Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Episode 4 - June 18th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Kels0012 wrote:Colton is such a faker.

northernviewer wrote:every time I hear them pronounce Jean Blanc’s name I chuckle ..
I’m Canadian...lots of French names here .... and the “c” is silent people

Kolormiblnd wrote:

Sprite wrote:

nananana wrote:Re G's marriage: What if it was emotional abuse? What if he was a victim?
I'm not putting the blame of the relationship on either party because lets be honest, this is a highly edited reality TV show featuring 1 minute of commentary by only 1 side of the marriage. We'll probably never know the full story and TBH it's not our story to know. But I'm not going to blame Garrett for saying what he said.

Well, here is Wills break up story and he seems to put all the blame on the ex as well. I don't think it is all that uncommon...people want to put themselves forward in the best light....particularly on a tv show. I'm willing to give them some slack....for now. I reserve the right to change my mind in the future.

I see what you are saying. I heard a lot of oversharing and placing blame on the absent party. Willis story flowed better in the telling than Garrett's and I didn't feel that Willis tried to draw unconscious parallels with either of Becca's situations. JMO

richmondrose wrote:

Kolormiblnd wrote:I know the spoiler, I see the obse-infat-chemistry on my screen but, I am having a hard time believing it. Is it just me?

No, you're not alone. I can't believe such a smart girl is so stupid.

northernviewer wrote:

pbmax wrote:

northernviewer wrote:I’m just not enjoying anything about this season ... knowing what I know about her from Aries season and then who she picks as F1 ...plus I don’t like any of the guys who’ll probably be next lead ....basically I’m just rubbernecking watching this season ....

I'm learning a little bit more about her tonight...she can flip things real quick when she's caught in her b's. She flip the script on John and put the blame on him. No what he was basically saying, if she knew that she had no feelings for him and didn't see any developing, why did she accept his gift. Now she's gonna play the victim card...and play I'm so mad. Please!

I think that whole Jean thing was part him feeling like it was a competition ( she should know all about that!) and then him saying he didn’t really mean it was him saving face after she said that she wasn’t there and it was time for him to leave .. what did she expect?  Some begging?!

Wills explaining his breakup was him saying she cheated on him ..... that’s clear cut ..she either did or she didn’t ... Garrett saying he was emotionally abused ... his words ... well that’s debatable depending on who you talk to I guess .. and a lot harder to prove or disprove ...

facelessblood wrote:Lol like anything Garrett said about his ex wife was any different than what others have said. I get wanting to hear both sides of the story but completely dismissing and accusing him of lying about being in an emotional abusive relationship is sad.

northernviewer wrote:@pbmax I think what he said to her was that he told her what she wanted to hear ... that doesn’t necessarily mean that he didn’t mean it .... personally I think she was acting a little paranoid and made a bigger deal of it .... he also could have been trying to save face too.... air know I probably would a little if I was literally being shown the door.