since it is common knowledge by now). The only thing I am confident is the trip is definitely happening.

Other things include someone asking about who Chris is engaged to, Lynds joked and said Rooney ( the dog as he was on the bed with her). They also joked about Jessie is dating Catie now and Jess say everyone in the Bach is "dating"everyone except Chris which its kinda true since the girls are really close. ( I thought this comment is interesting but it can be nothing). Mentioned Lynds finale viewing party and that's about it. There were  some technical problem and the live ended abruptly.

I couldn't tell whether she is F1 but the vibe I am getting lately is no one is with Chris right now. This whole season is getting a little weird and I got a inkling feeling that Chris will not end up looking very good at the end. JMO.

LoveDovez wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Everyone has different opinions, and I respect them all, and would never try to convince anyone of anything. That's who I am in general. I enjoy reading different opinions, and often times something is posted that I never thought of, so it's all good IMHO.

I have very good friends, some for over 35 yrs, 2 in particular, I love them both. I would never do what Lindsay did with her friend, let alone post them on SM. That's me, maybe that's normal, it's not for me. Therefore I can understand the speculation. I have no prejudice towards any sexuality. My nephew is gay, my very good friend's son is gay. I know what he went through growing up. IMO speculating sexuality based on what that person themselves posted on SM, I don't consider a bad thing. What if she is bisexual? I see nothing wrong with that. To me saying that it's not very nice to say, sounds like there's something wrong with it, and IMO there's nothing wrong with it.  We are all respectful. That's just the way I see it.

@GuardianAngel thanks for posting and saying this. I truly enjoy the forum here up and until almost every time I post MY OPINION others come behind me telling me how wrong I am for feeling that way and thinking that way. Why?? Is it not my right to have my OWN opinion and to state it if I feel like doing so?? I've gotten to where I hesitate to even try to join in on the convo's here for that main reason.

I know when it gets down to the F2 things can get a little heated on here, but I try my best to never make someone feel like their thoughts aren't just as important as my own are. Since I rarely keep up with these Bach and Ette people after the show goes off because I know how rarely they ever stay together, I do like to ever now and then post about how I see the edit playing out, but it seems like if my opinion aren't in favor of the "popular" one then I get shot down and discounted..

To me if somebody sees something different than I do that's great. Difference of opinions is what makes the world go around. How boring would it be if we all saw the same thing in black and white? Sometimes there's a little gray area that needs to be looked at.

I guess what I'm trying to say is we ALL need to be respectful of others even if they don't see things the same as you do. It doesn't mean that either one of you are wrong. That's all and thank you. ; )

It is so sad that the sleuthing ends at this time in every season. I will sleuth until the finale. I wish I could find a link to watch WTA and the teaser. What I can see from the SC in non thread what was shown is Lyndsey the only girl that did an LCD activity. They didn't show one with Mikaela only the emotional obstable / issue with Chris. In Bach Can Season 1 they showed Whitney's activity and the emotional goodbye before FRC. So, will Lyndsey get the first LCD and then Chris' decides to talk with Mikaela. -OR- Does Mikaela get the first LCD date and then Lyndsey second and then Chris' goes to chat with Mik. OH, I miss the days of sleuthing to the end :shootme:

4health wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Everyone has different opinions, and I respect them all, and would never try to convince anyone of anything. That's who I am in general. I enjoy reading different opinions, and often times something is posted that I never thought of, so it's all good IMHO.

I have very good friends, some for over 35 yrs, 2 in particular, I love them both. I would never do what Lindsay did with her friend, let alone post them on SM. That's me, maybe that's normal, it's not for me. Therefore I can understand the speculation. I have no prejudice towards any sexuality. My nephew is gay, my very good friend's son is gay. I know what he went through growing up. IMO speculating sexuality based on what that person themselves posted on SM, I don't consider a bad thing. What if she is bisexual? I see nothing wrong with that. To me saying that it's not very nice to say, sounds like there's something wrong with it, and IMO there's nothing wrong with it.  We are all respectful. That's just the way I see it.

@GuardianAngel thanks for posting and saying this. I truly enjoy the forum here up and until almost every time I post MY OPINION others come behind me telling me how wrong I am for feeling that way and thinking that way. Why?? Is it not my right to have my OWN opinion and to state it if I feel like doing so?? I've gotten to where I hesitate to even try to join in on the convo's here for that main reason.

I know when it gets down to the F2 things can get a little heated on here, but I try my best to never make someone feel like their thoughts aren't just as important as my own are. Since I rarely keep up with these Bach and Ette people after the show goes off because I know how rarely they ever stay together, I do like to ever now and then post about how I see the edit playing out, but it seems like if my opinion aren't in favor of the "popular" one then I get shot down and discounted..

To me if somebody sees something different than I do that's great. Difference of opinions is what makes the world go around. How boring would it be if we all saw the same thing in black and white? Sometimes there's a little gray area that needs to be looked at.

I guess what I'm trying to say is we ALL need to be respectful of others even if they don't see things the same as you do. It doesn't mean that either one of you are wrong. That's all and thank you. ; )

It is so sad that the sleuthing ends at this time in every season.  I will sleuth until the finale.  I wish I could find a link to watch WTA and the teaser.  What I can see from the SC in non thread what was shown is Lyndsey the only girl that did an LCD activity.  They didn't show one with Mikaela only the emotional obstable / issue with Chris.   In Bach Can Season 1 they showed Whitney's activity and the emotional goodbye before FRC.    So, will Lyndsey get the first LCD and then Chris' decides to talk with Mikaela. -OR- Does Mikaela get the first LCD date and then Lyndsey second and then Chris' goes to chat with Mik.   OH, I miss the days of sleuthing to the end :shootme:

@4health, gimme a minute. Looking into something.

4health wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Everyone has different opinions, and I respect them all, and would never try to convince anyone of anything. That's who I am in general. I enjoy reading different opinions, and often times something is posted that I never thought of, so it's all good IMHO.

I have very good friends, some for over 35 yrs, 2 in particular, I love them both. I would never do what Lindsay did with her friend, let alone post them on SM. That's me, maybe that's normal, it's not for me. Therefore I can understand the speculation. I have no prejudice towards any sexuality. My nephew is gay, my very good friend's son is gay. I know what he went through growing up. IMO speculating sexuality based on what that person themselves posted on SM, I don't consider a bad thing. What if she is bisexual? I see nothing wrong with that. To me saying that it's not very nice to say, sounds like there's something wrong with it, and IMO there's nothing wrong with it.  We are all respectful. That's just the way I see it.

@GuardianAngel thanks for posting and saying this. I truly enjoy the forum here up and until almost every time I post MY OPINION others come behind me telling me how wrong I am for feeling that way and thinking that way. Why?? Is it not my right to have my OWN opinion and to state it if I feel like doing so?? I've gotten to where I hesitate to even try to join in on the convo's here for that main reason.

I know when it gets down to the F2 things can get a little heated on here, but I try my best to never make someone feel like their thoughts aren't just as important as my own are. Since I rarely keep up with these Bach and Ette people after the show goes off because I know how rarely they ever stay together, I do like to ever now and then post about how I see the edit playing out, but it seems like if my opinion aren't in favor of the "popular" one then I get shot down and discounted..

To me if somebody sees something different than I do that's great. Difference of opinions is what makes the world go around. How boring would it be if we all saw the same thing in black and white? Sometimes there's a little gray area that needs to be looked at.

I guess what I'm trying to say is we ALL need to be respectful of others even if they don't see things the same as you do. It doesn't mean that either one of you are wrong. That's all and thank you. ; )

It is so sad that the sleuthing ends at this time in every season.  I will sleuth until the finale.  I wish I could find a link to watch WTA and the teaser.  What I can see from the SC in non thread what was shown is Lyndsey the only girl that did an LCD activity.  They didn't show one with Mikaela only the emotional obstable / issue with Chris.   In Bach Can Season 1 they showed Whitney's activity and the emotional goodbye before FRC.    So, will Lyndsey get the first LCD and then Chris' decides to talk with Mikaela. -OR- Does Mikaela get the first LCD date and then Lyndsey second and then Chris' goes to chat with Mik.   OH, I miss the days of sleuthing to the end :shootme:

Thank you. I think we all need to stop and realize behind each screen name here there is a real live human being behind it with thoughts and feelings just like we ourselves have. At this time of the year people's emotions are all over the place anyway so if we see somebody post something they feel strongly about we should realize they have a reason to.

I miss the good ole sleuthing right up until the end, too. I have always admired the people that are so good at it. They truly amaze me at times.

I can see why you are seeing the way you are. I wish they had given us a little more info on the finale. If they stick with past editing he may let Mik or Lindsey go early. Since I watch the show online I don't ever get to see the previews. ; (

@LoveDovez I watch it online when someone shares it.  I am in the US and can't watch it or the teaser.  So, I am waiting patiently to see where to watch it.  

4health wrote:@LoveDovez I watch it online when someone shares it.  I am in the US and can't watch it or the teaser.  So, I am waiting patiently to see where to watch it.  

@4health I'm in the US, too so I feel ya. It normally doesn't bother me to have to wait to watch it later until the finale night. Then it sure does. ; )